Fired Due to Not Being Able to Get to Work

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Hi everyone. I joined this page to ask this specific question. I used to be a PCA, and am currently a college student. During my winter break, I was home and there was a snow storm that made visibility terrible, and the roads were not even plowed. I was scheduled to come in that night for an overnight, and had told my employer I probably wouldn't be able to get there due to the snow over 24 hours in advance. I messaged every single other person that worked as well, and everyone either did not want to or were even further away than I was. I had to end up just saying that I could not come in. I drive a very old sports car that has BALD tires. When I even hit a patch a slush doing 5 mph, I will still slide. Living in a town with all hills that was unplowed and had ice all over, I couldn't even get out of my driveway, and knew there was no way my car would make it there. My family did not allow me to take their four wheel drive vehicles, or even my brothers car which is at least a little safer. I do not live at school, so I didn't have anywhere I could stay beforehand to make it to work. I ended up being fired, and was obviously upset. I got yelled at for being "unprepared" and "irresponsible", as if I could have just snow shoed there or had any other option. This is NOT my full time job, it was simply for patient care hours. I did NOT take on this job thinking I would have to do this, nor was it ever mentioned to me. There were people on campus that just did not want to go in and cover me. Is this really my fault? I hate losing a job and a reference, but I can't control what car my family gives me, or that I have no viable option. I'm an undergrad, not a nurse knowing fully well what I have to do. Also, on overnights you get paid $20 for the whole entire night. You don't get paid hourly. I don't think totaling my car or getting hurt or killed is worth any amount, much less $20.

Specializes in ICU, LTACH, Internal Medicine.

If you want ever to be in nursing/medical field and live in place where snow happens, learn to drive on it and leave at least 2.5 x your normal time. Or pick a cheap motel somewhere near the place you work (people in facilities usually know about such places).Because otherwise you'll be in this situation over and over again.

Said by someone who drives Toyota sedans through the famous lake effect regularly and never had a problem. Just keep it slow, steady and straight.

Specializes in Critical Care.
You are suggesting that I walk 15 miles in the dark in a snow storm? When there are people driving that could very easily hit me if they lose control of their car somehow?

I am actually, life isn't easy, and this would hardly be the most trying thing that a lot of people manage to get through on a daily basis.

I'm not clear why you haven't considered just putting chains on your car?

Luckily I don't plan on living anywhere with snow in the future; it's just not something I can control at this point in my life. When I begin an actual career and have real hours and pay, obviously a 4-wheel drive car is the plan, regardless of where I live! My area and school are actual farmland, so there isn't any motels etc. In the future if there is something like that close by my work, that will be very useful for sure.

I am actually, life isn't easy, and this would hardly be the most trying thing that a lot of people manage to get through on a daily basis.

I'm not clear why you haven't considered just putting chains on your car?

That is absolutely bonkers.. I am not a Navy Seal. I do not think $25 is worth walking that far in that type of weather, and I don't believe most commenters on this website would walk for 5 hours in weather like that either. Considering my family and I were even numb from shoveling the driveway, perhaps walking isn't a viable option.

Again, like I have said before, I *cannot afford* these things. If I had money, I really wouldn't be driving a car like mine.

I am actually, life isn't easy, and this would hardly be the most trying thing that a lot of people manage to get through on a daily basis.

I'm not clear why you haven't considered just putting chains on your car?

If something had happened to me and I had to go to a hospital somehow, I don't think any nurse would be telling me that I should've made it anyway. That is far from the compassionate personality nurses that I know have

I think you'll get over being let go. It sucks in the short term but in the long term you'll be ok. Walking 15 miles in a snow storm is probably a little extreme, if you were MY kid, I wouldn't want you doing that (but then, if you were my kid I would have helped get you there or at a minimum helped you put some decent used tires on your car).

If you can't add additional hours at the current job, can you pick up another? It sounds like you live in an area similar to where I grew up, which means there may not be much to choose from, but maybe there are some kids you could watch on the weekend or a restaurant that needs help. How long until you're 21 and can maybe bartend (I hear it's relatively lucrative if your friendly)? It won't help now, but are there summer jobs you could work like a maniac? Pizza delivery (obviously you'll need decent tires for that)? I know none of those give you experience, but sometimes money is more important.

I wish you well trying to figure out a way out of this!

I suggest that you do not take on similar employment until you can provide yourself with reliable transportation. Getting fired more than once for this reason will not be good for your work history.

If something had happened to me and I had to go to a hospital somehow, I don't think any nurse would be telling me that I should've made it anyway. That is far from the compassionate personality nurses that I know have

But here's the thing about nurses not coming in to work due to weather. Please note that there is a nurse who has probably worked a 12 hour shift all night long who COUNTS on the day shift nurse to come in so she can go home and sleep. Surely you don't think the night shift can work another 12 hour shift after being up all night? This is the thing people just don't get. There is a nurse waiting for me to show up so they can go home. Not coming in is just patently unfair to the person waiting for relief. When a known snow storm is pending, nurses are expected to make arrangements to get there, whether that means getting a hotel room within walking distance, sharing a hotel with coworkers, staying with a friend/relative who lives near the facility, staying at the hospital for a couple of days, whatever it takes. Nursing is usually a 24/7 thing, 365 days a year.

An office job is another story, but you are asking this question on a nursing forum. Most nurses (not all certainly) are working in facilities where nurses are needed to relieve an offgoing shift. Working too many hours with no sleep is DANGEROUS for patients.

Specializes in Critical Care.
That is absolutely bonkers.. I am not a Navy Seal. I do not think $25 is worth walking that far in that type of weather, and I don't believe most commenters on this website would walk for 5 hours in weather like that either. Considering my family and I were even numb from shoveling the driveway, perhaps walking isn't a viable option.

Again, like I have said before, I *cannot afford* these things. If I had money, I really wouldn't be driving a car like mine.

Then why do you make this commitment to begin with?

Specializes in Psych, Corrections, Med-Surg, Ambulatory.

Unfortunately, your employer needs someone she can rely on to get to the job and do it, because someone is relying on her to provide the caregiver. She is not in a position to tolerate no-shows, even if she was sympathetic to your plight. So you are young, broke, drive a crap car, live in a rural area with no public transportation and had a job in a location with no amenities. The whole thing was doable for you, except for the fact that you are also in an area that can be hit by snow storms. When the big storm hit and you couldn't get to your job, it was no longer doable.

This is the kind of thing that happens to us all when we are young. We lack certain resources and sometimes good planning skills and then something bad happens. And then we learn. Now you will find a way to put better tires on your car and you will find a job that doesn't depend so highly on you getting there in all weather.

Eventually you will finish school, have a better paying job, live in a place more to your liking and have more reliable transportation. Until then, grit your teeth and keep moving.

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.
I did not post this to get hammered about my car. If you did not read correctly I am 20 years old and an undergrad. I work 9 hours a week at my other job and pay for other bills. My parents do not pay for really anything for me, so please do not say "get a new car", because that is the least helpful advice to someone who does not have even a percentage of the money to buy that. Hence the "student worker". I do not plan on being a nurse, and I think I'm smart enough to know that living in a snowy climate requires a good car. However, again, I am 20 years old. I didn't get to CHOOSE where I live and was raised. When I HAVE a career and actual income, I will have a safer car. Not all of you were born with money I'm assuming, so perhaps be understanding.

I wasn't born with money -- we didn't have indoor plumbing or electricity until I went to college. I didn't get to choose that, either. However, at 20 I had a safe car that I bought used. (No one gave me a car.) And had I known about snow 24 hours in advance, I would have left for town well before the snowstorm so I could safely get to work. It's not a fun thing to do, but it was better than getting fired. I think your attitude is perhaps part of the problem. If I had an employee who called off due to a snowstorm 24 hours in advance without even TRYING to get to work and then slammed everyone he worked with for not working his shift FOR him, I don't think I'd feel all that badly about firing him.

I think you'll get over being let go. It sucks in the short term but in the long term you'll be ok. Walking 15 miles in a snow storm is probably a little extreme, if you were MY kid, I wouldn't want you doing that (but then, if you were my kid I would have helped get you there or at a minimum helped you put some decent used tires on your car).

If you can't add additional hours at the current job, can you pick up another? It sounds like you live in an area similar to where I grew up, which means there may not be much to choose from, but maybe there are some kids you could watch on the weekend or a restaurant that needs help. How long until you're 21 and can maybe bartend (I hear it's relatively lucrative if your friendly)? It won't help now, but are there summer jobs you could work like a maniac? Pizza delivery (obviously you'll need decent tires for that)? I know none of those give you experience, but sometimes money is more important.

I wish you well trying to figure out a way out of this!

I actually do babysit when I can! Usually weekends and a weeknight here and there when I have the time. Since it's usually just date nights or similar things it makes me flexible and good, easy money. I work a lot during the summer at my office job, so I'll be much better off once school is done for the year. I try to limit working during the semester, since I'd much rather get up earlier and go straight to class after rather than be out later than I already am. I don't get home until 8-9 PM every weeknight and then have limited time for schoolwork, so I wouldn't want to limit that time further. I don't mind not having a lot of money during school time. It's annoying, sure, but if I'm already struggling to balance everything I don't want to add on and see my grades suffer!

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