5/01 WILTW: Margaritas and Oral Thrush

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I've been asked to start the WILTW thread, and I'm more than happy to!

This has been an exciting week for me, as it was the last week of my Med/Surg I rotation. I'm trying not to feel too relieved though, because finals are next week. That being said, I will still absolutely squeeze in time to catch up on GOT.

This week I learned:

That my clinical instructor is a big ole softy. I can't believe that I thought she was super scary when the rotation first started.

That having just one year left of nursing school doesn't feel like enough time. Don't get me wrong, I feel like I've learned a ton in the one year of school I've had (and I'm more than ready to graduate so that I can get my social life back), but when I think of just how much I still don't know, I get a little worried.

That I wish I could take some patients home with me. Throughout clinical, I had nice patients, but none that really lingered in my thoughts when I went home for the day. But last week I had a patient who had already been through so much. His whole family had already been through so much. Sometimes it's hard to know just what to say, and I hope I was more helpful than I felt I was.

That I'm probably going to have a lifetime of telling family members, I'm not a doctor. You really need to talk to your doctor about that. I will probably NEVER be able to diagnose you.”

I've also learned that said family members, when you actually do give them advice (such as dietary advice), will say Oh, you're just regurgitating what you've learned in school,” and will continue to eat everything under the sun while wondering why their blood pressure isn't controlled. Why yes, I am telling you what I've learned in school, but apparently you'd rather hear that steak for every meal paired with a margarita is the best possible chance for survival.

That being said, I do follow the steak and margarita diet. But hey, I'm working on it.

That the best way to get a resident to like you is to empathize. Let them vent. Losing my independence is something I can hardly fathom, and I'm sure I wouldn't handle it with grace. (Like, really I'm very certain that I'll be the LOL trying to escape everyday and falling out of my wheel chair in an attempt to lunge out the door). It's ok to let residents feel angry about it. It's ok let them know that, yes, it does suck, and that you'll be right around the corner when they're ready for help.

But it's not ok if they scratch you. Or bite you. Oh swear at you. We still need some limits.

That I will never ever forget to do an oral assessment on my patients. This is the second time I've shined a penlight in there and found a massive case of oral thrush.

On that note, I'm also very glad I'm not a dentist or dental hygienist. I'll wipe all the butts in the world, but don't bring that mouth any closer to me.

But what's grosser than the grossest mouth? Maggots. I was not pleased to learn that maggots are still being used for wound debridement. That...is my limit.

So what did you learn?

I learned that a scary number of people on AN really believe men are better than women. At everything. :eek: Let's just see one have a baby. Hmmph. (No offense, dudes. You are awesome. Just not "better than.") As a woman who escaped socialized misogyny, this REALLY irks me.

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Same. I grew up in a ridiculously strict environment where people told me something was wrong with me if I wanted to do anything other than become a wife and mom. Saying some of these recent posts irks me doesn't even begin to touch it.

Congrats crackle!!!

When is your pinning?

This Thursday! I just bought a pin off of Amazon. I'm not too sentimental.

I have 2 weeks of school left. In those 2 weeks I have a Kaplan test and 2 finals.

I have reinstalled the app on my phone. I'll be back during the summer.

Cani, I love you. Have I ever told you that?

Oh, I have?

You are gold, Ponyboy.

**sniff**

Gets me in the feels, every time. (Don't go, Johnny!)

I have 2 weeks of school left. In those 2 weeks I have a Kaplan test and 2 finals.

I have reinstalled the app on my phone. I'll be back during the summer.

Good luck Ood...almost there.

Specializes in critical care.
I've been asked to start the WILTW thread, and I'm more than happy to!

This has been an exciting week for me, as it was the last week of my Med/Surg I rotation. I'm trying not to feel too relieved though, because finals are next week. That being said, I will still absolutely squeeze in time to catch up on GOT.

This week I learned:

That my clinical instructor is a big ole softy. I can't believe that I thought she was super scary when the rotation first started.

That having just one year left of nursing school doesn't feel like enough time. Don't get me wrong, I feel like I've learned a ton in the one year of school I've had (and I'm more than ready to graduate so that I can get my social life back), but when I think of just how much I still don't know, I get a little worried.

That I wish I could take some patients home with me. Throughout clinical, I had nice patients, but none that really lingered in my thoughts when I went home for the day. But last week I had a patient who had already been through so much. His whole family had already been through so much. Sometimes it's hard to know just what to say, and I hope I was more helpful than I felt I was.

That I'm probably going to have a lifetime of telling family members, I'm not a doctor. You really need to talk to your doctor about that. I will probably NEVER be able to diagnose you.”

I've also learned that said family members, when you actually do give them advice (such as dietary advice), will say Oh, you're just regurgitating what you've learned in school,” and will continue to eat everything under the sun while wondering why their blood pressure isn't controlled. Why yes, I am telling you what I've learned in school, but apparently you'd rather hear that steak for every meal paired with a margarita is the best possible chance for survival.

That being said, I do follow the steak and margarita diet. But hey, I'm working on it.

That the best way to get a resident to like you is to empathize. Let them vent. Losing my independence is something I can hardly fathom, and I'm sure I wouldn't handle it with grace. (Like, really I'm very certain that I'll be the LOL trying to escape everyday and falling out of my wheel chair in an attempt to lunge out the door). It's ok to let residents feel angry about it. It's ok let them know that, yes, it does suck, and that you'll be right around the corner when they're ready for help.

But it's not ok if they scratch you. Or bite you. Oh swear at you. We still need some limits.

That I will never ever forget to do an oral assessment on my patients. This is the second time I've shined a penlight in there and found a massive case of oral thrush.

On that note, I'm also very glad I'm not a dentist or dental hygienist. I'll wipe all the butts in the world, but don't bring that mouth any closer to me.

But what's grosser than the grossest mouth? Maggots. I was not pleased to learn that maggots are still being used for wound debridement. That...is my limit.

So what did you learn?

I just learned you, personally, have the heart and mind of a nurse, whether you've finished school or not.

Keep that "I don't know enough" feeling. Once you start believing you know all you can know, it's time to take a step back and self-assess. Feeling you still have more to learn keeps your mind open to learning more, questioning more, and always focusing on the patient for potential status changes. Knowing "everything" means you stop paying attention closely.

Sometimes, not knowing what to say is actually the best thing. Simply being present can make a bigger impact than having words.

I have family who ask my advice/thoughts and then argue with me in the rare instance that I actually humor them.

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Letting patients vocalize their frustrations can be so cathartic for them. Even when their frustration is being directed at you. Sometimes they'll have anger that needs a place to go. Sometimes they'll have justified anger (yes, including at you). Sit down. Make eye contact. LISTEN. Sometimes being HEARD helps a person better than whatever pill you're bringing them. It's the simplest gesture to listen, and yet, I feel like this gets missed. When the patient has gotten it all out, if something is wrong, I like to say to them, "I don't know how to fix this, but I want to. Is it okay with you if I look into this?" They feel heard. They feel they have some control back when you ask their permission. They'll be thankful for your honesty, when you admit you don't know how to fix whatever is wrong. They'll feel you are genuine, which is important when you consider HOW MUCH a patient trusts us with.

Violence from patients really sucks. :( I'm sorry if you were attacked. I've been assaulted once. A patient with severe dementia who had been refusing everything punched me on my head when I tried to sneak him an IV beta blocker. His systolic was >200. Apparently his IV had blown, though, and my attempts to push anything through it hurt. :\

Dude, on the dental tech or anything relating to dental offices.... OMG MOUTHS ARE SO GROSS!!!!

THANK YOU!!!!! for starting the thread this week! [emoji173]️

Specializes in M/S, LTC, Corrections, PDN & drug rehab.

Congratulations everyone on finishing school!!!

Specializes in Pediatrics, NICU.

I learned that I actually really enjoy working with some nursing students! (Don't hate me, students! I just have a bad track record with having disinterested or rude students) The two I worked with this week were so pleasant and respectful and I really genuinely enjoyed having them for the day! :yes:

I learned that it's actually kind of hilarious when a little premie is born still in their membranes and then lets out the loudest cry and startles the OB when the caul is abruptly broken. I ❤️ a sassy premie!

I learned that it's really ok to stand your ground when you know you're making a sound decision based on critical thinking and past experience, even if some people don't like your decision because it creates more work for them.

Violence from patients really sucks. :( I'm sorry if you were attacked. I've been assaulted once. A patient with severe dementia who had been refusing everything punched me on my head when I tried to sneak him an IV beta blocker. His systolic was >200. Apparently his IV had blown, though, and my attempts to push anything through it hurt. :\

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Violence was not directed toward me. It was threatened toward another caregiver; the LOL was very upset about feeling that her independence was being taken away, particularly by this specific caregiver. So we had a chat. I let her tell me all the things that felt frustrating about the situation, tried to empathize, and then ended on the "violence is not the answer" note.

Sometimes, not knowing what to say is actually the best thing. Simply being present can make a bigger impact than having words.

I have family who ask my advice/thoughts and then argue with me in the rare instance that I actually humor them.

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Both statements are exactly true, in my (recent) experience.

*2 weeks left of first semester...

My bad.

My bad.

Hmmm...

Let the punishment fit the crime!

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