Subordinates
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This is in reference to a thread called "Re: Nurses - Leading your subordinates"
I just wanted to discuss the idea expressed there by several members that we should not view aides as our subordinates. Rather, we should look upon them as our coworkers and team members. Several people thought it was demeaning and disrespectful to view aides or LPN's as somehow not our equals.
I know we are all on the same team and have the same goal, at least we should.
However, someone leads a team. In Nursing, that is the RN. Legally, LPN's and aides are subordinate to the RN. The Charge RN leads staff RN's, too. And a Manager or Clinical Supervisor or House Supervisor or Shift Supervisor leads the Charge Nurses. In a very real sense, there is a definite pecking order. When my shift supervisor tells me what to do, as a Charge RN, I do it. She's my boss. So is my manager. So are the doctors, even though they're not nurses. So are administrators, directors of the service we're on, and probably other people. Some of our bosses are younger and less experienced. Doesn't matter. They are in charge and outrank us and that's how it is. They might be nice, they might less us know they value us, they might be nasty and unappreciative. Doesn't matter. If they're over us, they're over us. Yes, it would be nice if work were always pleasant but the bottom line is, it is work, our job, not the place to look for kudos and confirmation of our worth. Yes, I want that as much as anyone else but I've learned to confirm my own worth or get it from family and friends. At work, I do my work.
We need, IMO, to realize that we nurses are in charge. By virtue of our responsibility, by virtue of being licensed and the laws governing that licensure, by virtue of our great liability for the acts of our team members, we are in charge. Like it or not. And lots of us do not like it. Lots of us would prefer to just do our own work and give total care, not need aides to help us or LPN's to do whatever for our patients. But it doesn't work that way.
I am not saying to be ugly or imperious or rude, arrogant, or otherwise lord it over anyone. But we need, I think, to accept that we are truly in charge and that some staff members are truly subordinate to us. I think a lack of this acceptance is largely responsible for the troubles in our profession.
Other lines of work have bosses. Grocery stores, car repair shops, schools, you name it, their are bosses and subordinates everywhere. In families, this is true. When we forget it, there is trouble.
Yes, every member of a team in any line of work is important and should be treated with dignity. But, bottom line, somebody calls the shots.
OK, flame away.