My partner's family failed to tell me about the DNR status of their 82 year-old father until last week. He lives with us. He is pretty healthy but has recently been feeling some general malaise and weakness. The my partner's only sibling who is the healthcare POA stated he is absolutely a DNR, but she lives out of state. I am uncomfortable not having his advanced directives here at the home to reference to incase of an emergency. What do you suggest my fellow nurses? I am going to ask for my partner's sister to submit a letter to me stating that he is a DNR at the very least, since she is the healthcare POA. Do you think I am blowing this out of proportion? Please leave your feedback.