Hi Everyone,
I had one of those days where I know I did what a patient wanted, but I'm still crying about it. I had an older male pt with respiratory disease (end stage). Pt was supposed to go home with hospice care today and was supposedly comfort measures. I come in to find a confused, hypercarbic?(high co2) pt on 6L nasal cannula, 02 sat at 83%.
So, I talk to the NP on his management team..and he's like, put him on Bi-PaP...and I say, BiPaP? (Because last I checked we let comfort measures patients go..not support them on BiPap) So I call my charge nurse and respiratory, verify that it's ok, and get it set up. Pt absolutely hates the mask, but is ventilating better. I talk to another RN working with NP's team..and she says, oh, so yeah, comfort measures is a grey area. This pt is supposed to go home today and was up walking around yesterday etc etc. So is the pt just DNAR? Full Code?
Beep beep beep...goes the Bipap. Incessantly. And since I work med-surg, where we supposedly never have Bipap, I'm not trained and am calling the respiratory team every 20 minutes..and neglecting my other four patients. Beep Beep Beep.
Pt becomes more alert and wants to eat lunch. I'm like, sure, anything you want, we can take that mask off for a while. I get pt's favorite foods and spoon feed him. I stay there for the entire time, not leaving his side. Pt starts to look more lethargic, cyanotic. I put BiPap back on..and despite connection to the wall not being messed with, No 02 is flowing. I call respiratory and get it set back up..but 02 sats are in low 70's.
NP from the morning that asked me to place BiPap starts freaking out..do we work him up? What do I do? Finally, I'm like, call the attending. Attending says, Do what the family wants. NP doesn't know..is so anxious and bothers me with questions. I'm like, call the family, you know them, I've never seen them.
Beep Beep Beep. Family is in the room taking off Bipap so patient can drink. Pt is smiling at everyone and appears to be saying goodbyes.
Beep Beep Beep. Family says, we know she does not want this and asks me to remove Bipap. I give pt ativan, scopolamine, morphine. The beeping stops.
45 minutes later..held by two adult children, patient takes his last breath.
I held it together at work..but now I've been crying. I know it's partly exhaustion, but I'm upset too.