Suicide Is Not Your Answer

Nurses and other healthcare professionals have higher-than-average rates of suicide due to elevated stress levels combined with the high-stakes pressure of our lines of work. However, suicide is not the answer to one's problems. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

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"Suicide does not end the chances of life getting worse; Suicide eliminates the possibility of it ever getting better." -- Unknown

Many people in the nursing community remember either hearing or reading about Jacintha Saldanha, the nurse who killed herself in 2012 after being tricked into releasing personal health information by two Australian disc jockeys posing as members of the Royal Family over the phone. Then there's Kimberly Hiatt, the Seattle area registered nurse who took her own life in 2011, mere months after making a medication error that resulted in the overdose and eventual death of a frail eight-month old infant.

Kimberly Hiatt was a good nurse by all accounts. She had 24 years of experience in the neonatal intensive care unit, and prior to the fatal medication error that occurred in September 2010, her record was free of any negative incidents. After attempting to place myself in her shoes, I can sense the profound despondency she experienced throughout the last months of her life. For starters, she must have felt deeply horrified that the medication error led to a baby's demise. Secondly, the hospital where she had given 24 years of dedicated service terminated her longtime employment and referred her license number to the state board of nursing after the infant's heartbreaking death. Finally, the BON in the state where she practiced was conducting an investigation into the matter, so she ran the real risk of having formal action taken against her nursing license.

She was tormented over the loss of a young patient's life. She was heartbroken over losing a job she loved. She was agonizing over the potential end of a career that defined her adult life. At age 50, Kimberly Hiatt was watching herself disappear from the world and wanted the pain to end.

Suicide is defined as the deliberate taking of one's own life. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, suicide was the tenth leading cause of death in the United States in 2009, responsible for bringing about nearly 37,000 new fatalities during that year alone. In fact, suicides have been outnumbering homicides as a top cause of death in recent years.

Nurses are at risk for suicide due to the high-stakes, high-pressure, stressful nature of our work. The suicide rate for nurses is 0.11 deaths per 1000, which soars above the 0.07 suicide rate for the general population. So what steers a nurse toward taking his / her own life? In many instances it's because the nurse feels enduring despair after making a mistake that led to a patient's demise. Also, depression is a strong risk factor.

Other healthcare professionals have high suicide rates, too. For instance, physicians are nearly two times more likely to take their own lives than people in other careers. More health-related occupations whose members commit suicide at higher-than-average rates include pharmacists, dentists, veterinarians and chiropractors.

If you ever feel despondent, please do not take your life. You might feel depressed, but depression lies to you. You might be fearful of the future, but fear lies to you. We live in a society where a person can do a million good deeds during his / her lifetime, but those Monday morning armchair quarterbacks rip into your soul for the one major action you took that went terribly wrong. Do not listen to your negative thoughts when making the next move regarding your life, and most importantly, do not listen to negative people who do not care about you. Review the objective facts of your situation and promptly get help if you're considering suicide.

Call 1(800)-SUICIDE and talk to a caring person on the other end of the line. Visit a 24-hour crisis center or hospital to obtain help. Seek out people who care, such as family members or supportive friends. Always remember that light is at end of that dark tunnel. Always be mindful that when you've reached rock bottom, the only way to go is up. Whatever you do, we urge you to not kill yourself because your life has intrinsic value.

RESOURCES

The 19 Jobs Where You're Most Likely To Kill Yourself - Business Insider

CDC National Suicide Statistics

Lifeline

Specializes in Transitional Nursing.

As someone who has been personally affected by suicide, this all really strikes home with me. The long term affects suicide has on the people left behind can be devastating. It is so, so sad that we don't address mental health in this country. So many people end thier lives needlessly because they truly don't see another way out. We have the means to offer them another way out but its so hard and sometimes impossible to do it. I have a good friend who needs to see a therapist, and without insurance its over 200 dollars a session!?!? I don't understand that and I think its absolutely disgusting to charge that kind of money to people who NEED the services provided to CONTINUE LIVING. It sickens me. I really want to try to get involved in this cause somehow some way.

I had a subordinate that made an attempt. Unfortunately, there was several staff who felt she should be let go. Missed time at work while in the hospital and after. I wouldn't terminate, that nurse was one of the best I had ever met. There had never been a mistake at work, but that person had a hard home life. Compassion in nursing is a missing commodity.

Thank you, Commuter.

But nowhere in your original post was this stated or referenced. This conversation would not have happened had that been the case. As a precautionary advice; if you did not see it, if it did not happen to you directly, then you cannot "speak" as though it did.

It is a dishonest and misleading thing to do.

It is very acceptable to write from your point of view though and thanks for sourcing out your reference:yes:

Leave Commuter alone. She wrote a very informative and well needed post. Why is there a grammar or APA police in every thread. I feel like I need to run my posts through turnitin.com before posting here. This is not the time or the place. Would it have hurt you to keep your comments to yourself. Geesh.

That is exactly why I never want to work in a terrible spot again.

Specializes in LTC,out patient clinics, hospital.

Since a recent termination from my job, I have considered taking my life several times over the past 2 weeks. The charge was insubordination (hung the phone up on my DON) the conversation ended without goodbye; I called to ask her for help she replied by saying "just fix it" and was frustrated by my continuous request for accountability and proficiency by the team. I was the dumping ground due to my experience I was expected to do more and accept less from the other nurses. Death seems to be the answer to the agonizing despair and pain that challenges my thoughts daily.

Since a recent termination from my job, I have considered taking my life several times over the past 2 weeks. The charge was insubordination (hung the phone up on my DON) the conversation ended without goodbye; I called to ask her for help she replied by saying "just fix it" and was frustrated by my continuous request for accountability and proficiency by the team. I was the dumping ground due to my experience I was expected to do more and accept less from the other nurses. Death seems to be the answer to the agonizing despair and pain that challenges my thoughts daily.

I hope that you find the support you need. Call a hotline just to talk, its free and maybe good to vent 1-800-273-8255. Lots of prayers and good thoughts going your way.

Specializes in Vents, Telemetry, Home Care, Home infusion.
Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain

US: are you in crisis? call 1-800-273-talk or chat

To those in emotional pain, please see our resources under Psych Nursing:

Stress, Depression, Suicide and Mental Health Resources

Specializes in pediatrics; PICU; NICU.

I have suffered severe depression since I was 7 years old. In the early 1990's I made 2 very serious attempts (the first one very nearly succeeded). After the 2nd attempt, I did a lot of soul searching & came to the conclusion that it simply was not my time to die, that there must be something more I'm supposed to accomplish here. I decided that if those 2 serious attempts had not worked there's not much point in trying it again. In 2005 I was diagnosed with bipolar 2 & finally found medication that works for me. Every once in a while when things get really tough, the thought that I'd be better off dead still goes through my mind but I no longer feel the need to act on it.

It IS all about ending whatever pain you are in at the time. I never judge anyone who tells me they've thought about or attempted suicide because I completely understand what brings people to that point.

First of all, I might **** some of you but just thought I would comment on this topic. A serious question that you should ask yourself is what would you do if this was you. Career you loved gone, depression, articles about you on the newspaper, maybe lost friends/family or significantly damaged the relationship, some people (few) in the general public that don't know what nursing entails probably out to get you and the list goes on and on and on. Would you REALLY want to leave like this. What would you really do? I asked my friends (nurses and general) and most said they would do the same. I think I would to. I wouldbt want to live with such torment, pain or whatever you may wish to call it. Suicide is not the answer but what would you do. Second, would we (nurses) react differently if the headline read " lesbian nurse gets another job after killing infant." I bet you most of us would recommend her not to be a nurse any more. Just my honest thoughts.

Specializes in LTC,out patient clinics, hospital.

Thanks Carrie, I'm still here another day. I will continue to focus on better days.

Focus on the positive it's important. Sometimes the posters on here are mean, but I am available if you need support. I have practiced in many setting LTC too. I have been a nurse about 15 years, social worker before that.

Specializes in LTC, HomeCare.

Great job commuter with bringing out this topic. I can't believe that some people are more interested in finding faults in your writing style rather than understanding or commenting on the positive aspects of your post. Life is about seeing the glass half full, not half empty and although this may be very difficult to do, one must obtain all the support from family and friends to get over such depression. Lovely post and I am sure it will help people who may be in depression.