Just got tragic news. A nurse friend- she just graduated last year with honors, well her boyfriend hung himself last night while she was on the phone talking to him. It happened at his work and I am not sure of all the details, but it is pretty tragic all the way around.
This friend recently had cancer surgery and has been going through some difficult times and now this, I can't imagine what she is feeling.
I know they were having difficulty in the relationship and that was hard. He was quite controlling evidently. Well last night he tried to get her to go to his work for something but would not say what. She declined since it was a ways from the house. He promised it would only take a minute.
We think one of two things- he wanted to kill her also, or he wanted her there to see it happen. Thank God she was still recovering from her surgery or she would have gone!
When we covered suicide, we learned of prevention, danger signs, etc. but never once covered how to deal with the survivors left after such a tragic event. How do you consel someone and help them through this aftermath?