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Perhaps this should be moved to the nursing career advice section, but I was browsing and found this written by an ex nurse. I take most of it as bitterness and griping, but the part about NO JOBS without a year of experience bothers me beyond words considering I am going for my adn in f05. Thoughts, please!?????

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on www.aboutmyjob.com

Luckily, I've put this career mistake/ nightmare behind me.

My career mistake was choosing to become a nurse. I was lied to from the beginning. I was falsely made to believe that there was a plethora of jobs waiting for me after graduating nursing school. On the contrary, every job I found wanted nurses with at least a year of experience.

A year after graduating, I found one agency that sent me out to work in various nursing homes. That was a nightmare in itself!! I wouldn't send my dog to a nursing home let alone a human being! I quit that job fast enough but I left very frustrated and angry.

A year after that, I managed to land a hospital job on a fluke. There are no words to express how absolutely horrible and unbearable I found that job to be. I hated it beyond the meaning of the word.

The worst part of it all was that they were in the middle of downsizing and the nurses were being given the additional work of taking over the duties of others. Many times I would find myself so busy that I would leave work two sometimes three hours after my shift ended, doing what else but paperwork. This was overtime I was never paid for.

I wouldn't recommend nursing to anyone. It's a thankless job with long hours, is seriously short-staffed, and the workload is astronomical. Many nurses who worked at that hospital often complained of back pain, various health problems, and psychological stress. I didn't want to end up like them so I got out quick.

Needless to say, my mother wasn't overly happy about that. She can no longer brag to her friends and relatives about my being in the medical professsion. You couldn't pay me to go back to that occupation. It was so hard to find work and what I found left me feeling so unhappy. Whenever I would finish my shift for the day, I would just sit at home and cry for hours. I got so depressed. Whenever I knew I had to go to work, I felt so miserable. Whenever I arrived at work, I felt like this lead weight was sitting on my back, I found it hard to breathe, and I had to fight to keep down the panic. When I took that job I was only in my twenties. After only a few weeks into that job, I started feeling like an old woman. I started having back pains and feeling just so unwell practically everyday. I was so aghausted all of the time. I've never in my life had a job that left me feeling so awful and I hope I never will again. I repeat, I wouldn't recommend the nursing field for anyone. I made a bad career choice, I just hope that anyone reading this won't make the same mistake I did.

Remember, you are interviewing THEM, not just the other way around. !
I guess after my last endeavor I just want an interview !

I went into counseling wanting to help battered women. Advisors, etc. told me "oh yes this is the degree you need" etc. etc. Something didn't feel right the whole time. When I finished, I realized most of the jobs I wanted went to SW's. Most people who I graduated with were going into private practice which I had no interest in. So you can see why I am a little gun shy. And no i dont' want to go back to get a SW degree for a variety of reasons. Also, in the middle of my MA program alot of requirements changed by the school and by the state. Boy did that SUCK, that tacked on another year, at least. Nothing was consistent. Pay was low, low, low. Nursing *feels* right (I want to do something meaningful with my life!), but at the same time, I will be 30 when I graduate, not some 22 year old fresh out of school. I will need steady employment.

But I am not as concerned, I do believe there will be opportunities -- and I can be very persistent ! :D

Specializes in ER.
Donuts! I would think they would give something more healthy than donuts to a nurse recruit. :) This is like trying to recruit a heart surgeon by buying him/her a juicy hamburger. :)

hey, they're not going to win me over with carrot sticks! :rotfl:

Specializes in ER.
Always be sure to look past the donuts, silly door prizes, candy, pizzas and other such trappings, at a potential employer. Look hard. Remember, you are interviewing THEM, not just the other way around. Big- time sign- on bonuses DO exist like I said before. Just be sure the bonus is worth it. Do your HOMEWORK! It pays to be smart!

ABSOLUTELY! But it sure is FUN to be chased after while you are looking!

Some of it has to do with her perceptions of nursing before she went to school. I'm wondering what she expected it to be like? Did she expect nursing to be like it was in the 60's when the acuity level was lower, less technology, hang an IV bad occasionally, pass a few pills now and then?

Was she looking for it to be something she saw on a TV sitcom? The flirting with doctors, the "ditz nurse", a sexual object in a comedy?

Did she "shadow" a nurse for a day? Not that you'd have the total picture, but at least you'd have an idea of what to expect.

Or did she have family members or other close friends who were nurses where she could hear the day to day problems posed in nursing.

I've found that if one goes in to nursing knowing exactly what to expect after nursing school (the short staffing, non-paid overtime, politics, etc.), they have a higher job satisifaction than someone who went into nursing based on different perceptions or objectives (oh, I can marry a doctor!, for example).

Just know what you are getting into. Spend time with actual nurses - don't get your perceptions from TV or other media outlets (except Echo Heron books :). Listen to them and what they go through on a daily basis. I knew what nursing was like because my mom was a nurse. I listened to her daily about the politics, back-stabbing, some arrogant doctors and I know what I'm getting in to (if I ever get there).

I do have pity on the people who went to school and nursing didn't live up to their expectations. I just wish that the nursing journals would paint a more accurate picture. Through in the negatives and positives. If they did, they may attract the right people and there may not be a "shortage."

Do you at least get paid an hourly wage for overtime, or are you just working for free ?????

I do have pity on the people who went to school and nursing didn't live up to their expectations

That is interesting because the nursing school I am trying to apply for has this requirement to take an intro to nursing class before they even accept your nursing school application. The intent is to make sure people know what they are getting into, the good and the bad. I took the class and that was how I got interested in nursing. It was a huge class when I took it, over a hundred people. After the midterm, about half the people dropped the class. The class was not hard. The class did its job as far as I can tell, people dropped it because they figure nursing is not their cup of tea. It just saved all parties involve lots of time (students, nursing school...).

-Dan

ps. One interesting thing though, the class have about 10% men. After the 50% dropped, the percentage of men went up to 20% because none of the men dropped.

It's all about the patients for me......

It's the reason I went to nursing school

It's the reason I never call-in

It's the reason I stay late, work overtime

I know that my pt's are getting care and compassion when I am there, and it makes me feel so good inside to see a smiling face on a sick person

I go to work, sick with 100 temp, body achy, throat sore, feeling sorry for myself..............My patient, a vietnam vet, bil amputee, COPD, CVA w/ R-side hemiparesis, etc etc etc.........I force a smile, feeling like crap and ask my patient how he feels today, He doesn't have to force his smile, his comes naturally, grateful for everything that he has, grateful to be alive, he says,"Well, I got a cold, and at night I cough so much that I think its going to take me, but I can't complain because I'm still here and able to look at my pretty smiling nurse. Then my smile becomes less forced and more natural, and I become more grateful for the things that I have.

I put up with a lot of crap at work, shortages, low wages, mandation, etc etc etc, but I always, always come home from work feeling just a little bit more humbled than when I went in.

Do you really think that it is in the patient's best interest to have a sick nurse caring for him?

There will be plenty of jobs waiting for you!!! :)

There will be plenty of jobs waiting for you!!! :)
woo hoooo, optimism, now that's what I like ! It's very motivating! :balloons:
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Holly, you MORE than have what it takes to be a wonderful nurse. I think you will have a brilliant career ahead of you. GO FOR IT and don't listen to those trying to persuade you the other way!!!!! We need you.

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I know what LPN4life means, but I will NOT martyr myself for anyone. Those days are past. WE have too MANY nurse-martyrs and that is sad to me. Nursing is on the top of the list for whom I refuse to sacrifice my health and wellbeing. If I am sick and have a fever, I potentially could make my patients or coworkers sick. Not good. I stay home if I am really sick. Other than that, I take REALLY good care of myself so I rarely get sick. Last time I "called in" I had to have unplanned major surgery in January. Other than that, I have not called in sick in over 2 years.

Holly, you MORE than have what it takes to be a wonderful nurse. I think you will have a brilliant career ahead of you. GO FOR IT and don't listen to those trying to persuade you the other way!!!!! We need you.

thank you , my friend ! :p I feel really good about it, for the first time in my life, I feel positive about a career pursuit. I realize it won't be a bowl of cherries, but what job is ?

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