I'm orienting in the cardiac ICU and tonight I just cracked. So far I've lost four patients, including one last night. It was awful because it could have been prevented. Despite continuously updating the doctors, they wouldn't put in any new orders for him. Just monitor him,†they said. Mid shift he coded and we lost him.
I'm exhausted tonight.
My patient looks bad: vented/sedated, febrile, lactic/trops/sugars/ WBCs/ BP/HR increasing, poor renal fct, on many drips and not doing well. Something bad is going to happen. While hanging a new gtt I froze in the room, started feeling tightness in my chest, hyperventilating, and crying. I don't know what to do. What if he codes?
My preceptor sent me away to hide for a bit. I've locked myself in the staff bathroom. I feel so pathetic.
I soooo want to be a cardiac ICU nurse. I don't want to give up. As stressful as this is, I love what I do. But many these people are so sick and I feel like I'm going to kill somebody. Though I'm just following orders, it was my hands that killed people. My orientation is ending next week and I feel so overwhelmed.
Does anyone have any advice for pushing through this? Also, please share stories of similar experiences, so that I don't feel so alone right now.
Thank you.....