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I got burned by a swap pretty bad. Ended up costing me my job. Was a regular evening shift nurse. Agreed to work this girl's night shift for her. End of shift comes, end they need to mandate. Who does it go to? Me, of course. I tried to explain that I wasn't used to this shift, and could barely see straight. They didn't care. Turns out, they weren't even ALLOWED to mandate me because I was a 'graduate pending licence' at the time, but no one told me and they all let me take the shift. So by noon, crying at the nurses station. Called in the next day, saying they couldn't keep me on because I neglected my patients that shift. Well, yeah, I was dead on my feet and you illegally kept me on shift! Ugh...
I'm always amazed at the people that want you to work their weekends and holidays and can't ever seem to work their shifts but on the occasional shift you need covered, they can't do it. I've gotten to where I won't switch with anybody unless it's actually more convenient for me than my own shift.
Not your problem. I used to be very accommodating for everyone, until I noticed that certain people were always requesting trades, but they would never reciprocate. For those coworkers, I don't trade anymore. When they ask, I just say "No. Can't." And go about my work. I don't care what their reason is, and I don't even want to hear it. They can discuss it with the manager. You need to be firm with certain people, otherwise they take advantage.
missladyrn
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I work on a floor where it is difficult to get a shift swap, which I thought was odd when I first started here. I don't mind switching and I often switch when someone asks. Our schedule is different every week, I don't think a weekday for a weekday should be a big deal for people. I have taken on a lot of weekend nights for people even. The one time I asked for a swap, I expected one of these people to swap with me. Several said no. Ok, no more swaps from me then. But tonight takes the cake! Someone BEGGED me for a swap. I gave a firm no since she has burned me before when I needed one, but gave in when she cried and gave some bs sob story. Well, she called out! I got a message from the floor manager saying that I really need to be at work tonight because our "approved swap" fell through when she called off. That is not my fault and I need to know ahead of time to sleep if I am working night shift. Sorry, not coming in. I will be in on Thursday for my end of the swap. UGH. I hate people. I have not called or responded to the voicemail since I got it so late. I know I need to, but I am not going to get railroaded into going in to work.