Munchausen by Internet: The Lying Disease that Preys on the Heart - page 2
by tnbutterfly Admin
For decades, people have heard of Munchausen syndrome, a disorder characterized by people taking extraordinary measures to fake illnesses or psychological trauma for the sole purpose of attracting attention and sympathy from... Read More
- 14Jan 30, '13 by brian AdminQuote from kloneYes, this is something that happened on allnurses.com. We were suspicious, we investigated, we cleaned house. This person was banned to protect the rest of the membership from their sick game.Wait, what? So the OP is in response to something that happened here?
- 5Jan 30, '13 by marycarneyWe've been discussing this extensively on another forum I participate in -websleuths.com. It came to light in regard to a thread/story which has blown up over there. In this case, the mother of a young woman who took her own life has spun this gigantic story about stalking/murder/porphyria/CO poisoning.
Then there is the family who was on Extreme Makeover:Home Edition whose mother claimed her two girls had some strange malady, and this story has totally unraveled. (This is, I believe, a case of MBP which has an internet presence)
There's a difference, I suppose between the person who seeks ATTENTION and the person who seeks MONEY for their supposed affliction.
Anyway, I work in a peds hospital, and the whole MBP thing is so evil.
- 9Jan 30, '13 by barichter.caI was once on the other side, so to speak. In early 2000 I was very sick and we didn't know why. I couldn't keep anything down and was in a lot of pain and we didn't know why. I was having to get IV fluids a minimum of 3x per week just to keep hydrated! Unfortunately, my tests were coming back negative so we didn't know what was wrong. This went on for almost 3 years!! My doctor finally asked if he could consult with the in-house psychiatrist to see if she could pick up on anything we might be missing. I told him to go ahead if he felt she might be able to provide some answers. In the meantime, I had to quit my job because I wasn't able to continue working when I was constantly in the clinic getting IVs, etc. My disability attorney sent me a copy of my medical records and I read that the in-house psychiatrist diagnosed me with munchausen syndrome. I was flabbergasted! I spoke with my PCP who said he felt it was an error and asked me to see her for one visit. I did, and when I did, I mentioned to her that I knew that "someone" had made this assessment without ever even seeing me. [I had never even met this person before]. She told me that [and I quote], "a munchausen diagnosis cannot be made without seeing a patient and thoroughly evaluating him or her a minimum of 10-15 times". This being the case, I asked how this diagnosis could've possibly been made on me when I had never in my life seen the doctor who made the diagnosis and she said it couldn't. It was impossible. Well, the damage was already done. Since it was written in my permanent medical file, my reputation was mauled. From that point on, everyone who read my chart believed that I was faking my illness to get attention and everything that I treated for from that point forward, I was treated like I was faking everything! [For what it's worth, we did discover about 4 months later that I had a very severe cholecystitis with both acute and chronic inflammation, and I ended up spending 7 days in the hospital with a bad infection after it was removed. Afterwards, I was fine.] I have since moved out of that area and I refuse to give any of my doctors here access to that medical file because of that munchausen diagnosis that was written in it. My own PCP didn't treat me the same after she wrote that in there. It's a diagnosis that you have to be 100% sure about or you could really end up hurting someone.
- 3Jan 30, '13 by Sadalap.s.s. I think #8 is an especially important indicator. In real life, your friends/relatives/SO have very little interest in your involvement in online forums. They are not going to come post for you - and certainly not repeatedly.
- 7Jan 30, '13 by leslie :-Dfirstly, thank you tnbutterfly, for this informative and timely article.
much needed, much appreciated.
secondly, i must say that i always feel pity for these storytellers.
i've never felt angry ...as i find it heartbreaking that someone is that desperate for attention.
to invest such effort and time into fabricating a story that undoubtedly evokes a sympathetic response from many...
seriously, isn't that just pathetic and tragic??
it's hard for me to feel betrayed when the bottom line for me is, my heart (and subsequent response) was in the right place.
and that's all that counts, imo.
whatever the other did, is on them.
their problem, more than they even realize.
i wish they would all get the help they so desperately need.
it really is incredibly sad...
and pray this particular person doesn't remain *terminal* in their quest for validation.
- 3Jan 30, '13 by wish_me_luckI agree, Leslie. Before I knew of the poster's situation, I had given the poster my name. Then, it got weird. I knew something wasn't right. The timeline didn't add up. The severity of the proclaimed illness would have caused more deficits than was shown.