in the wake of this tragedy do we really know our breaking point ?

[rudecat]

How many of work.to the point of exaustion, see such pain and sadness in our workplace (its not all perfect) and think we are dealing with it quite well? At what point do we stop and reflect . That we look at us.without feeling the caregiver guilt. This is not saying we don't love our jobs but are we loving it to the point of our own wellbeing ?

[CountryMomma, ASN, RN]

Omg. Could we please just stop with the grammar checks? Go post that crap on the "Why does" thread.

I get what 2k15 is trying to say, despite the way she wrote it, and I can understand where she is coming from. That's the magic of reading comprehension and empathy. I've said a few times that in my family, my marriage comes first, then kids, because without that solid foundation of a happy, secure marriage my ability to effectively and happily provide for my kids drops terribly. That doesn't mean I don't love my kids.

Just because people prioritize differently does mean they are wrong, bad people. They are just different, and that's not an automatic reason to mock their writing and discourage their participation.

[klone, MSN, RN]

I've said a few times that in my family, my marriage comes first, then kids, because without that solid foundation of a happy, secure marriage my ability to effectively and happily provide for my kids drops terribly. That doesn't mean I don't love my kids..

I feel the same way. In my first marriage, it was the opposite. I quit my job and put my heart, soul and breath into raising my kids. And we are now divorced.

[Farawyn]

Omg. Could we please just stop with the grammar checks? Go post that crap on the "Why does" thread.

I get what 2k15 is trying to say, despite the way she wrote it, and I can understand where she is coming from. That's the magic of reading comprehension and empathy. I've said a few times that in my family, my marriage comes first, then kids, because without that solid foundation of a happy, secure marriage my ability to effectively and happily provide for my kids drops terribly. That doesn't mean I don't love my kids.

Just because people prioritize differently does mean they are wrong, bad people. They are just different, and that's not an automatic reason to mock their writing and discourage their participation.

You are right. 100%. Sorry all.

[Farawyn]

****. The tears won. *********. I feel like we're all broken. Will we ever heal?

((((Klone))))

[rudecat]

I was referring to zcountrymommas story about the nurse who is involved in everything to do right. I said I understand.