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5 thoughts and statistics on nurse bullying

Written by Kelly Gooch | February 24, 2016

Sixty percent of new nurses quit their first job within the first six months due to the behavior of their co-workers, and nearly 50 percent of nurses believe that they will experience bullying at some time in their careers, according to research presented in a new e-book from Aurora, Colo.-based American Sentinel University.

The new e-book, "Dr. Renee Thompson's Series on Nurse Bullying," examines the roots of bullying and conflict resolution as Renee Thompson, DNP, RN, a nursing professional development/anti-bullying thought leader, shares her professional insight on how to best address and eliminate workplace bullying.

Here are five other thoughts and statistics from the e-book.

1. Nearly half — 48 percent — of new graduating nurses are afraid of becoming the target of workplace bullying.

2. In Dr. Thompson's research and observations, she identified two primary reasons why bullying is prevalent in nursing:

  • Nursing is a female dominated profession. "Theories suggest that age-old female 'competition' has shifted from competing over a man to competing over status, respect and position in the nursing environment. The same behaviors once witnessed between two women fighting over a man are the ones witnessed today in the behavior of bullies," Dr. Thompson wrote.
  • Nurses are an oppressed profession. Dr. Thompson noted that nurses are seen as a silent majority, which can bring about frustration. "Feelings of frustration, coupled with an increasingly complex and stressful job, can create environments where nurses 'take it out' on each other. Since nurses can't 'take it out' on administrators or physicians, the theory is that they take it out on the already oppressed, subservient group," she wrote.

3. Dr. Thompson identified the following as common overt bullying weapons:

  • Verbal criticism or name-calling
  • Intimidation
  • Blaming
  • Ethnic jokes or slurs
  • Finding fault
  • Threatening
  • Physical violence

4. Dr. Thompson identified the following as common covert bullying weapons:

  • Sabotage
  • Withholding information
  • Excluding others
  • Unfair assignments
  • Undermining
  • Downplaying accomplishments

5. Dr. Thompson's recommended action steps to address bullying are:

  • Name the behavior. "Bullies who feel a sense of power during their tirades gain momentum as they scream, yell or spread rumors and sabotage their co-workers. Naming the behavior as it occurs can stop things immediately and prevent an escalation of that behavior," Dr. Thompson wrote.
  • Document, document and document. "If you are being bullied, start a documentation trail. Keep a small notebook with you and write down dates, times, witnesses, verbatim comments, and any behaviors you believe undermine a culture of safety and a professional work environment," Dr. Thompson wrote. "Keep growing this documentation trail until you are at the point where you can file a formal complaint."

(STAFF NOTE: This was copied from Beckers Hospital Review. Full article can be found: 5 thoughts and statistics on nurse bullying)

Can you then explain to me why the phrase "nurses eating their young??" If you even google on this forum you will see many things about it! And depending on the circumstance, it can be a huge form of bullying.

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It's a tired, worn old phrase that really preps the nursing student to have the attitude (like yours) that all the "old" nurses are meanies and out to get you.

The young eat the old, as evidenced by your attitude. You have presented a perfect case in point by saying how much prettier you are and we should just "all retire".

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You are putting yourself in the "helpless" role if you are looking for bullying. Look for anything; you will find it. Try looking for wisdom, knowledge and learning. Try rising above it. We have all been there, been new, but some of us were smart enough to open our eyes and ears and learn all we could from those "old nurses". If even half the attitude you display here about older nurses is evident, it's no wonder you have problems getting along.

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I have experienced nurse bullying on numerous occasions. The ones that I remember are: 1. An old nurse educator when I was in nursing school. 2. Old nurse at an assisted living facility. 3. Old nurse in a clinic setting. And probably more that I cannot recall at the moment. All three are old nurses who liked to "eat their young" as you may already know that term. I think to myself how immature they are compared to me (even though they are 30+ years older than I am). Bottom line.... the reason they are like that is because of pure jealously. Old nurses do not like when a younger nurse comes in the workplace for numerous reasons. Many of them def need to retire. Just my two cents :)

How like a youngster to think that the "old people" are jealous of them.

Why in the world, after almost 40 years of hard earned experience in a demanding profession, would any of us rather be in our early to mid 20s, just starting out, no practical nursing knowledge (remember, nursing school prepares you to pass NCLEX, not how to be an effective nurse)? Add to that a sense of utter entitlement, some ugly ageist sentiments, and the belief that no one who is as old as we are can possibly be competent to pass on knowledge to your superior brain?

I'm almost 60. I have no debt, I make decent money, I work in an area of nursing that brings me great satisfaction, I actually like my job for the most part, and I could give a rat's ass if my stethoscope matches my shoes.

You probably wish I would retire. I'm tempted to work forever just to piss the Snowflakes off...

Jealous? No. Amused? Sometimes.

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Can you then explain to me why the phrase "nurses eating their young??" If you even google on this forum you will see many things about it! And depending on the circumstance, it can be a huge form of bullying.

You can search a Lot of things on Google, like where to find the nearest college of higher education.

When you start getting advanced nursing degrees, one of the first things you learn is that as far as being a "reliable and valid source" of information, Google is a complete joke.

That's not bullying. That is a fact.

Try doing your search under EBSCO, CINHAL, or even PubMed. THERE, you will find scholarly, valid, peer-reviewed articles that you can peruse.

Truly, I want to be of assistance to you: you will come across as being more knowledgeable if you stop saying that you searched something on Google, and therefore, it is 'golden'. There is a lot of bunk out there. It would behoove you to dig way deeper to get to the golden information.

Well, write what you want, but bullying can happen because of jealously for whatever reason and most times it is. Why else would people bully one another??? Why? It doesn't matter if it is in a nursing setting, school setting, bullying happens everywhere. This is a "nurse bullying topic" and I wrote 3 examples of nurse bullying that happens to be of an older nurse eating their young. I did not and never meant to upset older nurses. When I meant of retire, I meant of the ones who are down right mean for no reason at all, the ones who are bullies. This topic really holds a special place in my heart because I have seen it happen, not only in nursing but look at the rest of the world. Bullying has a huge effect on people. I get along great with older nurses. BUT there are some that get be down right nasty to brand new nurses ... which is a form of bullying.

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Well, write what you want, but bullying can happen because of jealously for whatever reason and most times it is. Why else would people bully one another??? Why? It doesn't matter if it is in a nursing setting, school setting, bullying happens everywhere. This is a "nurse bullying topic" and I wrote 3 examples of nurse bullying that happens to be of an older nurse eating their young. I did not and never meant to upset older nurses. When I meant of retire, I meant of the ones who are down right mean for no reason at all, the ones who are bullies. This topic really holds a special place in my heart because I have seen it happen, not only in nursing but look at the rest of the world. Bullying has a huge effect on people. I get along great with older nurses. BUT there are some that get be down right nasty to brand new nurses ... which is a form of bullying.

No, you did not give examples. You just said you were bullied. What constitutes being bullied?

When I meant of retire, I meant of the ones who are down right mean for no reason at all, the ones who are bullies.

First of all, there is no reason to put everything in bold. It's actually harder to read.

Secondly, what about the young new nurses who are mean for no reason? Do you consider that bullying?

First of all, there is no reason to put everything in bold. It's actually harder to read.

Secondly, what about the young new nurses who are mean for no reason? Do you consider that bullying?

Should we adjust our bifocals?

(I'm in my 40s. I figure I'm going to be working at least another 25 years. SIGH.)

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I am jealous of my former co-workers who have retired. And maybe Channing Tatum's wife.

I pity new grads starting new new jobs that are going to chew them up and spit them out. They are given back-breaking, soul-crushing assignments with zero respect. They don't know what they don't know, but refuse mentoring from a crusty old bat.

I worked with a new nurse who cried NETY every chance she got, because we wouldn't do her work while she sat around stuffing her pie hole. One night she killed a patient. The family sued, new nurse got canned, all the while blaming other staff.

You want respect? Give it and earn it.

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No, you did not give examples. You just said you were bullied. What constitutes being bullied?

And while you are at it, please clarify for us what these terrible old nurses were jealous about.

I bet we're going to be called bullies for not agreeing with the poster.

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