Nursing students and their bad behaviors >:(

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Hi allnurses! :)

So, I've been wanting to write this for a really long time now, I just want to vent.

I'm currently in my last semester of nursing school, then I graduate, yay me!:nurse:

I believe nursing school is an awesome experience that a lot of people work really hard to get into, and sometimes we may get rejected a few times before we finally get accepted into a program. Nursing school is NOT easy to get into, therefore, we should appreciate every moment that we spend in it, doing homework, studying, waking up early, going to clinicals, just embrace it! We worked so hard to get into this program, this will pay off in the end and it will be a huge accomplishment.

Ok so I want to get this off my chest and vent because sometimes my classmates really annoy me!

1. There's that one student that is always coming to class late, not 5-10 minutes, like (literally) an hour late! - NO!!! How is that you are always running that late?! I know she has kids but other students have kids and they manage their time and have everything set to get to class on time. Being constantly late, is unprofessional and irresponsible, not what you want to be in nursing school.

2. There's the students that are always wanting to change the schedule (that's already been set up for us by the instructors), change the rules, or complain about everything to the instructors- For example, if something on the schedule doesn't work for THEM, they go to the instructor and they make them change everything for the class. I look at the schedule and plan things around it, I never think "Hmmm, that assignment doesn't work for me on that day, I have to talk to my instructor". Be responsible and manage your time, the schedule/assignments are set up for us so we know what is due and when. DO YOUR WORK AND STOP COMPLAINING!

3. There's the students that don't like to wear their nursing uniform, what??- We earned that uniform! like I said, I know a lot of people that wish they can be in the program and wear the scrubs we wear with the school's name on it. We deserve to own it and show everyone that we are nursing students.

4. Like #2, we have student's that like to disobey the rules that are set for us. We are not allowed to wear nail polish or have long nails, yet some girls are still doing it regardless, like they think it's no big deal. You need to start acting and presenting yourself as professionals, those are cute on special occasions, but NOT for clinical.

5. There's one student that (I see) disrespects, and intimidates the instructors. She complains about everything and wants things done HER way. She gives the instructors a mean look and is very outspoken about how she wants things to be done (like #2). First of all, RESPECT your instructors, yea they are strict but it's for a good reason, they are teaching us how to be good, competent nurses. Second, Don't try to make things easy because you can't handle the hard work. I've never complained to the instructors because the work was too hard, and I've gotten very good grades thus far!

6. There's people that don't pay attention during lecture! This irritates me! I see them going on different websites in their laptops, then during break or after class, they say "so what were we talking about?" :facepalm:I'm not even joking! During clinical, a student asked what was a [certain condition we talked about in class]....ummm, we had a whole hour lecture on this condition and she didn't know what it was.

7. This is the one I HATE the most! People that want to copy your work. I don't agree with cheating or copying. I don't believe it's right that I worked so hard on an assignment, put the time and effort into it, and then have someone ask me to let them "borrow" it, when they clearly haven't done their work. I also had a student TELL ME after we were done with our midterm that she tried looking at my answers because she didn't know what one of the answers was. :no: She keeps asking for my assignments but I don't understand! We are about to graduate, we are about to be nurses, WORK for it, Oh but she gets mad when I don't give it.

8. The people that look for all the answers online instead of in the book....where they are :banghead: whenever we have online assignments/quizzes, not only do they look online for the answers (without reading and understanding it from the book) but they pass it around to the class, so NO ONE does the work, they just copy and don't understand the material.

Anyway, that's it for now, this is already too long.

Just wanted to let you guys know that as nursing students we need to work hard, understand the material, read, be organized, ask questions, respect and appreciate the instructors, we are held to a higher standard!

I just feel like I don't have a reason to complain, I knew this was going to be hard, and I'm enjoying and embracing every aspect of nursing school.

Do you guys have people like these in class?

I don't know why people care so much about other people being late to class. In the real world people are always late. I worked in another field for years...people show up to meetings late every time. You'll have bosses who come in late, whine, want to cut corners, unfocused and every poor trait you can think of. You have to work around those people as an adult. You'll wear yourself out very quickly having these perfect expectations for everyone else.

I agree with you to a certain extent. What annoys me about the people who show up late in my class is that they'll blame the instructor when they get a bad grade, claim they've never heard the material before, or ask questions that would have been answered if they showed up to lecture. It's annoying.

I agree with you to a certain extent. What annoys me about the people who show up late in my class is that they'll blame the instructor when they get a bad grade, claim they've never heard the material before, or ask questions that would have been answered if they showed up to lecture. It's annoying.

I think you're missing the point..

These things do not affect you, so it should not annoy you. It's not good for your mental health, in my opinion, to be so "worried" about others. If they get bad grades, it's not your problem.

Well, it is going to be a culture shock to them when they get their first nursing job and have actual responsibilities (if they pass NCLEX of course).

This does not speak to my character.. I have never been late to class, appointments, meetings, or even just meeting up with friends. I also have one of the highest marks in my class.

I think it speaks to your character when you're so quick to judge a nursing student with children for being late, and because you're so quick to judge ME because I believe that others should not be judged so quickly.

I never said it was excusable, I just believe that nursing students without children are not in the position to judge a nursing student with children, because you CLEARLY don't know everything about everyone.

I'm not saying it speaks to YOUR character, it speaks to the character of the people that are chronically late.

Why are you so invested in defending people who are chronically late? I'm not judging them, IT IS unprofessional. It does not matter WHY it matters that a person is consistently late and does not take the steps to change. Ish happens, if someone is late once or twice, whatever, that's life.

I don't care if you have children or not, it doesn't excuse you or make it any less unprofessional than those who don't. If you can't take the steps to wake up 30 minutes earlier, find someone to take your kids for you in the morning, arrange for extra care, etc that's not excusable. I've busted my but to make school work with my schedule, my kids, my boyfriend. I've applied for a received help for day care when needed, I've asked for appropriate schedule changes, I work solely to pay for day care. So I can get to class on time like the rest of my classmates

So no, not sorry. I guess kudos to you for not judging them, but kids are not an excuse period. End of story. These people are likely going to be the same ones who show up late to work even under perfect circumstances.

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I think you're missing the point..

These things do not affect you, so it should not annoy you. It's not good for your mental health, in my opinion, to be so "worried" about others. If they get bad grades, it's not your problem.

How does a disruption of class not affect the other students? When the instructor has to stop lecturing because of a later comer, how does that not affect others? If the late arrival is noisy, how does that not affect the others?

You keep talking about we shouldn't judge others because we don't know what is going on with their lives? Yet, you are doing exactly that. How do you know that disruptions like this don't affect others? What about those who have ADD, a learning disability? You don't know what is going on with those who are affected by the disruption. Please refrain from telling others what does or should affect them.

I'm not saying it speaks to YOUR character, it speaks to the character of the people that are chronically late.

Why are you so invested in defending people who are chronically late? I'm not judging them, IT IS unprofessional. It does not matter WHY it matters that a person is consistently late and does not take the steps to change. Ish happens, if someone is late once or twice, whatever, that's life.

I don't care if you have children or not, it doesn't excuse you or make it any less unprofessional than those who don't. If you can't take the steps to wake up 30 minutes earlier, find someone to take your kids for you in the morning, arrange for extra care, etc that's not excusable. I've busted my but to make school work with my schedule, my kids, my boyfriend. I've applied for a received help for day care when needed, I've asked for appropriate schedule changes, I work solely to pay for day care. So I can get to class on time like the rest of my classmates

So no, not sorry. I guess kudos to you for not judging them, but kids are not an excuse period. End of story. These people are likely going to be the same ones who show up late to work even under perfect circumstances.

I repeat myself, for the third time, children are not an excuse. My entire point is that, for your own well-being, you should not judge so immediately. If I could take anything away from nursing, it's to not judge.

Your darting eyes are not going to help anybody, and you're only stressing yourself out for no reason. Just like you are stressing yourself out over a silly thread.

How does a disruption of class not affect the other students? When the instructor has to stop lecturing because of a later comer, how does that not affect others? If the late arrival is noisy, how does that not affect the others?

You keep talking about we shouldn't judge others because we don't know what is going on with their lives? Yet, you are doing exactly that. How do you know that disruptions like this don't affect others? What about those who have ADD, a learning disability? You don't know what is going on with those who are affected by the disruption. Please refrain from telling others what does or should affect them.

If somebody coming in late to class disrupts your life so much, then I pity you. However, you're a very admirable person for caring so much about your peers being disrupted, especially ones with "ADD." I hope you're saying that in sincerity, and not just to prove a point.

Personally, it does not matter to me if somebody is late or not, because I don't really care about what others choose to do. I don't understand why people are so upset at this opinion, but they have every right to be on an internet forum. This is just my opinion, as well as just your opinion, and there is no solid evidence to back any claims on this thread at all.

Again, it's just my opinion that your darting eyes and offense really won't change anything the next time you judge somebody negatively or get angry at that peer who came in late. It only hurts yourself.

Omg what school do you go to? The instructors allow students to change up the schedule, arrive late, disobey rules, etc???? Hahaha!!! My instructors would rip them apart. I love my nursing program they keep us in tip top shape :)

im sorry you have to deal with all that, just pull through you wont have to deal with them anymore once you graduate

I repeat myself, for the third time, children are not an excuse. My entire point is that, for your own well-being, you should not judge so immediately. If I could take anything away from nursing, it's to not judge.

Your darting eyes are not going to help anybody, and you're only stressing yourself out for no reason. Just like you are stressing yourself out over a silly thread.

Le sigh. And for the third time calling people unprofessional for being late is not judging. My, you really are one that has to get the last word in aren't you lol. You must enjoy this, cause your attitude permeates every single one of your posts (no I'm not stalking you, you're not that special).

And, my eyes don't dart anywhere for me to get stressed out, because my nursing cohort is a professional one and NO ONE, regardless of their circumstances, kids, marriages, 2 jobs, etc, is chronically late.

If somebody coming in late to class disrupts your life so much, then I pity you. However, you're a very admirable person for caring so much about your peers being disrupted, especially ones with "ADD." I hope you're saying that in sincerity, and not just to prove a point.

Personally, it does not matter to me if somebody is late or not, because I don't really care about what others choose to do. I don't understand why people are so upset at this opinion, but they have every right to be on an internet forum. This is just my opinion, as well as just your opinion, and there is no solid evidence to back any claims on this thread at all.

Again, it's just my opinion that your darting eyes and offense really won't change anything the next time you judge somebody negatively or get angry at that peer who came in late. It only hurts yourself.

You're actually the only one getting upset (seems to be a pattern). Notice how people on this thread can disagree without the disagreement actually becoming an argument? Skills to be learned. Perhaps you should lurk around AN a bit more before you commit to posting as much as you do.

ETA: also (I'm sure I'll regret this) but I'd LOVE to know why you chose to put ADD in quotations.

Le sigh. And for the third time calling people unprofessional for being late is not judging. My, you really are one that has to get the last word in aren't you lol. You must enjoy this, cause your attitude permeates every single one of your posts (no I'm not stalking you, you're not that special).

And, my eyes don't dart anywhere for me to get stressed out, because my nursing cohort is a professional one and NO ONE, regardless of their circumstances, kids, marriages, 2 jobs, etc, is chronically late.

When did I say it was not unprofessional? Please read my comments thoroughly before commenting back. And you don't have to do personal attacks on my "attitude" in order to argue a point. It's sooooo second grade :sarcastic:

Of course it's unprofessional. I'm simply saying that judging a person immediately only harms yourself. And if you don't do it, good for you. My comment is then not targeted at you and this discussion is over.

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