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I start nursing school in January. I will be attending the 2 year ADN program. I am going to quit my job and take out loans because I don't want the stress of work and school. If I am strictly doing nursing and nothing else (I am single with no kids), will I still really have no life? I honestly have had a few nightmares about nursing school because of everyone's horror stories. I have a 4.0 and know I can do it, but I am so scared of the unknown. To the ones who did the ADN (and BSN students can chime in too) How was your nursing school experience? Did you really have no life? It's honestly depressing to think about me "never going out to eat" "never having time to wash my hair" (yes I've heard that)
One nurse told me everyone wants to act like their experience was traumatic because it makes them look better and smarter. Please encourage me, nurses!
I did the shortest accelerated 2nd degree BSN program in the country. It was 87 credits in 4 ten week quarters over the course of 11 months. We took 21-24 credits a quarter. I also commuted an hour+ each way in to school/clinical every day. I managed to make almost straight A's (really stupid mistakes in a course lead to a B+ instead). It was a lot of work, but not the hardest thing I've done. Overall I didn't think it was too bad and I would make the same choice if I had the option to do it over.
Yes, I still had a life even with the course load I was taking. I kept on top of everything, stayed organized, and most weekends I still hung out with friends. If it was right before midterms or finals then I didn't really do too much, maybe just a quick dinner or meet for some frozen yogurt to relax for a bit. I also showered everyday, but some days (not often) I skipped washing my hair in favor of dry shampoo. I had a married friend who did the program with 2 young kids. It was hard, but she made it through.
I worked full time during the day and had class/clinical at night and in the weekends. Yes, it was a LOT of hard work. Yes, I had to sacrifice a lot of things that I wanted to do (beach trips, football games, trips with the girls). But I was still able to have somewhat of a life and see my family and friends.
It was difficult and stressful and overwhelming at times. BUT, I am married and had 4 young children at the time and managed just fine. I also made time for fun stuff because I needed distractions from school! Not having time to shower is the most absurd thing I've ever heard. Being single without kids or a job sounds to be the "easiest" situation you could be in. You'll be fine.
I am in my second semester of an ADN program. It was very competitive to get in we have two years of prerequisites and then two years of the program. It took me 3 year to get in. I am in the hardest semester of our program, and my school turns out great nurses. We get a lot of floor time and my school has very high nclex pass rates between 96 and 100% the last 10 years. Anyways what I am getting at is that YES it is hard and very very time consuming. I probably shouldn't speak for everyone but for me this is the hardest thing I have every done. 12 hour clinicals 8 hrs on clinical worksheets. We have one day a week for lectures it is 7 hrs. They are always throwing us surprise papers and assignments, plus we have two large assignments this semester that include a paper and a presentation. We have 4 specialty rotations this semester pacu,Or,pediatrics, and short stay. I don't know how your school is but all of my friends that have attended other schools 2 and 4 years have said that they have had to put in the time. I know this sounds like a lot and might sound scary, but I think if you have the heart and put in the effort that you will be able to just fine. I have two kids and a part time job, you just have be resourceful with your time and keep your head in the game. What I am learning is that this Is a process. I am changing the way I think and learning so much. But honestly it really does take up a lot of your time.(and energy😉) have faith in your abilities
Here.I.Stand, BSN, RN
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I got married, had a baby, worked a part-time CNA job, met my mom/sister/friends for lunch, went to family gatherings, sang with my church's worship band, and managed to maintain my personal hygiene. (No time to shower....really???)
I graduated with honors and started working in a prestigious university hosptial after graduation too, so clearly I was able to devote proper effort to school.
Edited to add: I did quit my job during my final semester, because working on top of having a 9-month-old baby and doing my final practicum (working my preceptor's schedule) was just too much. Something had to give.