Career Change and need SERIOUS help

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Hello to all! I am new to the site. I've been reading posts on this site from people that happened to be in the same situation I'm in. I think what I'm looking for is some great advice from ppl that are nurses and to mainly get the confidence to feel like I'm not out of my mind. Here's my story...

I am currently a Special Ed teacher in a high school in North Carolina. I have a BA in Communications and a Masters in Special Education. I have not finished my first full year of teaching and I am already wondering how in the world am I going to go through a WHOLE YEAR of teaching next year. I'm so ready to get out of teaching, it's not even funny. I keep telling myself and others reassure me that it's always like that the 1st year and maybe the 2nd, but it "gets better"...but no, I WANT OUT. It's not even the paperwork or the adminstration...those two aspects are fine...it's the everything else. While I hold up very well, inside I'm ready to just walk out. I handle my students and I get a long well with everyone, but I just feel teaching is not for me. I am now looking to get into nursing. I can do paperwork all day...so I guess I will try to do nursing administration or a director of nursing.

I guess what I really want to know is if I'm crazy for going back to school after acquiring so many school loans and having specialized in education with a masters degree. Will my masters degree help me once in the nursing field even though it's not in nursing. Is there any specific area of nursing I should go into being that I already have a degree that specializes in children with disabilities? I really need some direction.

I plan on attending Guilford Tech Community College in January. I'm on the CNA registry, I have A&P I (taking A&P II in the Fall), Human Growth and Dev, and College Biology. All I really need is microbiology which I can take in program. Also I need to take the TEAS exam which scares me to death. I must take it before September '12. Any suggestions or advice on anything??? Whatever you can tell me specific to my situation will be greatly appreciated. I feel like I'm truly searching for my purpose in life and I just want to be happy in a career that I can do until retirement. Please help.....

Specializes in Critical Care; Cardiac; Professional Development.

I don't have much advice. If dealing with people is your kryptonite or dealing with politics or difficult family members is hard for you, you won't enjoy nursing much more than teaching. There is a LOT of teaching in nursing. What is drawing you to nursing?

Unfortunately the degrees you already have won't matter in nursing much at all other than opening the door to accelerated programs for a BSN.

Specializes in Critical Care; Cardiac; Professional Development.

If you prefer paperwork, why not just go into business?

Specializes in Critical Care.

Is it special ed itself that isn't working for you? If you were a regular teacher do you think that would be better? Anyway to change your teaching specialty. I doubt nursing will be any easier than teaching, whatever challenges in teaching dealing with difficult children, you'll be dealing with so much more stress and difficult patients and family.

Take some time to see if you can salvage your career without starting all over again. What exactly about teaching bother's you?

Specializes in Emergency.

WHile you are looking to the future, have you actually worked at all in health care? Because most people are kind of surprised at how it actually is once they are "in it"

You don't really say exactly what you dislike about teaching, so its hard to tell, BUT... I'm not so sure that nursing will please you any more than teaching.

Your idea of going into Nursing Admin or becoming a DON is a fine goal, but it is not a goal that will generally happen in your first 5 or even 10 or maybe even 20 years of nursing. Those are extremely difficult, pressure filled jobs and there are not that many of them, so you will be competing with a lot of people for those positions, and most will require you to obtain yet another Masters Degree.

If you like all the paperwork why not use all that education and work towards becoming a school administrator?

Currently, New Graduate Nurses are having a difficult time finding employment even in nursing homes and LTAC's. So given that you already have a large amt of loans and such, you may want to think about what the job market will be like when you graduate, and if you are willing to work at the bedside etc.

I say go for it!! Why not?? I personally think you could use your Masters to your benefit.

This is truly what I think.....education is very, very hard. Part of the issue as I see it is you have the same kids all day every day for nine months. You have to go and face them every-single-frickin-day. And, as a special ed teacher you could have the same kid for years! In my previous life I was social worker and had the same clients for years....couldn't take it. Decided to get a MiT, went through all the rigamarole to be accepted to grad school, scheduled my classes, ordered my books and then decided there was no way, no way at all I could do it.....so on on a whim I went to nursing school.

Nursing can be pretty much anything you want it to be. I choose to work in a post anesthesia recovery room part time and have my patients for about an hour each. New patients all the time....recover them and send them on and get another...I think of myself as the grocery check out clerk of nursing.

Your Master's could be beneficial. I am also a school nurse- and I know it is my psych degree and experience more than any mad nursing skills that got me that job. You could be a school RN (many require BSN- but not all- I am ADN). Group homes for MR/DD often hire nurses. You could probably make a case for being more equipped to handle psych nursing than other new grads.

One of the other huge advantages of nursing over teaching is that you are much more mobile. Don't like the nursing job you have? Look for another! Don't like the teaching job you have? You are stuck in your contract until the end of the year.

Do what you want and good luck!

Specializes in Ambulatory Surgery, PACU,SICU.

I can understand that teaching has frustrations, but so does nursing. No nurse I know can retire early or have summers and holidays off. Several teachers I know retired at 59 with a pension. There are no pensions in nursing and no unions either.

If this double-posts I am sorry. I thought I hit "post" but then it just....vanished. POOF!

Actually, many nurses do belong to unions and nurses can get summers and holidays off. As a school nurse, I do!

It can be hard for new grads to find jobs (I am a new grad myself), but if you look "outside the box" there are opportunities.

My husband is a SpEd teacher and I would take my job over his any day.

Good luck!!

Specializes in Certified Med/Surg tele, and other stuff.
I can understand that teaching has frustrations, but so does nursing. No nurse I know can retire early or have summers and holidays off. Several teachers I know retired at 59 with a pension. There are no pensions in nursing and no unions either.

Umm, I work at a hospital with a pension, as did my husband and we were both unionized as are many of the local hospitals.

OP, I too would like to know your reason for wanting to get out of teaching. I have a special needs child and I thank the Lord every day that there is a teacher with patience to deal with challenging kids. Would working with general ed kids be the way you would want to go?

Specializes in Acute Mental Health.

Nursing Administration or DON probably won't happen with an ADN. You may be able to get into an accelerated program, but you lack the experience to be either. You really need some nursing experience before jumping into admin. How can you lead the troops if you have no idea what they actually do? If your not teaching this summer, maybe you could work as a CNA to see if you like that aspect. There is a ton of teaching in nursing and the grass may not be as green on this side as what you think.

I don't know if the first year of teaching is the same as the first year of nursing but, it is very normal to want to cut and run that first 1-2yrs of nursing. I'm coming up on yr 2 and am feeling a bit more settled, but there are those days.....

BEfore you make this change, you really need to either volunteer, shadow a nurse, or work in the health industry. IF you think teaching is not for you, nursing is a huge culture shock. Nursing is nothing compared to what you see on t.v. WHen most people actually work in the health industry they are actually surprised and shocked because it's really all about making the money and politics.

The fact that you are giving up teaching after less than a year after going all the way for your masters, means that you need to be cautious with your decision-making skills. If anything work as an CNA, and you will definitely see what the health industry is realy about.

Specializes in FNP, ONP.

My suggestion is to publish a little in your field, and apply to a doctoral program with the goal of moving beyond elementary education and into a university position. You might even try transitioning into something like library science with an emphasis on working with SPED students at the Uni level. I know that the library at my alma mater had people who did such. They were not all doctorally prepared, but two were.

In your situation, I would not aspire to a low level nursing position looking for fulfillment. I think you would be wasting your current education, not to mention money, and end up sorely disappointed.

good luck, whatever you decide.

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