I attend a very small church. Included in the congregation are two CNAs and myself. I have been an RN for 20+years. Our pastor and his wife are retired missionaries and our pastor's wife teaches the adult Sunday School class and is also the president of the women's missionary society. It is often that she comes upon a medical question or concern and will ask one of the two CNAs about it. She will even ask another woman who has no medical or nursing background whatsoever. But, she will never ask me. Occassionally, outside of church, she will ask me something "because you are a nurse" but seems to pointedly ignore me in church. She will make a big show of asking the CNAs who usually say they don't know but even then will not ask my opinion. Yesterday, she invited several of us for dinner after the morning service. While at dinner, she was asking another woman about her compression hose and mentioned that her hose slide down and bunch up just below her knee. She then stated "that isn't good" and asked another woman who has no background in the health field to look at the woman's hose and asked her what should be done; I was never asked. I have to admit I feel a little hurt. Am I making a big thing of this or should I just overlook it?