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I have decided I need to get away from the hospital system I currently work for and find a new one. Decision a long time in the making.
What are a few good reasons I can give for looking for a new job
Here's my real ones.
lazy coworkers
mean director (new in the last 3 years)
turn over of 130 staff members in 1.5 years
way to far to drive
rediculous/redundant amount of charting and paperwork
bullying
bad nurse/patient ratio
I need to work with more sophisticated staff/patients/doctors so I think urban rather than rural?
I would like to work in a more culturally diverse system (can I say that)
I've been a nurse for a long time and the system I have worked in for the last 3.5 years is killing all my desire and excitement to be a nurse anymore. I need a change
Those of you who have been on here with me for a long time know I love and care about nursing, but somethings gotta change.
Thanks guys
Gonzo1, you and I have probably worked at the same hospital at one point! In any case, I made the move you are talking about and work in two urban hospitals that are very diverse. I love it! I am not saying that there are no immature people/staff in my hospitals, but it is FAR LESS than what I experienced in rural America!
For example, people may have known each other way-back-when even in the urban setting, but most people do not want to talk trash about those that knew them in the past because no one is perfect and no one wants to be talked about negatively in return. Also, everyone wants a chance to be known as someone who can do his/her job and be professional because it means something in an urban setting, whereas in a rural setting it seems to mean nothing. A nurse can act very unprofessional with staff and managers because she/he knows the right people (she/he grew up with them) and is able to remain employed. So the team player approach is better in urban hospitals and so is respect for education, work experience, and others that are different than you!!!
In fact, I love the patient dynamics in the urban setting. I do not represent the culture of all of my patients, but that is not a problem! I represent the culture of many and the dynamics is much much better from those that do not look like me because they know, and in many cases are related or married to, people who look like me.
Also, within the rural setting nurses are confused and lost. They are threatened by people they do not know, threatened by people that do not look or talk like them, and threatened by new information and technology. Basically it is sad! And so, a Rural-American setting IS NOT for everyone (definitely not for me) and if you think that an Urban-American setting is a better fit, you are likely to be correct (as it is for me). :) I am better off in how much I get paid (ching-ching) and my happiness is exponentially HIGHER! I could know go on, but I would take up this entire thread. To sum, make the move and good luck! :)
You could always say that it's too far and you're tired of driving so far with the gas prices right now. I definitely wouldn't trash your old job/employer in your new job interview, that could be a red flag for the potential new boss. Also, don't talk about the bullying situation too much if at all - it may make you sound like you're difficult to work with or not a team player, even if that's not the case. Good luck in your job search, I hope things improve for you and that I was helpful!:)
As always you all rock. Had my interview today and it went great because the director is just an all around good guy. I have friends that work for him. Also, I did what you all told me. He says I have the job and HR will be getting in touch with me. MBARNBSN, you hit it on the head on so many points, and if I have worked with you I know I loved it.
I was awestruck at the great equiptment they have. This job is really an upgrade for me. Thanks to all who helped. I love you guys and Merry Christmas, much health and happyness to all of you.
Congrats on the job. I think it's fine to change places sometimes. The first hospital I worked compared to the second were night and day in terms of everything!!! The second was SO much better which made all the things that are the same in any hospital easier to deal with.
For or future reference of anyone looking: Reason for looking for a new job: "While I've learned a lot from my current place of employment and will be forever grateful for the opportunities I've had there, I'm seeking another position elsewhere because I'd like to see how other institutions are ran in order to broaden my horizon and gain new opportunities and experiences. It's also ok to mention you would like to be closer to work (if you're applying to a closer place) which would also make call-in's easier (even if not planning on doing call-ins because it sounds good). Never mention people problems of any kind because it's a red flag even if it's not your fault!
Gonzo1, you and I have probably worked at the same hospital at one point! In any case, I made the move you are talking about and work in two urban hospitals that are very diverse. I love it! I am not saying that there are no immature people/staff in my hospitals, but it is FAR LESS than what I experienced in rural America!For example, people may have known each other way-back-when even in the urban setting, but most people do not want to talk trash about those that knew them in the past because no one is perfect and no one wants to be talked about negatively in return. Also, everyone wants a chance to be known as someone who can do his/her job and be professional because it means something in an urban setting, whereas in a rural setting it seems to mean nothing. A nurse can act very unprofessional with staff and managers because she/he knows the right people (she/he grew up with them) and is able to remain employed. So the team player approach is better in urban hospitals and so is respect for education, work experience, and others that are different than you!!!
In fact, I love the patient dynamics in the urban setting. I do not represent the culture of all of my patients, but that is not a problem! I represent the culture of many and the dynamics is much much better from those that do not look like me because they know, and in many cases are related or married to, people who look like me.
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Also, within the rural setting nurses are confused and lost. They are threatened by people they do not know, threatened by people that do not look or talk like them, and threatened by new information and technology. Basically it is sad! And so, a Rural-American setting IS NOT for everyone (definitely not for me) and if you think that an Urban-American setting is a better fit, you are likely to be correct (as it is for me). :) I am better off in how much I get paid (ching-ching) and my happiness is exponentially HIGHER! I could know go on, but I would take up this entire thread. To sum, make the move and good luck! :)
I agree 100% with MBarnes. Rural hospitals have a lot of drawbacks in terms of poorly trained and inexperienced staff and politics. Experienced staff are a threat to the status quo. I worked in a 79 bed hospital in which certification and continuing education was belittled. It is challenging to work in that kind of culture.
As always you all rock. Had my interview today and it went great because the director is just an all around good guy. I have friends that work for him. Also, I did what you all told me. He says I have the job and HR will be getting in touch with me. MBARNBSN, you hit it on the head on so many points, and if I have worked with you I know I loved it.I was awestruck at the great equiptment they have. This job is really an upgrade for me. Thanks to all who helped. I love you guys and Merry Christmas, much health and happyness to all of you.
Congrats!!! :up:
Sending positive vibes in your new endeavors!!!
As always you all rock. Had my interview today and it went great because the director is just an all around good guy. I have friends that work for him. Also, I did what you all told me. He says I have the job and HR will be getting in touch with me. MBARNBSN, you hit it on the head on so many points, and if I have worked with you I know I loved it.I was awestruck at the great equiptment they have. This job is really an upgrade for me. Thanks to all who helped. I love you guys and Merry Christmas, much health and happyness to all of you.
YEAH!!! CONGRATS! And welcome to the other side. :)
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The good thing with nursing is that you can find a job in practically city on the planet if you're willing to relocate. I'm all for international nursing or doing medical missionary type work. I'm proud of people who don't get complacent and expand their horizons like the OP is going to do. Good for you! See what is out there. I work with nurses who are beyond burned out but will not leave because they've worked there for X amounts of years. Go into occupational health or public health and get away from the hospitals for a while. So much out there. Best of luck.