is there something wrong with using the word combative?
Last week we got a new admit on 7 -3 shift, and my ED wanted me to call the residents POA. On My 3-11 shift to let the poa jnow how she doing. The resident was combative with me and the cnas. She was kicking and trying to bite us. She would not eat and also would sleep on the very edge of the bed which was a saftey issue.
So when I called the poa to update him on how his wife is doing, I very politely advised him that his wife was a little combative. I also focused on how we will continue to reassure. Redirect, provide safety and etc. I told the poa that will do everything we can to keep her safe and give her the best quality care.
Well the next day I get lectured by my boss and the ED. They both said I should NEVER use the combative to a family member to describe violent behovior, instead I should say " RESISTIVE" . I apologized for my wrong doing and took it as a learning lesson. I still deep down inside don't understand why combative is so terrible to describe a behavior of a family member. I have some residents that are RESISTIVE but are never combative. I do believe there is a difference.
Last week we got a new admit on 7 -3 shift, and my ED wanted me to call the residents POA. On My 3-11 shift to let the poa jnow how she doing. The resident was combative with me and the cnas. She was kicking and trying to bite us. She would not eat and also would sleep on the very edge of the bed which was a saftey issue.
So when I called the poa to update him on how his wife is doing, I very politely advised him that his wife was a little combative. I also focused on how we will continue to reassure. Redirect, provide safety and etc. I told the poa that will do everything we can to keep her safe and give her the best quality care.
Well the next day I get lectured by my boss and the ED. They both said I should NEVER use the combative to a family member to describe violent behovior, instead I should say " RESISTIVE" . I apologized for my wrong doing and took it as a learning lesson. I still deep down inside don't understand why combative is so terrible to describe a behavior of a family member. I have some residents that are RESISTIVE but are never combative. I do believe there is a difference.
Please help me understand.