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Thank you for sharing! I am waiting to find out if I was accepted into nursing school. I have read many posts lately that were negative about the nursing field. I understand that it will be very trying and very rewarding. Your moment with him affected more live than you know. Again, thanks for sharing.
I worked with a patient with severe dementia once who was pretty much non-verbal except for incomprehensible sounds and moaning, and the word "Pain," which we unfortunately heard often. She was clearly in distress and confused, had to endure several attempts of inserting an NG tube. At one point I went into her room and she had taken off her gown and was covered in feces, she had been wearing a diaper, had a bowel movement, and got her hands into the stuff. After a thorough cleaning, I took an emesis basin filled with warm soapy water and a toothbrush, and cleaned out each one of her fingernails as gently as possible.
After she was all cleaned up, she turned her head towards me, looked me in the eyes, and said "Thank You." I couldn't believe it!!!
canesdukegirl, BSN, RN
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I was getting ready to do a Gamma Nail today for a pt, got all of the supplies in the room and went to go meet my pt. He was a 90 year old former MD. He had prostate ca with mets. As his LTC nurse was turning him last night, his femur broke right in her hands. Pathologic fx from another tumor. His daughter was with him, and she told me that she did not want to suspend his DNR order during surgery. She was holding his hand while she was talking to me, and was very aware that this may be the last time she would see him alive. He also had severe dementia. She said that he was unable to communicate anything but pain, did not respond to any questions or gestures, and did not make eye contact. He was extremely frail, and I could see every bone in his body.
When he rolled back to the OR, I leaned down and told him my name, told him that I would not leave his side and gently took his hand into mine right before induction. He looked over at me, held my gaze, and SMILED. I was so close to tears that I had to use every trick in the book to hang on to my emotions. I knew that the surgery would be terribly hard on him, and I think he must have known it too. I am humbled to have taken care of a man that had dedicated his life to the betterment of others. This patient reminded me WHY I chose nursing. I am still choked up.