So this incident was not really even a comfrontation, more of a bizarre occurence. I was having a one on one discussion with a colleague regarding time off. I was telling her that I wanted to request 4th of July off and that i hadn't requested time off since the beginning of the year . All of a sudden the attending jumps in on my conversation from behind me railing. "If you think you're going to get any time off on a holiday your head must be so far up your rectum" "if your are going to get that holiday off you have to work memorial day or some other holiday" " Ive worked every holiday in here and if i was your manager...on and on he goes...and I'm going to be in a really bad mood because I have to be on call every day next month" Then he goes on to say that he has to take extra call because another attendings family member is sick and how unfortunate that is conversing as if he wasn't just a huge jerk 30 seconds ago?????
I was beyond shocked and blindsided to say the very least. I have never had any conversation with this man at all and even the resident who he was on rounds with looked confused and shocked. Thankfully I didn't react in the manner he came at me with.
I know my co-workers don't like this doctor and now I have experienced why. I work nights so I've never really been around this guy.
I left work more confused, disrespected and shocked as this is someone who has no say in nursing whatsoever. Furthermore my manager will work the schedule to staff needs the best he can even if he can't approve special time off. But again why this attending thought that was any of his business I really don't know.
At first i was going to let it go due to the sheer weirdness and obsurdity of the entire incident but now the day after I feel i shouldnt let it go. That was beyond rude. I've never even had a nurse colleague speak to me like that... No one ever, especially with such language, there was staff and patient family all around. So now I'm wondering what course of action should I take?
Union Rep
HR???