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Has anyone seen a circ go really bad? I saw one today where the doc took too much foreskin off and the skin on the shaft ended up "degloving" from the fascia underneath. A urologist had to come in and do "damage control." The people I've talked with say they've never seen anything like this happen before.
I don't believe in routine circumcision. When my 15 y/o was born people thought I was crazy not to get him circumcized. The pediatrician assured my husband that less than 1% of males ever have a problem with not being circumsized. I had done my homework and really had to present my husband with alot of information before he would agree to no circumcision and when the pediatrician added his two cents he was finally convinced.
When our son was 3 years old he developed phimosis. He had to be circumcized and it was very traumatic for him, he couldn't wear pants for over 3 weeks, and ran around in a large t-shirt all day. If I were to have another son (not happening I'm 49) but I would have him circumcized. >>
Same here. My youngest is currently healing from a circumcision performed on September 30th. He is 6 years old and this whole thing was way too traumatic for him. It's been absolutely awful for him.
Kelly
Ear piercing hardly can lead to permanent disability and/or disfiguration as a botched or improperly-performed elective circumcision can. I think we are talking apples and oranges when comparing ear-piercing to circumcision here.
True . . . but still, what IS the point of piercing a baby's ears?
It was such a cool moment for my daughter to get her ears pierced when she was a pre-teen . . . . why take away a kid's big moments just so a parent can decorate their kid?
Just a little pet peeve of mine . ..
steph:)
Ours are usually circ'd an hour before discharge . . . . .At least most of the docs use lidocaine.
steph
My last hospital stopped that practice because they preferred to have the baby in house if anything did go wrong later (bleeding into a diaper for an hour or two at home is a scary thing).
That's why if i had boy babies, i'd have it done. I wouldn't want them to go through that as an adult.
I've heard this reasoning a lot and I don't really understand it. I would rather an adult who can reason through an experience go through something painful, than an infant in his first days of life, still learning about the world and trust. Even though the procedure IS more painful, with longer recovery time, and of course, the vivid memory present for an adult, I would still choose that over an infant experiencing it. I know men don't remember the experience as infants, but I just worry about trust/mistrust, subconscious trauma and all that. Especially when the odds are in my favor that phimosis will never happen at all.
Mimi2RN, ASN, RN
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I grew up in the UK, and circumcision was very unusual, only for medical reasons. I came to the US before my sons were born. My brother found it very strange that my boys had both been circed. Of course, daddy was circed and wanted the boys to look like him.