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I am curious about what nurses think of this personal choice.
Do you want your organs donated, assuming they are viable, after your death? What about the organs of a loved one (if they had left no instructions)?
Does anyone think nurses (and other HCPs) should become organ donors to show an example to the public?
What do you think?
Please note: No, I am not asking if nurses should HAVE to donate organs.
Someone needs to be there for the patient as they die. someone was there for him as he passed and thats what was important. (I personally believe that the soul will stay in cases like this until someone says it is ok to go on to the next life.) if its too painful for the family than it falls to a provider to facilitate the transition.
I'm a donor and have been since I got my license. I won't need the organs after I'm gone!
I've heard the concern that doctors might not care to save you as much if you're an organ donor ... I find that hard to believe. Also, if the medics and doctors are concerned about preserving my organs, wouldn't they be doing whatever they could to keep me alive and keep my organs viable (for me if I live or for whomever I could donate to if I don't)?
I also don't see death as occurring at the moment they pronounce ... by the time I've been declared brain dead or whatever, I believe that I -- everything that makes me me -- am gone. If I'm declared legally dead in an OR with transplant teams around, that's fine. I'm already gone. I am concerned about how my family would handle the process of saying goodbye, so I've spent some time speaking with them about my wishes and making they'd be OK with what that entails.
It is definitely a personal decision and respecting a person's wishes, whatever they are, is most important.
I am more than willing to donate my organs - I want to help anyone/everyone I can once I die since that is what I want to do while I am alive. As most who are willing to donate have stated, I won't need them where I'm going - besides I want to be cremated - why waste them?
Someone needs to be there for the patient as they die. someone was there for him as he passed and thats what was important. (I personally believe that the soul will stay in cases like this until someone says it is ok to go on to the next life.) if its too painful for the family than it falls to a provider to facilitate the transition.
Thank you for wording your beliefs in such a manner. I hate it when people will say something about God or the afterlife as though it were fact. To some people it is, to others it is not, and I appreciate the respect that you have shown by stating your beliefs like that :) Maybe you didn't mean to word it like that on purpose, but I just wanted to point out my interpretation anyway!
And now, back to your regularly scheduled organ donation debate!
NurseKitten, MSN, RN
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No father in the picture, and it was both the mother's and girlfriend's choice not to be present. They were absolutely offered the option.