I (a nursing student close to graduation) took my dad to the ER for chest pain last night. (He suffered a MI). He was immediately treated by a group of very pleasant doctors. The male nurse who was caring for my father quickly got too comfortable because my dad is a very calm and friendly patient. He rubbed me the wrong way when he quickly started advising my dad how he should eat, work out etc (as if my father was not already educated from this long standing condition and already taking very good care of his health to the best he could.) The male nurse then made a JOKE I did NOT think was funny: "I guess you were just born with bad genes!" my dad takes everything lightly and didn't get upset but I do NOT. Is this appropriate in the context of a joke from the "Nurse?" I seriously am developing ANGER towards this nurse today as my dad is still in the hospital. Should I let this go or report this? Also, he was sloppy when he inserted the IV and there was blood everywhere!!