I'm located in North Carolina. I do very well in college, I have a master's degree in an unrelated field with good grades. I really *really* want to be a psych RN.. or geropsych. Or even informatics, because I used to do computers.
The community college I applied to here is extremely cheap, but they require I do a CNA course and work as a CNA first. They only have ADN. They would take me three years because of the pre-reqs I still need and CNA course.
The very expensive private university here has a BSN program. It would put me in 80 grand of debt and take me four-five years. That is bothering me because I have a Master's degree and don't want four more years of school.
I currently have been alone with my toddler seven months with no outside help because my spouse is overseas. I am lucky to have his financial support, I admit, but I am tied down here and very alone, and it has been very hard on me mentally.
I started a CNA course and had to drop it in the first week, because I mentally could not handle it. First time my kid's in daycare all day, he got abused in the daycare, social services was called, I had a breakdown in class. It is very hard to find childcare in this community. My husband told me on the phone to take a break from school. I don't want to wait to long because he retires in four years and I want to have nursing school done by then. It's looking more and more like that isn't going to happen, and I'm very angry, and very resentful of being a military mom.
I could really use any advice. I am very very upset I had to drop this CNA course, but can I become an RN without being a CNA? How much am I really going to learn about being an RN from only working in nursing homes? That's all there is where I live. Am I doomed to never be able to go to school? I can't even find a sitter on care.com to watch him if he (my son) is too sick to go to school that day. I've been looking on there for over a year and it's so frustrating not having family or friends I can rely on.
I also know that once clinicals start, I need support. I'm afraid it's never going to happen, because I married a soldier. I thought it would be ok.. because I used to be one. Little did I know how much it would hinder my ability to do anything. I really wanted to be in that CNA class.
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I'm located in North Carolina. I do very well in college, I have a master's degree in an unrelated field with good grades. I really *really* want to be a psych RN.. or geropsych. Or even informatics, because I used to do computers.
The community college I applied to here is extremely cheap, but they require I do a CNA course and work as a CNA first. They only have ADN. They would take me three years because of the pre-reqs I still need and CNA course.
The very expensive private university here has a BSN program. It would put me in 80 grand of debt and take me four-five years. That is bothering me because I have a Master's degree and don't want four more years of school.
I currently have been alone with my toddler seven months with no outside help because my spouse is overseas. I am lucky to have his financial support, I admit, but I am tied down here and very alone, and it has been very hard on me mentally.
I started a CNA course and had to drop it in the first week, because I mentally could not handle it. First time my kid's in daycare all day, he got abused in the daycare, social services was called, I had a breakdown in class. It is very hard to find childcare in this community. My husband told me on the phone to take a break from school. I don't want to wait to long because he retires in four years and I want to have nursing school done by then. It's looking more and more like that isn't going to happen, and I'm very angry, and very resentful of being a military mom.
I could really use any advice. I am very very upset I had to drop this CNA course, but can I become an RN without being a CNA? How much am I really going to learn about being an RN from only working in nursing homes? That's all there is where I live. Am I doomed to never be able to go to school? I can't even find a sitter on care.com to watch him if he (my son) is too sick to go to school that day. I've been looking on there for over a year and it's so frustrating not having family or friends I can rely on.
I also know that once clinicals start, I need support. I'm afraid it's never going to happen, because I married a soldier. I thought it would be ok.. because I used to be one. Little did I know how much it would hinder my ability to do anything. I really wanted to be in that CNA class.