I know-that is completely true. That's why I'm getting cold feet; hence the original post. I wouldn't blame employers for not working around my crazy life! I'm just concerned that I'll put the time, money and effort in to school and I won't be able to make it work. It's not that I don't want to but I really don't have any family around to help out and I live in an area where childcare is pretty outrageus. I'm not giving up-just exploring my options right now and trying to be realisitic. What's meant to be will be (or so they say!).