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Perhaps this should be moved to the nursing career advice section, but I was browsing and found this written by an ex nurse. I take most of it as bitterness and griping, but the part about NO JOBS without a year of experience bothers me beyond words considering I am going for my adn in f05. Thoughts, please!?????

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on www.aboutmyjob.com

Luckily, I've put this career mistake/ nightmare behind me.

My career mistake was choosing to become a nurse. I was lied to from the beginning. I was falsely made to believe that there was a plethora of jobs waiting for me after graduating nursing school. On the contrary, every job I found wanted nurses with at least a year of experience.

A year after graduating, I found one agency that sent me out to work in various nursing homes. That was a nightmare in itself!! I wouldn't send my dog to a nursing home let alone a human being! I quit that job fast enough but I left very frustrated and angry.

A year after that, I managed to land a hospital job on a fluke. There are no words to express how absolutely horrible and unbearable I found that job to be. I hated it beyond the meaning of the word.

The worst part of it all was that they were in the middle of downsizing and the nurses were being given the additional work of taking over the duties of others. Many times I would find myself so busy that I would leave work two sometimes three hours after my shift ended, doing what else but paperwork. This was overtime I was never paid for.

I wouldn't recommend nursing to anyone. It's a thankless job with long hours, is seriously short-staffed, and the workload is astronomical. Many nurses who worked at that hospital often complained of back pain, various health problems, and psychological stress. I didn't want to end up like them so I got out quick.

Needless to say, my mother wasn't overly happy about that. She can no longer brag to her friends and relatives about my being in the medical professsion. You couldn't pay me to go back to that occupation. It was so hard to find work and what I found left me feeling so unhappy. Whenever I would finish my shift for the day, I would just sit at home and cry for hours. I got so depressed. Whenever I knew I had to go to work, I felt so miserable. Whenever I arrived at work, I felt like this lead weight was sitting on my back, I found it hard to breathe, and I had to fight to keep down the panic. When I took that job I was only in my twenties. After only a few weeks into that job, I started feeling like an old woman. I started having back pains and feeling just so unwell practically everyday. I was so aghausted all of the time. I've never in my life had a job that left me feeling so awful and I hope I never will again. I repeat, I wouldn't recommend the nursing field for anyone. I made a bad career choice, I just hope that anyone reading this won't make the same mistake I did.

If you went into nursing for the wrong reasons...think again...

I am thinking of going into nursing because (as I said once already) i love helping people and I feel a real need to help the elderly. I also love being busy and having a "job". However , job availability is a concern to me. Is there something abnormal about that ?????????? :confused: :confused: I have already wasted 3 years of my life pursuing something that did not pan out , much because of myself, much because of lack of opportunities in the area. ALL I AM SAYING is that I do not want to graduate and there be no jobs. I am not sure what is so hard to understand about that.

It's all about the patients for me......

It's the reason I went to nursing school

It's the reason I never call-in

It's the reason I stay late, work overtime

I know that my pt's are getting care and compassion when I am there, and it makes me feel so good inside to see a smiling face on a sick person

I go to work, sick with 100 temp, body achy, throat sore, feeling sorry for myself..............My patient, a vietnam vet, bil amputee, COPD, CVA w/ R-side hemiparesis, etc etc etc.........I force a smile, feeling like crap and ask my patient how he feels today, He doesn't have to force his smile, his comes naturally, grateful for everything that he has, grateful to be alive, he says,"Well, I got a cold, and at night I cough so much that I think its going to take me, but I can't complain because I'm still here and able to look at my pretty smiling nurse. Then my smile becomes less forced and more natural, and I become more grateful for the things that I have.

I put up with a lot of crap at work, shortages, low wages, mandation, etc etc etc, but I always, always come home from work feeling just a little bit more humbled than when I went in.

Boy, ain't that the truth. Every grad at my school gets two to three job offers, minimum. Where, exactly, are these areas where people can't find nursing jobs? I'd really like to know. Are we talking about extremely rural areas with very little population? Because I live in a semi-rural, although fast growing area, and the demand is still unbelievable.

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I would like to know the same thing.

I am about 25 miles near Houston. The area I live in is growing very fast, too.

... someone from personell stops by to suck up, giving us doughnuts and coffee along with their card and an employment pitch! :chuckle

Donuts! I would think they would give something more healthy than donuts to a nurse recruit. :) This is like trying to recruit a heart surgeon by buying him/her a juicy hamburger. :)

btw - I think nurses are the greatest - it's a good and noble profession. Like the man said; "It sure beats raising cattle!"

:rotfl: That's cute !
They're known as complainers and they are everywhere. My guess is until that person finds a job where all they have to do is sit on their butt while making big bucks they won't be happy: and possibly not even then.

I doubt they will be happy even if they find a that kind of a job. They will still complain. Actually I think people like that are great at training people who work in the customer complain department...:) Just imagine, they are hired to do what they love - complain.

-Dan

Donuts! I would think they would give something more healthy than donuts to a nurse recruit. :) This is like trying to recruit a heart surgeon by buying him/her a juicy hamburger. :)

Maybe sucking up requires something a little less healthy and a little more tasty.

A plate of healthy veggies might not be that enticing if you're trying to suck up.

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I will admit, all the "live" nurses I have talked to and know personally love it. And have had no problems getting jobs.

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

Always be sure to look past the donuts, silly door prizes, candy, pizzas and other such trappings, at a potential employer. Look hard. Remember, you are interviewing THEM, not just the other way around. Big- time sign- on bonuses DO exist like I said before. Just be sure the bonus is worth it. Do your HOMEWORK! It pays to be smart!

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

By the way you are talking to "live" nurses here. I see mostly positive response here. That should encourage you.

By the way you are talking to "live" nurses here. I see mostly positive response here. That should encourage you.

HAHAHA ! i KNOW THAT, but you know what I mean ! :rotfl:

thank you !

Always be sure to look past the donuts, silly door prizes, candy, pizzas and other such trappings, at a potential employer. Look hard. Remember, you are interviewing THEM, not just the other way around. Big- time sign- on bonuses DO exist like I said before. Just be sure the bonus is worth it. Do your HOMEWORK! It pays to be smart!

You're absolutely right. Recruiters promise this and that, but it means nothing unless you get it in writing. I personally don't care about the bonuses, and I won't sign on for a two year commitment either. I try to talk to as many nurses as possible who actually work in the facilities (privately, of course). That's probably your best source of info on what employers are really like.

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