What money can get you.

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:uhoh3: I'm appalled to say i came from a school that allowed this, but i want to hear what you guys think.

So we had this girl that graduated last year, she came from a very very wealthy family. we shall call her "Jane Doe" I mean...very wealthy, beyond the point where you cringe. And she is super showy about it. Daddy bought her everything. her New mercedes for passing pediatrics, a class in which she struggled.

She is constantly dressed up in like Gucci stuff, only does her shopping in New York City, which they fly too every couple months so she can shop with daddy's credit card.

Ok, she reminds me of paris hilton. No joke! So to imagine this girl, think of Paris Hilton in Nursing school and you have this girl. :lol2:

Ok, now you picture this girl. She is was in her psychiatric rotation at our local mental health facility. There was a girl that Jane Doe went to high school with that was in the psych unit for attempted suicide. Jane Doe and this other girl, the patient HATED each other in high school. I belive they've gotten in a few fights, constantly fighting blah blah blah (high school stuff). Anyway...so Jane Doe actually access her medical record and got all this information about her. Such has her hx of depression, suicide attempts, drug use etc. So Jane Doe gets home after her clinical day and tells her ROOMMATE, who isnt even in nursing, who she saw. She told her Roommate everything she read on the medical record.

So Jane Doe starts emailing anonymously this poor girl things like "If you were smart enough you would have jumped off that bridge" ....really really horrible stuff.

So anyway, make a long story short because there was more said and done, this patient complained to the hospital that someone had to have shared information because she is getting all these emails and its information only the hospital knows (medications, history etc.). So while the hospital is doing their investigation, she is still writing all these nasty emails to this poor girl. Her Roommate knew all about it (but not being in nursing knew nothing about HIPPA). So her roommate goes to one of our psychiatric nursing instructor and asked to speak with her privately. The roommate told her everything, just stating that she doesn't know if Jane Doe is doing something wrong or if there are any regulations against this but her roommate felt something was very very wrong about the situation.

So all actions that should have taken place, did take place. She was suspended from clinicals until it was reviewed, hospital was notified, the head hanchos got involved...everything. But now here is the catch----- her dad donated $100,000 to the school. and little miss prissy pants got off with NOTHING. No punishment, not kicked out of the school, nothing but a slap on the hand.

What do you guys think of this?? It disgusts me to even look at her. Needless to say, she got a job after daddy donated money to the hospital she got hired at (Sound fishy??)

"However, do not agree with the attitude that is coming through in many of the responses.....it's an attitude of class envy. Please try to separate your emotions (e.g. the class envy) from the logical, pragmatic response (e.g. the student should have been more severely reprimanded)."

I hate that when someone has an opinion about something that is negative that the defense is always that it is racially motivated, motivated by envy, hate, jealousy, lack of knowledge (you just don't understand blah blah) or basically any other excuse someone can come up with other than stopping and thinking "wow, they may be right". We are human so our arguments and opinions are always based on emotion no matter how much we try to seperate ourselves it is essentially impossible and just because you believe you see a logical and legal response to what is going on, quess what my friend, that is not how it happens in the real world. Take the blind fold from your eyes because I have had many horrible opportunities to see the crappy side of our legal system and how blurred the lines actually are and what money can and especially what not having money will get you.

How can getting angry seeing someone harm another and get away with it (and a nurse no less which makes it so much worse) and seeing someone who has been able to buy themselves out of a situation where they should have been severely reprimanded or seeing someone get an employment position with absolutely no merit when others literally drive themselves into the ground to prove themselves...How can you call this ENVY? Thats called FRUSTRATION.

P.S I think the person is the room mate...that just popped right into my head as I was reading the story, it seemed so obvious cause of where all of a sudden there was more emotion inthe story but I don't know if it is true or not.

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.
Yes. Not trying to offend anyone, but I thought it was approprite, given where I first heard it:

new ED doc is paged in, and takes the closest parking spot- which happened to be the Hospital Director's designated slot. Trauma goes to surgery about the same time the Director is coming in, rather perturbed.

"Who took my space! Blahblahblah!"

Doc apologetically comes up, saying he'll move his car. Directors says, "Who are you?"

Doc sticks out his hand, totally straightfaced, "Dr. Mehoff, Jack Mehoff." Walks out the door.:clown: Two extremely arrogant gentlemen.

And I was just about to google "Jack Mehoff" when I said the name in my head. And here I was thinking "Wow, he's good if he can actually figure out who this person is by the info given in the OP!"

And now I have the Prince song of the same name going through my head. And I thank you for that.

"most male-dominated professions....and guess what? Most male-dominated professions are more respected and better paid....and this type of thing is part of the reason why. Food for thought ladies....)"

What male dominated professions are you speaking of, doctors? There are more female doctors graduating now than men, and if a male doctor of the same experiance and education of his female counterpart is being paid more then that is a lawsuit nowadays, we don't have to hide in the kitchen anymore.

And almost everything on allnurses can be considered gossipy so why are you here.

And ask the men in your life if it is true about only females being gossipy, my husband will tell you that there are some differences but men can be just as bad when it comes to gossiping, backstabbing and work place drama. Sounds to me like you aren't helping the female cause in any way by comparing our behaviour to a man, we are not men, we are not built like men, our emotions and thoughts are not like men, our hormones and life processes are not the same as a man and that does not make us better or worse only different and those differences are beautiful and should be appreciated for the the differences that they, stop trying to make a woman into a man it will never happen and thank god for that. Anyway I think we are totally off topic.

AND, under a US gov statistics website I found that it is the professional and higher paid positions that are more equal when compared to the amount of men and women, it is the lower paid more physically demanding jobs that are dominated by men such as the military infantry, carpentry, mechanic, etc. Give women some credit dang

Specializes in Case Manager.

Nothing wrong with using money to buy your way out of stuff... Why struggle if you don't have to? Don't be jealous of people who have money because 95% of us would do the SAME thing if we were in their shoes, from the Gucci bags to the donations. And most rich people are borderline sociopaths and that's how the become rich in the first place.

But I do highly disagree with her getting off so easily. If I were you, I'd start calling her the "Teflon Don."

Specializes in Trauma Surgery, Nursing Management.
The weirdest part of this whole story is that why would such a person pick nursing as a career?

She is husband fishing. She wants a doc. Daddy can't buy her a doc hubby. She'll quit as soon as she lands one that can tolerate her, and then she will rifle through his patient database to find the "cute" patients and make anonymous phone calls/texts to them warning them to STAY AWAY!! Then the hubby's practice will take a nosedive, he will end up broke, and she will divorce him. On to the next doc...

Sorry, feeling a bit snarky. I can't stand this type of person. :uhoh3:

Specializes in Peds/outpatient FP,derm,allergy/private duty.
As for brainiacl1 and nurse56 gossiping and cattiness, backstabbing and all the other blah blah that drives us crazy on a daily basis has nothing to do with class, sex or whether or not you are a nurse.

Well I guess it's a good thing I don't believe gossiping, cattiness, backstabbing and all the other blah blah has anything to do with class, sex or whether or not you are a nurse then, huh? :uhoh21:

Read some blogs by people of other professions and you will see the exact same issues mirrored on their websites, so much so as to be almost funny. We sit here and blame this and that and say well they don't have a problem with this because its a male dominated profession or they don't have any clue about my problems because they are a vet tech and I am a nurse, well guess what, they have the EXACT SAME issues, your not so special sorry to tell you.

And you don't radiate a harmonious spirit of peace and oneness - sorry to tell you. I would just say "what is your problem?" but I guess that's too vague. I only brought the point about men participating in my response to brainiac1 because he brought up the gender issue, OK?

Specializes in Emergency Dept. Trauma. Pediatrics.
A little too "TMZ"-ish . . .:uhoh21: but -- I may be overcompensating for having believed the "balloon boy" parents until the bitter end. :bluecry1:

I worked with an intern who was the son of the big donors - he was an arrogant jerk but not unethical or dangerous.

Same here, something just isn't adding up. I also would be shocked that someone to good for everyone would pick a field where they have to encounter "gross stuff" would be to "good" to do any dirty work one would think. I am thinking though there is a lot of embellishment going on.

Is this a joke? (say the name quickly, out loud)

BUAHAHAHAHAHA never put that together until your post.

Nothing wrong with using money to buy your way out of stuff... Why struggle if you don't have to? Don't be jealous of people who have money because 95% of us would do the SAME thing if we were in their shoes, from the Gucci bags to the donations. And most rich people are borderline sociopaths and that's how the become rich in the first place.

But I do highly disagree with her getting off so easily. If I were you, I'd start calling her the "Teflon Don."

There is something wrong with buying your way out of committing crimes. Yes I know it's done, no it's not often I don't believe and no I wouldn't do the same thing. I would never do anything like the OP did and if I had money I would be to embarrassed to buy myself out of all of it. I had a hard time enough emailing a contact for a job interview. I also came within 2 points out of 1000 of getting a better grade and a lot of people said I should just ask the teacher if she would give it to me or anything I could do to get it and I wouldn't. I felt wrong asking for something I didn't earn. Just how I am.

I also think that is a pretty broad generalized negative statement there. Most rich people are borderline sociopaths??? In the winters my husband works for many rich people, multi millionaires driving a 2.5 million dollar motor home staying in these rich RV parks on top of their 4-5 homes they also own. Very wealthy. Good majority are super nice people that treat him like a grandson and worked hard for their money. I am curious, what do you base this information that most rich people are borderline sociopaths on?

If I claimed to be full of harmonious peace and oneness then I guess you could call me on that but I never have sooooo.....

and I am betting from how quickly you get ***** on your postings and by the age and experiance listed that you are probably one of those nurses who gets away with being pushy and rude at work, basically the preceptor or supervisor from hell. Well I have worked with plenty of women (and men) like that and I have never given up an inch of ground so we could go toe to toe forever but this isn't a place of employment and there are more interesting things to read on allnurses...or mabe I will go meditate and work on my inner peace "OOooommm", hey it's working already lol

Specializes in Case Manager.
I also think that is a pretty broad generalized negative statement there. Most rich people are borderline sociopaths??? In the winters my husband works for many rich people, multi millionaires driving a 2.5 million dollar motor home staying in these rich RV parks on top of their 4-5 homes they also own. Very wealthy. Good majority are super nice people that treat him like a grandson and worked hard for their money. I am curious, what do you base this information that most rich people are borderline sociopaths on?

The ideologies of most of the rich aren't exactly the same ideologies that the other 95% of the country shares when it comes to politics, distribution of wealth, etc... I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but MOST rich people are disillusioned to the reality of some things... at least that's been my experience.

Specializes in FNP.

All due respect, that is a bunch of nonsense. It also negates your entire premise when you make such sweeping generalizations. The young lady should not have been permitted to get away with such egregious behavior, and it is a shame that she was. For that, the blame lies with those who decided to ignore it. Her family socioeconomic status is irrelevant.

The OP sounds very immature with the remarks about couture handbags and fine German cars, etc. I believe that is what prompted the "class envy" remark, and I agree with that sentiment. I would have advised the OP to leave out the pejoratives and stick to the facts, i.e. a student committed several offenses and got away with it, OP is frustrated, period. The rest only serves to raise doubts about her own motives and character IMO.

Specializes in LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych.

Once again, members seem to be forgetting that one can disagree without being disagreeable, and there is too much clean-up to be done to allow this thread to proceed further tonight. Closed for a time-out and to let some of the heat simmer down.

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