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So I was on Facebook & came across a question on a pregnancy board. It wasn't the question that had me confused & upset, as much as the replies. The OP asked if it was safe to put her twins in the same crib. The doctor said yes & the nurse said no. I looked through a lot of replies & a good chunk of them said NOT to listen to the nurse, she shouldn't be giving advice. ? That's rather irritating to me. Don't listen to the nurse?? I have NEVER heard that before. But to see that now is QUIET insulting!
Most people who claim to be doctors or nurses on the internet are not ...at least, it seems that way from some of the stupid things they say.
I've had an casual acquaintance ask me if I thought he should take the medication his cardiologist prescribed ...and a patient's relative ask me to let her know if a lump on her chest was "serious". Some people think we know everything (which is just as frustrating, although slightly more flattering).
Eh, I wouldn't give it much attention. There are times when *I* have told people to "not listen to the nurse" because I knew the nurse in question was giving them bad information OR they got the info wrong (but it was credited to the nurse, so....). Unfortunately, "the nurse said" isn't much of a Gold Standard, as WHAT "the nurse said" can sometimes be wrong. Yep, the doc can be wrong, too, and sometimes I've said "he's wrong, sorry" to someone quoting bad advice or misinformation. They're human and make mistakes, too, and I'd hate to have people doing things that don't make sense simply because "he/she said to".
I found when handling lactation issues with a newborn/very young baby, and it was Grandma who was being....'difficult'......I would use the phrase "this is what the doctor said to do" and suddenly it was all OK (generational thing). Would be funny if it wasn't tragic what we have to do sometimes! Doesn't matter WHAT 'doctor' said it, doesn't matter that MY credentials in lactation superceded anything the 'doctor' had to offer, LOL, my teaching and/or recommendations only had the right weight if 'the doctor said so'!
I was listening to the radio yesterday morning. They were talking to a girl who didn't know she was pregnant. She says she blacks out when she's on her cycle. She described her symptoms which were off the wall crazy. I went home and was googling her symptoms. I ran across Yahoo Answers. Omgosh! You would not believe the crap people believe is true.
I was listening to the radio yesterday morning. They were talking to a girl who didn't know she was pregnant. She says she blacks out when she's on her cycle. She described her symptoms which were off the wall crazy. I went home and was googling her symptoms. I ran across Yahoo Answers. Omgosh! You would not believe the crap people believe is true.
Lordy, yahoo answers should not be allowed to let people post health related questions. Some of those things are SO WRONG!! Occasionally, there will be a knowledgable response by someone who claims to be a doctor or something. But I wouldn't be surprised if there was a direct link between the rises in teen pregnancy and std infections, and yahoo answers.
TheCommuter, BSN, RN
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