CalicoKitty, BSN, RN 991 Posts Specializes in Med-Surg, Geriatrics, Wound Care. Has 11 years experience. Apr 7, 2012 I just remember my grandmother telling me that the first time she saw male genitalia was with her husband. In nursing school the textbooks all had fig leaves, and apparently, there were male aids that took care of cleaning those specific bits and pieces.She was also reprimanded in school for having lunch with a male friend (friend of the family I believe) in a public restaurant near the school. She lived on campus.Shame I never really asked her about her nursing experiences.