I want her fired!!!!

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If I hear that one more time I swear I am going to stop wherever I am and scream. Literally. I will stand there and scream until The People come to take me away for evaluation. :uhoh21:

I haven't worked staff at a facility for a very long time so I haven't had to deal with this issue personally in eons but it still chaps my hide every time I hear it.

Today I was supposed to meet my sister for lunch. I arrived at her facility and waited in the car at the designated spot. She didn't come down after 15 min so I called up to the unit (I used to work there). The secretary told me she said to meet her on the unit and we could eat in the staff cafeteria instead. I didn't understand why but when I went up to the floor I saw a huge semi-circle around Nursing Station B comprised of nurses, aides, administrative big-wigs, and family members of a particular resident. Particular as in picky. I hear, from the ENTRANCE of the unit the man of the family (father, uncle, whatever?) yelling "I want her fired!" He is pointing at this poor aide slinked low against the nursing station half crying, half yelling something about new bed linens. The rest of the staff, my sister included, are trying to calm down the man and his female companion, meanwhile he is still yelling "I want her fired. If this is the type of trash you hire in this facility then you should be closed down and I'm going to call State."

:nono:Oh, no, not those words. That's a bad threat.

So now this poor girl may lose her job. I don't know for sure because obviously my sis didn't get a lunch, or rather, I had to leave before I even spoke to her, so I don't know if she got a lunch or not. But she missed OUR lunch date because some layman read somewhere or heard somewhere that if you threaten to call State you can get anything you want. That is an abuse of power and it peeves me to no end. Further, I feel it is highly improper and rude that a family member can dictate who is or isn't employed at a facility.

This is not to say that she didn't deserve to be reprimanded. I don't know what she did, but I highly doubt it is worthy of being fired and even if it IS, that should be at the discretion of the facility not a family member.

WHEW! Thanks. I feel better.

Specializes in Maternal - Child Health.
Outrageous behavior. Completely inappropriate at the nurses desk. It should have been handled in the administrator's office behind a closed door. If I had a patient's family that was that disruptive at the nurse's station you can bet your paycheck I would call security on them.

I DO NOT TOLERATE DISRUPTIVE BEHAVIOR!

To give an overgrown toddler an audience simply encourages his behavior. I agree that he needed to be removed from the scene by security and the nurse manager while everyone else went about their business.

Specializes in ICU, OR.

I think I only want to take care of orphaned with no siblings, unmarried people with no friends or children that are intubated and heavily sedated. That would eliminate 99.9% of typical issues.:chuckle

Outrageous behavior. Completely inappropriate at the nurses desk. It should have been handled in the administrator's office behind a closed door. If I had a patient's family that was that disruptive at the nurse's station you can bet your paycheck I would call security on them.

I DO NOT TOLERATE DISRUPTIVE BEHAVIOR!

there ya go, dolce.

simple as that.

if they can't talk in a civilized manner, they are escorted off the floor.

period.

leslie

Specializes in LTC and MED-SURG.

One of the reasons, I like night shifts.

Specializes in neuro, ICU/CCU, tropical medicine.

You want her fired?

Fine, hire her, then you can fire her.

I agree with the previous comments. I would have told the guy to calm down or he would be escorted out by security.

That kind of behavior is disruptive to patient care and absolutely needs to be controlled.

I don't care if that aide did something wrong. No one deserves to be called trash. Ever. To me that is one of the worst abusive words. If he has a true complaint he needs better words to be taken seriously.

Specializes in ER/SICU/Med-Surg/Ortho/Trauma/Flight.

Oh I agree with everyone else his @ss would have been hauled of by security if it was on my unit and Im the supervisor so I kind of have control over my desk and no one and I mean no one is going to get away with treating my staff like that, which all the visitors know anyways I have it typed on a pamphlet I give everyone and there families upon welcoming them to there unit, and I see everyone of the new patients and there families on there first day at least I try to.

What in the world was she supposed to have done????

Specializes in ER, PACU, Med-Surg, Hospice, LTC.

That just makes me feel so sad and frustrated when I read incidents like you described. My heart goes out to her. The way that idiot egomaniac carried on and the fact that people mobbed around the situation makes it worse. Unless this Aide has really thick skin, I am sure that she will be scarred from this for a long time. Nothing worse than public humiliation or the perceived threat of future humiliation to instill fear in a person. Man, I feel wound up just thinking about it.

....because some layman read somewhere or heard somewhere that if you threaten to call State you can get anything you want.

Ya. This seems to be the up-and-coming control tactic by patients. The "threat" of reporting you to the Boards. See, the BON (at least here in CA) allows ANONYMOUS reporting. So, anyone can call in and file a complaint. The sad thing is, the person that files the anonymous complaint can hang up the phone, wipe their hands clean and forget about the entire incident, but the Nurse(s) who has been reported may have to endure MONTHS of investigations.

I think it is kind of scary.

If I hear that one more time I swear I am going to stop wherever I am and scream. Literally. I will stand there and scream until The People come to take me away for evaluation. :uhoh21:

I know this is not a funny topic, but I was just picturing a Nurse dropping everything and screaming like that....it made me laugh! :chuckle Maybe I'm too tired....or maybe because it was funny ;)

Specializes in Triage, MedSurg, MomBaby, Peds, HH.

Why did every other patient on that floor have to be abused by this irrational halfwit? I'm not understanding why management didn't advocate for the REST of the patients.

Specializes in Pediatrics.

My sis ended up working a double (typical) and gets off at 11. Do believe ladies and gents, I will be calling her cell at 11:30 to find out what on earth the aide did and I will report back. :smokin:

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