Overachievers

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I keep hearing the word "overachiever" used to describe certain nursing students. Do you think there is such a thing? If so, what makes a person an "overachiever"?

I've been pondering this for a few days and would love to hear your thoughts!

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Specializes in Case management, occupational health.

I think it is jealousy. I hear this term to describe students that do their reading, study and make good grades. It is always the students that are just barely passing that call others overachievers. It is frustrating.

I think calling a nursing student an overachiever is a misnomer. We have to make good grades and that sometimes means putting in a lot of time studying and making the grades. It's not trying to overachieve...it's trying to make it as a nursing student so we can become successful nurses.

When I was in school, I don't remember much being said about overachievers, but I do, however, remember a lot of talk about those that were perceived as being "brown nosers". I have to admit that I also found these same people to be quite annoying at times. I remember how these students always got the bulk of attention from the instructors and I believe I, like others, was jealous that my tuition dollar didn't buy as much concern from my instructors.

That's kind of what I was thinking, too. The ones I've heard using the term seem to have a difficult time in theory and lab...The ones they talk about turn their work in on time, make good grades and know the right answers when they get called on. It's not like they're doing anything super abnormal! LOL

I usually think of an "overachiever" as a sort of unhealthy/unrealistic person - someone who isn't satisfied, no matter how well they do. I enjoy being successful, but I also know when to give myself a break and do better next time. I think overachievers can lose that balance.

I think a lot of times people use this term because they somehow feel inferior to the person whom they believe they are insulting (although I perceive that term to not be an insult...). If someone called me an overachiever (and my friends have 'joked' a time or two that I am) I would---I have--laughed it off. I actually take it as a compliment. I'd rather be an 'overachiever' (which in my mind I equate to being tenacious) than lazy. Now that is one personality trait that I CANNOT stand. ;)

I think a lot of times people use this term because they somehow feel inferior to the person whom they believe they are insulting (although I perceive that term to not be an insult...). If someone called me an overachiever (and my friends have 'joked' a time or two that I am) I would---I have--laughed it off. I actually take it as a compliment. I'd rather be an 'overachiever' (which in my mind I equate to being tenacious) than lazy. Now that is one personality trait that I CANNOT stand. ;)

Agreed! :specs:

...I perceive that term to not be an insult...). If someone called me an overachiever (and my friends have 'joked' a time or two that I am) I would---I have--laughed it off. I actually take it as a compliment...

Me too!!!:up:

i've been called an overachiever. i used to get a's in all my pre-req's now i get mid-high b's. if that's overachieving, i wish someone could smack that into my brain. as for the brown-nosing thing, i've heard that too, because i sit at the front of the class during lecture, having meaningful relevant discussions with the instructors, and i take the 30 minutes i'm given for lunch and not 50 minutes to well over an hour.

Specializes in PICU/Pedi.

My boyfriend fondly calls me an overachieving nerd, and I am cool with that! I am sure some people probably think that I am a brown-noser, too. I do like to talk to my professors, though (most of them anyway). If it's a subject I am interested in, I like to listen to someone who is an authority on the subject, sometimes even outside of class for a few minutes. I have always enjoyed learning things, and if it makes me a brown-noser that I don't roll my eyes at half the things a professor says (like many of my classmates), then I guess I can just be an overachieving brown-nosing nerd! :specs:

Specializes in NICU Level III.

Where I'm from, pretty much only the 'overachievers' even get into nursing school. They take the top of the top so when you actually get to nursing classes, everyone was 'number one' wherever they came from..so they are used to that. Some people are okay squeaking by in class, but most don't want to lose their #1 status... so you get a lot of competition.

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