Personally, I think some of this cultural competence stuff is perpetuating stereotypes. If a hillbilly from the backwoods doesn't believe in hygiene and wants to eat soda pop and tater tots for...
If patients of any race or culture have histrionics from the emptying of a Foley, please don't blame the nurse. The patient is emotionally unbalanced. We, as nurses, don't have a duty to cater to...
This is what happens when you over extend yourself. When you get called to the office, apologize. Tell them that you got another job but was trying not to leave them high and dry, so obviously...
I had a couple of funny patients recently. Patient A smelled homeless. He lacked teeth and reeked of cigarettes and BO, with unwashed clothes. He had deep wrinkles and thinning hair. He did have...
I notice a recurring theme here at allnurses. 'I worked my butt off to get into school!', 'I deliver compassionate care to patients, working long hours.', 'I am unappreciated by entitled families and...
A coworker yesterday was distracted by a drama with a friend. She had refused to loan her car to the friend, so the friend started texting how she would be better off dead, was a waste of a space,...
Emergent replied to blackmamba123's topic in General Nursing
At one of my jobs they leave bananas out to give to patients. Of course some start to get too ripe. One gal took the overripe ones home and made banana bread to share. She got reprimanded and a small...
Emergent replied to AnnieOaklyRN's topic in Nursing Career
I think that it's good to let HR know that, although you love the people and work at your Per Diem job, the excellent pay where you are applying is a big incentive for you to seek employment with...
The Commuter hasn't been active here for some time. I hope she is well. As I recall she was working towards an advanced degree and was preoccupied with that. She was a fantastic contributor here, and...
Emergent replied to CityofAngelsRN's topic in Nursing News
There are definitely 2 sides, but the physician is held to a higher standard than a neurotic young man who still thinks the world owes him a living. It's perfectly obvious that the doctor was...
The commonly accepted definition of an enabler, as in codependency, is someone who in some way shields a person from consequences, or encourages the continuance of an addiction or other bad behavior....
Emergent replied to CityofAngelsRN's topic in Nursing News
In the ER, occasionally a patient will refuse to leave when they are discharged. This becomes trespassing at that point. If a patient won't leave the room, security is the first step, calling the...
Emergent replied to CityofAngelsRN's topic in Nursing News
Regarding the video, my impression is that it was taken by the patient's friend or family member. I'm surprised that there aren't more people who try to video me while I'm doing patient care. It's...
Emergent replied to CityofAngelsRN's topic in Nursing News
I work in the ER. Believe me, this type of patient comes in all ethnicities and genders. It's not a racial thing at all. In my ER, if a patient won't leave, first we call security, then the police...
Emergent replied to CityofAngelsRN's topic in Nursing News
I saw this video. The patient was a demanding, entitled manipulator and the doctor was a burnt out on the public, negative woman with no finesse or charm. A perfect example of a healthcare worker...
I'm of the opinion that, we should do our due diligence before we accept a job. We need to find out specifics such as ratios, hours, etc. Then we make the commitment to work there. Unless you've been...
Your car insurance is supposed to cover the things you mention. I certainly hope you were covered! Even if you only have liability, your medical should be covered under the medical portion. I learned...
You have to learn to practice detached concern. Detachment is something the religious orders in traditional Christianity teach. You can be concerned without emotional involvement. Another technique I...
I hate dealing with defiant and difficult techs! In my ER the techs do the EKGs as well. But, if one is tied up, we nurses certainly have access to the EKG machine! The standard is to obtain an EKG...