It might be because I am a CNA and many of my clients are elder,or it might be that my parents pounded into me how to respect my elders. But I feel very upset when I see people being rude or disrespectful to an elderly person especially when it can be their own parents.
I was at the grocery store this afternoon and I was getting just a few items. I was walking behind a Lady who was using a cane and a guy was pushing a cart that was about two to three steps ahead of her. She was somewhat in the middle of the aile so I felt I could not go around her comfortably and was afraid I might bump her and put her off balance so I just was patiently walking behind her and I had no problem doing so. The guy happen to have seen me and very gruffly said mom there is someone behind you move. Well the dear was so startled she jumped and almost lost her balance . CNA mode kicked in and I put a gentle arm on her to steady her and said it was alright she was fine. She looked apprective and gave a gentle smile. As I turned down another aisle I could hear him yelling at her you don't need that. Not sure what the dear wanted to put in her cart but goodness if she is on a stricked budget there are better ways to tell her no. I could just tell this man had to bring his mother to the store and was not in a good mood to do it.
I see these type of things and I just have to bite my tongue so hard. I just want to go up in this man's face and let him have it. It bothers me so much to have people talk to their elders this way. Sick to my stomach I tell you.