Many of us know how to be good nurses, but are unaware of the actual patient experience. I wanted to share some of the good/bad aspects of health care from a patient's view. Moreover, I believe that having both the patient's and the nurse's point of view enhances my nursing ability. I tried to be both humorous and honest in my article.
Thank you for sharing your insight as a patient rnsheri. I have never spent a night in hospital so would have absolutely NO idea of how it actually feels. You really explained some aspects in such an honest and clear way, I was imagining myself as patient, providing stool samples or looking up at nursing staff instead of usually looking at the patient in bed. Again, I really enjoyed your post. Thank you :)
I sooooo agree with you OP! I was there too last year. However, I was not in a hospital where I knew anyone. I also felt the staff could have been much better in the ER I went to....and their talents were not good, no matter where they put the stick! ACK! Ouch! I had a BIG bruise for weeks afterward! I totally agree about the embarrassment and...one thing you didn't mention...that sometimes nurses do not get why we are not doing as well as they think we should and some start to think (I've been there) the patient may be a little withholding with what they can do. I learned that sometimes, though the nurse may expect more...that is ALL you've got....Not saying that applies to all patients.
Yes...we need to take care of ourselves! I learned that too!
I was a patient in Feb. I had a GREAT experience other than one nurse. My IV was in my hand and it was sore for three weeks after they took it out.
My least favorite thing was them trying to wean me off O2. Ever time I fell asleep, it went off. My RR is naturally very low (8-10) so with IV pain meds. I guess I needed it. I finally convinced them to leave me on 2L so I could get a little sleep.
Zofran didn't even begin to touch the extreme, seemingly endless waves of nausea and retching after my surgery; apparently my body did not like the morphine they were giving me. If I hadn't felt so truly miserable I would have laughed when, after several hours of the room spinning (and the Zofran still not working), the nurse said to me, as I continued with the uncontrollable frequent dry heaves.....
"Honey, you have got to stop this."
I was completely flabbergasted.
Uh, well,.....yuh. You think I'm enjoying this? That I can just..... stop?
I actually ended up on the first floor I ever worked on with my preceptor as my nurse. While I will always love her, I almost killed her that day. My 102 fever, elevated white count and non stop puking plus uncontrolled abd pain were in her words "stress-related". I almost flipped out.
What surprised me was the one nurse I couldn't stand when I worked there turned out to be the best nurse I had the week I was there.
I also let a student draw a blood culture. Never again! I have viens that are so easy a baby could draw from them. The student went right through it. It hurt like I don't know what!
I was a patient in the renal unit about 5 years ago. I was there 5 days recovering from a minor operation. It was the first time I experienced being a patient since becoming a nurse. I work medical/surgical. One thing i realized was how crappy it is in a shared room when roomates have visitors at ALL HOURS. The nursing care I received was good. I didn't like poeple doing "proceedures" on me. I emptied my own JP and wrote it down for the nurses. When the order was given for the foley to come out, I asked the nurse for a syringe to deflate the baloon and took it out myself. I realized how private of a person I am. The nurses were great, allowed me as much privacy/autonomy as possible. They seemed to appreciate when I did things for myself. Hardest part was not helping nurses with other patients when I could see they were super busy, and I was feeling ok.
As healthcare professionals, we may forget how to be a patient. We love our patients, we sometimes get frustrated with our patients, and occasionally we will BE patients. I had the opportunity to be an inpatient at the hospital I worked at. I found out several things during this experience I would like to share with you. Perhaps you can relate.
About rnsheri
3 year(s) of experience in Med/Surg, orthopedics, urology
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