Published Mar 14, 2008
mammaoftwo
183 Posts
After much thought as to my physical situation and from what I read about how nursing is, I have decided to forego my lifelong dream of becoming a nurse.
I have to have A/C repair as soon as this semester of school is over, I am not able to lift much weight, I have thoracic outlet syndrome (born with extra cervical rib) and fibromyalgia.
I have just wanted this for so long, but have to realize my limitations and I have not been willing to do that. I don't want to admit I can't do something and especially nursing.
I can't take a chance with my neck, shoulder and back in clinicals. Some days I have extreme fatigue. I do not take meds for the fibro and haven't for years. I live with the pain. I don't like how the meds made me feel and function.
So, my hat is off to those of you in the ranks. I truly admire those that are caring and pray that the problems in nursing changes for all of you. A lot of you have given your all and it is greatly appreciated by me.
I plan to continue on in school, but will just change directions from nursing.
Blessings to all of you!
nightmare, RN
1 Article; 1,297 Posts
Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
caliotter3
38,333 Posts
Sorry to hear that you can't pursue your lifelong dream of becoming a nurse. You must preserve your own health first. Have you looked into ancillary health careers? Perhaps you could go into health education, informatics or something similar. There are many healthcare options out there besides bedside nursing that would be open to you. Hope everything goes well for you. Good luck in achieving your highest level of wellness.
racing-mom4, BSN, RN
1,446 Posts
Wow---this must be a very hard decision for you. I am assuming you have considered every option before making this change? Clinicals can be physically hard, but if you have a documented ( you do) physical limitation the school is required to help you. At least that was they told us every semester, to make sure they are aware of any physical conditions that we may have that would affect our clinical performance.
Have you met with your guidance counselor at school to see what other type of nursing you could do with your physical situation. Insurance nursing comes to mind, also I had a lovely chat with a nurse who works for the state who comes out to do surveys, and they dont do any physical work per say---unless you count looking at the top shelf of cabinets!!
Or we have a nurse who does utilization review and she does not physical patient work, just alot of office style work-- calling ins companies/nursing home placement and sched meetings with familys etc etc etc. She has told me before how rewarding she finds her job.
I just hate to see any one pass up their dream. I hope you dont have any regrets.
Best of luck in any decision you make.
Hazel11
103 Posts
I'm sorry to hear that, but I hope you find something that you truly love that won't interfere with you physically. Good luck and you're in my prayers. :redpinkhe
nyapa, RN
995 Posts
Have you met with your guidance counselor at school to see what other type of nursing you could do with your physical situation.
Yep, think about that one...
HealthyRN
541 Posts
Wow---this must be a very hard decision for you. I am assuming you have considered every option before making this change? Clinicals can be physically hard, but if you have a documented ( you do) physical limitation the school is required to help you. At least that was they told us every semester, to make sure they are aware of any physical conditions that we may have that would affect our clinical performance.Have you met with your guidance counselor at school to see what other type of nursing you could do with your physical situation. Insurance nursing comes to mind, also I had a lovely chat with a nurse who works for the state who comes out to do surveys, and they dont do any physical work per say---unless you count looking at the top shelf of cabinets!!Or we have a nurse who does utilization review and she does not physical patient work, just alot of office style work-- calling ins companies/nursing home placement and sched meetings with familys etc etc etc. She has told me before how rewarding she finds her job.I just hate to see any one pass up their dream. I hope you dont have any regrets.Best of luck in any decision you make.
All of these are great ideas, but realistically, will the OP be able to obtain positions like this without any clinical experience? I'm sorry to be a downer, but it is very unlikely. I will say that it is possible to get nursing jobs that don't involve as much physical work right out of school. Have you thought about peds, NICU, L&D, mother-baby, or OR? I got a job outside of acute care nursing after just 10 months at the bedside. If you don't feel particularly attracted to these patient populations, perhaps you could just do it long enough to move on to a position outside of acute care. What about public health, home care, or ambulatory care? You could possibly get a position such as this right out of school, although it won't be as easy as getting a hospital job.
I wouldn't worry too much about the requirements for school. As long as it is documented, the school must work around any disabilities that you have.
mianders, RN
236 Posts
I am so sorry. I wish you the best of luck.:icon_hug:
leslie :-D
11,191 Posts
i'm so sorry your dreams have been shattered.
i agree about seeking professional guidance re careers.
where ever your journey brings you, i wish you much peace and success.
leslie
classicdame, MSN, EdD
7,255 Posts
There are a lot of ways to be a nurse - not all require working in a hospital. Could be you would really like an ancillary position. Good luck!
GadgetRN71, ASN, RN
1,840 Posts
All of these are great ideas, but realistically, will the OP be able to obtain positions like this without any clinical experience? I'm sorry to be a downer, but it is very unlikely. I will say that it is possible to get nursing jobs that don't involve as much physical work right out of school. Have you thought about peds, NICU, L&D, mother-baby, or OR? I got a job outside of acute care nursing after just 10 months at the bedside. If you don't feel particularly attracted to these patient populations, perhaps you could just do it long enough to move on to a position outside of acute care. What about public health, home care, or ambulatory care? You could possibly get a position such as this right out of school, although it won't be as easy as getting a hospital job. I wouldn't worry too much about the requirements for school. As long as it is documented, the school must work around any disabilities that you have.
Not flaming or anything, but OR would not be a good choice for the OP for the above reasons. There is also no such thing as "light duty" in the OR either..If you show up to work, you're expected to be at 100%.
I could not agree more about the OR nursing being physically taxing work. I only had to go to OR during my clinicals and even though I loved watching the procedures, the standing killed me. I would like to add that I am physically fit person. Not to mention the masks drove me crazy, why is it when I get all gowned up I feel the overwhelming desire to scratch my face??
Scrub hats off to all you OR nurses...between the cold, the standing in one spot the gowns, and saving lives!!! you deserve a big Thank-You!!! :bowingpur