I am curious of others opinions on private duty nursing and the extensive boundary crossing that is seen in this type of setting. I've seen it all, gifts, vacationing together, planned lunches, visiting while on maternity leave. Both sides-family and nurse. Sometimes nurse is on duty, sometimes not. Just bizarre. I do understand the need to share phone numbers because communication is more accurate without a middle-man. But Ive heard of nurses bringing in loads of baby gifts after a minor disagreement between client's family and nurse. Yikes. I just try to follow the rules, but some of these families seem offended that I'm simply cordial and don't become their close friend. And then it becomes awkward. I'm not in this job to expand my friend list! The latest family, which I thought were the most "normal" yet, have insisted it's impossible to not be close with the nurse. I just don't agree.
I am, however, hoping and planning on switching out of this type of nursing soon. At any rate, looking for thoughts and opinions here. Am I too conservative? Is this as common as it appears to be?? Thanks...