Girl gives birth in chatroom,talking to me!

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I had the most unusual thing happen to me this morning.:eek:

I don't know if I did everything right, but I did the best that I could.

It was about 6 am, I was on a parenting website, in a chatroom. A girl came in and said she was a little concerned, because she felt pressure and tugging in the abdomen and back. I got talking to her and kept asking her questions. She said she was 38 weeks, that she husband was there. I told her she should call her OB, because I am not a professional, but she was scared, so she got her husband to make phonecalls and she asked me to stay on line with her. I got the feeling that something was up, but she kept almost denying that she was in labour - she had no pain!

I found out that this was her second pg, that on thursday she was 3 cm/60% ( today is monday!). As we were talking she kept saying: "I feel like I need to poop REALLY bad, I have to go!" I kept insisting that she doesn't go to the bathroom,because I felt she was going to push the baby right into the toilet bowl.

At this point, I knew she was going to deliver. THe hospital was 1/2 hour away. I told her to lied down, not to push, pant as much as possible, spread her legs and have her husband look between. When he did, she told me the head was crowing. I told her to tell hubby to immediately call 911 and get some towels and for her just keep panting until the 911 oper got on the phone with instructions. OB apparently was not able to return her call in time, because it was too early in the AM.

I also got to communicate with ther husband. Hubby said 911 oper encouraged not to push, while the ambulance was on the way. Within 5 seconds the baby's head was out.

what happened after, I don't know, because I told her to log off and just listen to the instructions of 911 oper.

I was so nervous that something was going to go wrong, but I think she and the baby made it ok. She has my phone #, so maybe I'll find out some day how they made out.

phew!

Originally posted by Duckie

I've seen some pretty strange things happen too, so this may not be as crazy as you think!! When I took my state boards 23 years ago, it was a 8 hour test. One of my classmates was in labor the entire day and we all were practically panting through each contraction with her, really messed up our concentration but she said she'd made it this far and she was finishing with her class. After the last test was given, 911 was called and she gave birth on the way to the hospital. Funny thing is, she and all of us passed our tests, talk about teamwork!!!!!

LOL! Teamwork...that's a great story! I bet all the extra oxygen you all got from breathing right along with her also helped you all on your tests...LOL!

Specializes in Oncology, Cardiology, ER, L/D.

Man, what kind of people get their kicks this way? That is definitely psycho, I don't even see how that would be a fun way to mess with someone. Weird....:rolleyes:

Nice that you put yourself out there to try and help, but the only thing she was trying to give birth to was an urban legend.

I'm no expert in OB certainly, but from what I have seen of ones demeanor while in labor...............well let's just say they don't seem to be able to hold a conversation. Typing one would seem impossible.

Thrashing a keyboard like Godzilla destroying a tank on his way through Tokyo is more the visualization I have:chair:

Originally posted by Peeps Mcarthur

Thrashing a keyboard like Godzilla destroying a tank on his way through Tokyo is more the visualization I have:chair:

:roll

How about taking keyboard and bashing it over hubby's head while yelling, "You did this to me you bastard!!"

Specializes in Oncology, Cardiology, ER, L/D.
Originally posted by dawngloves

:roll

How about taking keyboard and bashing it over hubby's head while yelling, "You did this to me you bastard!!"

:rotfl: :rotfl:

Woman, you just made Diet coke come out my nose!!

Too funny!!

:roll :roll

Specializes in Everything but psych!.

I looked to see if I could find this story on the Urban Legends internet site and couldn't. If you are ever wondering if a story is urban legend or not, take a look at snopes.com. Interesting to read!

Specializes in cardiac, diabetes, OB/GYN.

Peeps, not everyone can't hold a conversation in labor. Occasionally you get a person who is in excellent control..THOSE are the ones that scare me..At least with someone writhing around and writing new swears, I tend to KNOW where she's at with regard to labor! Give me a screamer every time!

First of all, Annagray was not "had", Anna just acted compassionately to help someone who seemed to really need someones help. However, I do think this can be a learning experience for Anna and the rest of us who have not encountered this type thing online, because since we are either currently RNs or wanna be nurses, we do have potential liability, therefore the absolute best thing to do in this type situation is to tell the person to call 911 stat and/or if they are not able to call, have them give you their phone # and address and tell them you will call 911 to go to their home immediately. I am sure we all want to help as much as possible but we cannot at the cost of our futures. But Anna, kudos to you for trying and helping. You are a very sweet and kind person...

Originally posted by RN2007

we do have potential liability,

There is no liability involved in not helping a woman give birth in a chat room.:rolleyes:

I agree that it is always the right choice to help even if you think you might see trouble from it later. An argument could be made using a ruling on a good samaritan law's application after all.

However..............

Scumbag lawyers are a most resilient lot. This person may even be one.

We will choose to be kind first.

Criminals will choose how to manipulate the kindness of others as their fist reflexive thought.

Those who are kind people, will always err on its side regardless of the outcome. Anagray, I always want to err on the same side.

I was just truing to imagine the court dockett!

State of AOL

vs

Anagray

Charged with negligence in virtual birth!

Sentenced to one year without an ISP!

:lol

:roll

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