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I don't really mind murse but then again I've never really seen it used before except on this board so... I will say one thing that ****** me off is when some lady who is a customer I have known for a while asked me "if I finished getting my male nurse degree yet" and I have to admit I was pretty annoyed with that like you have to get some kind of special nursing degree because your a man. Its just very annoying and I couldn't even say anything about it. :angryfire
I suppose I'm a bit of a hypocrite when it comes to the term. I refer to myself as a "murse" on occasion, but mostly only around other "murses" or people who remember the episode of Scrubs when J.D. used the term to describe Elliot's boyfriend. However, I have run into a few occasions where it's been used in a derogatory manner, mostly by hypermasculine guys who've gotten a bit over-beveraged and feel the need to compensate for having a lap pinky by belittling anyone who doesn't fit their definition of a "man." In those instances, I HATE the term.
Mike in Michigan
i don't mind the term, but it drives my dh up the wall. "i'm a registered nurse," he says, "not a "murse"". and then he adds a few choice words about the term "murse."
our unit has about 60% female nurses, 1 in transition and you figure out the rest. they have "murse" days where they all wear their camo scrubs, and they have "murse parties" where they try to drink each other under the table.
as far as the manliness factor -- dh is also a martial arts instructor so no one with a brain would think of challenging his manliness! one cardiology resident who tried got kicked in the head for his sheer gall. (they took it to the gym, so i figure the resident asked for it or at least knew it was a possibility.)
i don't mind the term, but it drives my dh up the wall. "i'm a registered nurse," he says, "not a "murse"". and then he adds a few choice words about the term "murse."our unit has about 60% female nurses, 1 in transition and you figure out the rest. they have "murse" days where they all wear their camo scrubs, and they have "murse parties" where they try to drink each other under the table.
as far as the manliness factor -- dh is also a martial arts instructor so no one with a brain would think of challenging his manliness! one cardiology resident who tried got kicked in the head for his sheer gall. (they took it to the gym, so i figure the resident asked for it or at least knew it was a possibility.)
i'm not really sure whether to laugh or be offended at "murse days" so i will just choose to move on from that. let me say however that your husband is awesome and my hero for kicking the cardiology resident in the head (it was outside of work and in the gym so i don't feel one bit sorry for the cardiologist.) i can think of a few other stubborn, bully doctors who could use a swift kick to the head to give them an attitude adjustment.
!chris
LuxCalidaNP
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Just checking in with all the hombres...
Most guys I know are ambivilent to the term, but is there anyone else who just DETESTS being called a murse?
B in VA