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Telling people exactly what I think of them
Telling people who aggravate me to buzz off
at ridiculous requests
Curbing my sarcasm
Curling up in a corner with my legs curled up beneath me...sucking my thumb and mumbling incoherently.
And no, I am not trying to win any gold stars or employee of the year award.
Having spent decades in "management theory of the month," when people start yammering about such things, I start going over my grocery list in my head. When they think I'm sitting there, being attentive, I'm actually wondering, "Is today the day the PET milk truck goes to Food Lion, or is it tomorrow?"
Trying to get everyone else to be perfect or at least as much of a perfectionist that I am. Dressings look sloppy, IV tubing expired and hanging everywhere, things not done per P&P, orders not followed, information not passed on in report...it all makes me want to scream and pull my hair out.
My habit that I am still trying to break it saying I'm sorry for Everything! It is just a nervous habit and I say it to everything!!! I'm sure it is very annoying!
Example: I'm sitting at a rolling computer and someone reaches over me for something. In stead of saying am I in your way.... I say sorry im in your way....they all look at me like I am crazy.
I have gotten better and I do catch myself doing it and stop immediatley. :)
nola1202
587 Posts
I'm full of questions lately. What behaviors had you really had to work on stopping (before it gets you in trouble) at work. I still battle mine. Meetings just seem to bring out the adolescent in me. I want to roll my eyes when I hear some of the new rulings passed down from above. I especially have a hard time with the latest business expressions...as in "raising the bar" or "action plan" or "huddles" (like football) (I like the actual result, small quick group meet/plan and off we go" But still honestly!!! The other is wanting to crack jokes about those cheezy training video's and anything else that passes me by. Life can just be so funny, but now I try to keep my observations and comments to myself..that's why I smile so much!