Horrible day! Need reassuring!

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So today was one of the worst days ever in my 5 years as a school nurse. At noon, right when I have 7 meds to give, a student at recess was running and tripped and his tooth went thru his lip. It was very bloody and he was freaking out. There was about a 1/4 inch hole and he needed stitches for sure, plus he has a broken tooth. Mom came ,( he lives across the street from school) and took him to urgent care.

That was not the problem! The problem was during this time a K student (5 yr old) felt "hot" and the staff wanted to call his parents to pick him up. The principal had made an announcement that my office was "currently closed" (all the kids were coming for meds and the child with the lip injury was still screaming and would not calm down while waiting for his parent). K staff said that principal told them not to call " and wait 5 mins, nurse will be open" and to bring him up. So my office is finally clear of lip kid, ( after 30 mins) and this boy comes and has a fever of 103.8!!!!! I call his parents immediately and tell them to come right now and get him, that he was sick and needed a doctor.They do not speak English, but said "yes on way". He was A+ O the entire time, I gave him a cool cloth and he was lying down resting until dad came. I keep checking in on him every few minutes and he was 103.2-103.6. he fell asleep. I had JUST checked on him again, he was the same, when his dad walks and I bring him over to where he is laying and he is having a seizure!!!

The father flips out and screams " what you do to my boy!". I ask if he has ever had a seizure or any medical issues, he says no. He picks the kid up off the bed and goes running into the main office with him, meanwhile I walkie talkies to call 911 .

Keep him safe on side, etc...

He was breathing the entire time and had a good HR and he was semi alert, he knew dad was there. Ambulance arrived and takes him to hospital. I am waiting to hear what happened.

But now, principal gets mad at me because I did not give him Tylenol!!! Really in the 29 mins he was in my office, I tried to get him to have a sip of water, he didn't want any. Plus I am not forcing a 5 year to have a med when the parents were on the way. I think that if principal had let the K staff bring him to me, or let them call home , he would have been seen by me almost an hour sooner and possibly could have not seized!

I am so upset, I am still shaking. I feel I did everything right, would you have done anything different? I pray this boy is ok, I am positive it was afebrile seizure, I know , can't diagnose, but I bet my life on it.

Thanks for listening. I am just upset and waiting for the fall out tomorrow. I know this is long! Thanks for reading my mess.

Specializes in NCSN.

That is a tough day.

As everyone else said, you did everything right. I think in the heat of the moment people say things and become angry before understanding the situation. Your principal probably just knows that Tylenol reduces fevers, and jumped to thinking that administering that would have fixed everything. But like others said, he probably still would have had the episode even if you forced him to take the Tylenol some how.

And who knows how the boy was presenting to the teachers. I have little ones sent all the time because even though they are acting absolutely fine but the teacher just happened to touch them or notice sweat on the little one's forehead and they have temps in the 101-102 range. No one is at fault here, it just happened.

Lots of positive vibes being sent your way for a better rest of the week.

Specializes in ICU/community health/school nursing.

Too much beyond your control. And honestly nothing I would have done differently. Hang in there!!

Are you all by yourself? Or do they have an aide that can help you with coverage in the event of overflow or an emergency?

Even something as simple as someone making the calls for you (by your side).

Specializes in Pediatrics Retired.
Are you all by yourself? Or do they have an aide that can help you with coverage in the event of overflow or an emergency?

Even something as simple as someone making the calls for you (by your side).

Typically school nurses work alone. We delegate needs to others in accordance to the scenario but in this case the principal "intervened" without invitation and mucked everything up.

I had a 1st grader with 103.8 fever yesterday too and she was fine and talking! My school district doesn't allow us to give any medication unless we have a medication at school form signed by both the doctors and parents. Kinda glad for that. Hope all is well and that you have a better day today. Hang in there!

A principal wouldn't know anything so ignore his insults and critiquing(sp?).

I would have taken his clothes off and put ice on him. Maybe you were not allowed to do that, though. Also, were you allowed to give Tylenol without a Dr.s order or parent's consent?

Specializes in School Nursing, Pediatrics.

UPDATE: sorry it took me so long, but things have been crazy and out of control!!

First, BOTH children are totally fine and will be back in school on Monday. Thank God.

Second, as I thought might happen, principal called my nursing supervisors to complain about me, and that she did, she complained about everything! BUT, nursing backed me up 100%, and basically told her everything I did was right. SO, upon hearing all of this, I put in for a transfer to another school (I work in a large district) and was granted it and I start on MONDAY at my new school!! I have been sick over this since Wednesday, can't eat, very stressed, yelling at my own children, being a ***** at home...etc...I cannot work for a person who doesn't trust my judgements, and undermines me all the time.

So I packed all my stuff up, and left school yesterday and I only told 2 of my closest friends there. They were happy for me and were like "take me with you". LOL Principal was not there on Friday, which made it much easier, and nursing emailed her to tell her. So she gets a sub nurse for now, and last time that happened it was a disaster! Good luck you wicked witch! Sorry, not sorry!

Thanks for ALL your support guys, I really appreciate it! Noone understands what we go thru, and what (little) we have to work with. I am glad I have this forum!

Specializes in NCSN.

I am so glad you are doing what is best for you! I hope that the new school is a much better fit!

I would have taken his clothes off and put ice on him.

You would have iced him down?!!!!! Are you in the US?

Specializes in School nursing.
You would have iced him down?!!!!! Are you in the US?

That was my thought as well. Not to mention - naked child in the school nurse's office? That would not go well at all.

Scuba - yay on your transfer! That is awesome and I am so happy your supervisor was so supportive and must have realized how your situation was and didn't want to lose you. I hope your new school principal is amazing.

And that poor sub coming it...sounds like that are going to have a hard time getting a school nurse to stay put and work with this principal long term.

Specializes in School Nursing.

I am so sorry to hear of how distressed you were but so glad to hear what came of everything- the children are well and back to school and now you will be happier in hopefully a much better work environment. I don't think things could have turned out better for you! Especially knowing that your supervisors have your back. Now I just feel bad for whoever is coming to take your place, but I'm also ideally hoping the principal realized even a little that she is not an expert in the health arena.

Best wishes to you!!

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