Wow embarrassed and really ticked off...

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Sorry just need to vent.

Since school started in August I have been in contact with our Dept of Ed. to get a program to come to our school that promotes physical education and getting children up and moving in the classroom. It has been very stressful trying to get everything in order for them to come and it is a BIG DEAL. Schools are on a waiting list to get them to come and do a live show. Anyway the whole point is to show teachers how to integrate the 5 min videos into their classrooms to get children to move around and let some energy out. They have a presenter that is a coach and he leads the students in short 5 min videos to exercise.

My 1st and 2nd grade teachers dropped their kids off in the gym and went back for their "planning period". The speaker was there to talk to them just as much as the kids. So I asked the principal to call the teachers to the gym which she did and after the speaker raved and thanked teachers for all they do they got up right in the middle of it and left! They stayed barely 3 minutes. I was mortified. Some of them even expressing how they didnt have time for this and this was their planning period. Needless to say I was HOT! I understand that was your planning period but one day isnt going to kill anyone and what an example you set for your students that someone trying to teach them to be healthy and how to do better in school isnt worth the time. Do I get a planning period? Do I get to eat my lunch most days without interruption? NO! And on top of it this presenter was at our other local schools and all the teachers were raving about it. So of course my school has to be rude.

This program when implemented daily in the classroom has been shown to aid in higher test scores, better focusing, less test anxiety, and a drastic decrease in behavior problems. So it was worth the 30 min to be present. And some of the teachers couldnt even do the little movements with their students and just sat there. Which is a whole other rant so I wont even start.

kidzcare;

What stop you from saying "I'll be available at 1:30p, but if he cant wait you can call his parents." I mean, clearly if its ambulance worthy you'd be there to help in a flash, but you have to maintain your boundaries. No one else is going to do it.

Exactly what I stated. Many of us have said just that and within a very short period of time it is disregarded. The nurse is apparently supposed to be compassionate above all else and it is viewed as selfish to prefer to eat lunch in peace than treat a nonemergency. ANY reasonable adult will forego their break in a true emergency. But when you are continually called away for an "emergency" that turns out to be nothing (ie: a student who is breathing hard after running in PE, a child who is crying because their stomach hurts and it turns out they just need to poop) it is incredibly frustrating. What a layperson determines to be an emergency is a poor guide for what is actually a medical emergency. Then it becomes difficult to work somewhere where much of the staff thinks you are mean/condescending because you keep trying to explain what an emergency is.

Funny how you a nurse mention the work of engaging adult learners..my hospital was always planning or forcing us to attend stuff without even a clue as to time,availability,or interest in the subject.Very stressful to be forced to leave a busy floor and hard for those covering your patients too and for what..some nonsense administration dreamed up.

So, you're saying what she wanted to achieve was nonsense?

Specializes in kids.
Go ahead and "dislike" this comment but I have worked with teachers for 5+ years...some of them (not all) can be quite selfish and territorial. You will have more luck asking them to stay after school (they hate this) than asking them to give up their planning period.

No dislike here, you speak the truth sister!

I have one teacher who consistently interrupts the 5 min lunch time I have. I shut my door, sign on door says. emergencies go to main office. several times a week, yes several times a week, will knock and continue to knock until I open it. I can ignore it, but then she goes to the main office and ask them to call me. They say she is on lunch, but she keeps going with I have to see her...Not once has it ever been an emergency. Its either, I have a headache, my great aunt has the flu should I get a flu shot..I finally hit my limit when I met her at the door SHE was unlocking and I said...I am not CVS, I am not your mother, I am not your doctor. I am taking 5 min to myself and shut the door in her face. You would think she got the message....

Im done

I just don't see how they can stand there watching me spoon soup into my mouth and go on and on about their daughter's earache. Doesn't your daughter have a school nurse? Call HER.

I'm not a school nurse ... but I am a Professional Development Specialist ... and from you original post, it appears you made a big "rookie" staff development mistake. The teachers are adult learners, and in order to get adult learners to engage in a learning activity, you first need to get their "buy in." It looks to me as if you arranged this class for them without their input at a time that was not convenient for them. They don't even seem to have realize that it was supposed to be a class for them: they thought it was something for the students.

If you want to do an inservice for the teachers, then you will need to label it and advertise it as a class for them -- and work with them to find a time that is convenient for them to attend, etc. You may also need to do a little "pre-education" to stimulate their interest in the topic. That's nothing unusual, that's just the way adult learners are. They choose their own priorities and have to see the value of something before they will invest in it.

I'm sorry this attempt to change their practice didn't work out well for you. Next time you want to have a program for them, get their buy-in first and work with them to plan the program so that it meets their perceived needs, not just yours.

I know my post will not be popular, but Professional Development is often harder than it looks. You can't just plan a class and expect everyone to come and engage in it.

the minute I get a whiff of getting me to buy in, ie, manipulate me; I become totally adversarial. so this is not going to work with all persons.

I just don't see how they can stand there watching me spoon soup into my mouth and go on and on about their daughter's earache. Doesn't your daughter have a school nurse? Call HER.

Or, alternately, don't call. Use your own judgement as a parent and adult to make a decision about your child's condition and act accordingly.

I take my lunch at 1pm--when the kids are done with recess and teachers are done with their lunch breaks. I still have 3 med admins during this time, but it's the quietest "normal" hour to eat lunch. The entire time I'm up and down, up and down, up and down. I can say "emergencies only." I can explain what "emergencies" means, and someone will still come running yelling "WE HAVE AN EMERGENCY! MAJOR BLEEDING" and there's the 13-year-old who has gotten regular nose bleeds since he was 5, rolling his eyes, pinching his nose, and saying "I really don't think I need to be here," while staff members panic and breathe heavy and start shouting out incorrect advice. "LEAN YOUR HEAD BACK!" "PUT THIS ICE ON THE BACK OF YOUR NECK!" "CALL THE PARENT IMMEDIATELY!" All I can do is laugh. About half of my lunches are spent eating feet away from a vomiting/snot spraying/flu infected kid. That's ok. It's part of the job. We still have every right to vent and complain about it with our fellow school nurses because they're the only ones who "get it"! I'm sure none of us get in our car after school and cry about how our lunch hour was interrupted.

Specializes in Cardiology, School Nursing, General.
I take my lunch at 1pm--when the kids are done with recess and teachers are done with their lunch breaks. I still have 3 med admins during this time, but it's the quietest "normal" hour to eat lunch. The entire time I'm up and down, up and down, up and down. I can say "emergencies only." I can explain what "emergencies" means, and someone will still come running yelling "WE HAVE AN EMERGENCY! MAJOR BLEEDING" and there's the 13-year-old who has gotten regular nose bleeds since he was 5, rolling his eyes, pinching his nose, and saying "I really don't think I need to be here," while staff members panic and breathe heavy and start shouting out incorrect advice. "LEAN YOUR HEAD BACK!" "PUT THIS ICE ON THE BACK OF YOUR NECK!" "CALL THE PARENT IMMEDIATELY!" All I can do is laugh. About half of my lunches are spent eating feet away from a vomiting/snot spraying/flu infected kid. That's ok. It's part of the job. We still have every right to vent and complain about it with our fellow school nurses because they're the only ones who "get it"! I'm sure none of us get in our car after school and cry about how our lunch hour was interrupted.

Nah, It happens. I usually plan my revenge which involves a toilet plunger, a rug and a very delicious pie.

Now I'm intrigued. How does this revenge work?

Specializes in Cardiology, School Nursing, General.
Now I'm intrigued. How does this revenge work?

I hit people with the plunger, make them slip without the rug and eat the pie all to myself, no sharing with no one!

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