Nurses Did Not Sign Up for This

Can peer support fill in the gaps to keep nurses in the field of nursing?

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Nurses did not “sign up for this.” Yet, here we are.

And so, the current challenge to tackle is: how does the field of nursing survive a pandemic?  And how does healthcare keep its nurses in the careers they dreamed of, long before March 2020 happened?

With the deadliest pandemic in the history of the United States1, nurses have had to reinvent themselves, reinvigorate their love for healthcare and find ways to recharge like never before.  

Nurses are being bombarded daily not only with their own anxiety and stressors, but with instructions and pressure to practice self-care.  Codes for therapy services are being handed out like candy.  Beloved brands and stores are providing “front-line hero” discounts.  But what is actually working, what is just a band-aid?  And what can nurses do to help ease the emotional turmoil of taking care of the human race during these trying times?

One solution that is both evidence-based, and rooted in what nurses often already do, is peer support.  

So just what is peer support? Peer support encompasses what many nurses already naturally do…airing our frustrations in the break room during lunchtime, asking advice from the seasoned charge nurse and giggling together over an experience that no one but another nurse could possibly understand.  

The difference is that peer support takes on a more organized and structured approach than the organic ways nurses often help each other.  This strategy can help to heal the psychological wounds, anxiety and moral dilemmas that many of us are experiencing daily during this pandemic. Examples include support groups, mentoring, one-on-one sessions, and online forums.  

Recent studies have investigated the role and effectiveness of peer support with encouraging results.  One looked at the well-established peer support programs at two medical centers, and the lessons learned from those experiences. “One-on-one or group peer support can effectively offset the increased stress and other challenging experiences of nurses during the COVID-19 pandemic and other challenging events”2.

In a practical sense, managers and human resources departments can keep an eye out for staff that has certain characteristics and behaviors, such as:

  • High emotional intelligence
  • Natural helpers on their team
  • Are great at maintaining trust and respect within their peer group
  • Have been in a clinical role for at least 18 months
  • Are highly effective at communicating
  • Show an empathic presence
  • Viewed as non-judgemental by their peers3

Once these natural tendencies are identified, these staff members can be recruited to help support distressed colleagues in a more formal way4. These teammates can then be trained and deployed to serve as individual peer supporters, run group meetings, or round on varying units. High-risk areas, in relation to covid, should receive more attention and assistance.  

Another study5 evaluated formal peer support groups that were offered at a designated covid-only hospital.  Groups were led by psychiatrists and psychiatry residents and were attended virtually by hospital staff, including nurses. In comparison to the previous study, this group used trained mental health providers to help staff members through these difficult times.  The group members were assisted through group processes like feeling ventilation, peer support, the moral challenges of taking care of covid patients, and the trauma associated with it. Those with more extensive struggles, or those who needed more time. were given additional interventions such as individual sessions. 

The researchers did not use formal methods to calibrate improvement in mood or coping, as the participants were practicing nurses and not research subjects.  However, their determination was that it was a useful tool to offer in support of emotional and mental health issues surrounding covid.

If you aren’t in a place where your facility can institute a formal peer support program right at the moment, remember that peer support can happen organically, anywhere and at any time.  If you notice that a coworker seems like they are struggling, they are acting differently at work, or they tell you that they are having a hard time, evaluate your comfort level by providing some informal peer support. 

The American Association of Nurse Anesthesiology has some great tips on how to get started providing peer support to others6.

  1. Make sure that you are in a healthy place to provide support for someone else.  Set boundaries and check in with yourself consistently.
  2. Express care, concern, and express appreciation for anything the person shares
  3. Reflect back on their experience and summarize for them
  4. Validate their feelings and express how it can be normal
  5. Explore with them what coping mechanisms have worked in the past
  6. Ask about current support systems
  7. Share reliable resources, such as an Employee Assistance Program
  8. Listen more than you talk
  9. If you feel like suicide or self-harm is a risk, ask directly if they are thinking about suicide and take appropriate action if the answer is “yes”

Nursing today brings about struggles unlike our profession has ever seen.  According to Becker’s Hospital Review, 66% of nurses are currently considering leaving the profession7.  These are staggering statistics.  Often the fight against this exodus feels hopeless, but we all must do our part to try and keep ourselves mentally healthy.  Peer support not only offers one way to help our colleagues but also provides one way we can fight back against Covid-19 and its effects on nursing.  Consider that a win-win.


References

1COVID-19 Is Officially the Worst Pandemic in US History, Surpassing the Death Toll From the 1918 Spanish Flu

2,3,4At the Heart of the Pandemic: Nursing Peer Support

5Support groups and individual mental health care via video conferencing for frontline clinicians during the COVID-19 pandemic

6American Association of Nurse Anesthesiology. (2020). Peer Support - Giving and Receiving

766% of nurses say pandemic has made them consider leaving profession

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2 hours ago, Laboratorian said:

I'm sorry this is happening to y'all. I am witnessing hospital infrastructure collapse and the government is not taking it serious at all. 

In what way is your government not taking the struggling health system seriously?

On 12/2/2021 at 8:05 AM, BuckeyeNP said:

No. Just no. 

This is an administrative answer to a deeper problem. In a sense, blame nurses for systemic issues. 

A lot of front line nurses have struggled with stressors from the pandemic, but most were struggling before from moral distress due to systemic issues that minimize the value of nurses and treat nurses like the disposable panties we hand out to the indigent. 

Will having peer support address the kinds of issues like not getting PPE for nurses? Or telling nurses to work with COVID patients wearing scarves? Or calling the Board on nurses who tried to speak out and accusing them of patient abandonment? Nurses were feeling pressure from uncaring and unsympathetic administrators AND for their respective boards who sided with administrators (all of whom were working safely from home). And even prior to the pandemic, nurses regularly face bullying from bootlickers and older nurses who seem to enjoy running off younger nurses. 

It's not the job that runs off nurses, nor the stress. Not even seeing large numbers of patients dying. It's the fact that nurses are still treated like bumwipers by hospital administrators, nurse leaders, and a lot of physicians. It's the fact that the CDC and nursing organizations signed off on making sure physicians had proper PPE but nurses had to work with scarves and low quality surgical masks, if anything. Some nurses were told they couldn't wear ANY masks. And when you spoke up, you were told that you needed to leave nursing! That you weren't committed to the job. That you were too "scared" to work in the profession. And that in a nutshell is why I stopped giving the ANA my money for membership...because where the heck where they when all this was going on? Working from home, not saying a darned thing. But this kind of bullying was commonplace even before the pandemic. Speak out, and get told you need to leave the profession. That you aren't cut out for it. Go against the grain, even if you're 100% right, and you'll get bullied right out of your job and maybe the profession. 

In a for-profit health care system, nurses are still treated like housekeeping. And sorry not sorry what I have seen from these peer groups has just been more bullying. Peers who didn't like what another nurse said would go to administration and report back, frequently getting that person fired. Or peer to peer bullying to try to shut down the other nurse's (usually legitimate) complaints. 

In a broken system that devalues nurses and their lives, what's the point of a peer system if not to stomp down the tallest poppies? Or the most vocal?

If we're really serious about stemming the loss in nursing we'd demand the systemic changes needed to make nursing a better profession to be in.  A lot of nurses got run off when they were told they had to work in unsafe conditions during the pandemic, the exact same reason PRIOR to the pandemic why many nurses left the profession. If you could make more money in a profession that valued your safety, wouldn't you leave? If your employer was telling you to unnecessarily risk your life or leave? How stupid to demand nurses work without ANY PPE in many cases early on in the pandemic! And that's not even talking about the issue of nurse safety and the regular occurrence of hospitals looking the other way when nurses are assaulted on the job by patients, family, even sometimes other staff! That was bullying plain and simple, by nurses too ignorant to understand the complexity and seriousness of not coming up with some sort of solution for the need for some sort of protection. Nurses died in this pandemic from not having PPE. But at least the administration was safe, amiright?!

Stop putting on Band-Aids and handing out "solutions" coming straight from administrators. As long as nurses face safety issues and moral distress that are the direct result of systemic problems, we'll continue to hemorrhage nurses from the profession.

You say that having a "peer" system in place is evidence-based and proven to stem the tide of nurses leaving. I'll push back on that and then some. Is it EBP, or manipulated data? Because we've had peer systems in place for over thirty years now and yet nurses are still leaving. 

Hospitals and administrators, government  agencies, and a lot of nursing organizations don't want to hear this, but it's moral distress that's the problem. And while a lot of those in power want to claim it's moral distress related to day-to-day issues that arise in nursing, let's be honest...it's moral distress issues that result directly from hospitals and a system that values profit over people. And that kind of moral distress can only be resolved by those in power, not other nurse "peers." We have to start getting honest and serious if we want to really solve the problem, and unfortunately, the problem requires a major structural overhaul of nursing and our health care system.

     Unfortunately, I am just now reading this thread ^^^BRILLIANT!^^^

On 12/30/2021 at 8:30 AM, toomuchbaloney said:

In what way is your government not taking the struggling health system seriously?

    The latest CDC guideline further reducing the quarantine time for health care workers is illustrative of this.  Personally, I'm very curious if this guideline was really in response to evolving science or political pressure from outside influences?  I'm not a conspiracist but I would be willing to bet that the country's largest hospital system conglomerates, were somehow involved in this decision. $$$$

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On 12/10/2021 at 9:34 AM, HiddencatBSN said:

Peer support is a helmet/seatbelt that we’re responsible for designing, manufacturing, distributing for free while trying to keep the car hurtling down the hill under control.

This, 100%.

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On 12/30/2021 at 7:40 AM, Laboratorian said:

I'm sorry this is happening to y'all. I am witnessing hospital infrastructure collapse and the government is not taking it serious at all. 

 

On 12/30/2021 at 10:30 AM, toomuchbaloney said:

In what way is your government not taking the struggling health system seriously?

For starters the new guidelines reducing the quarantine period for health care workers, including those that are confirmed positive.  Wonder how much the lobbyists had to do with that decision?

Then just look at the history of how the government has contributed giant dollar amounts to large healthcare conglomerates that have continued to  post huge profits even during the pandemic.

Did those entities put that bail-out money toward staff? Heck no. So called hazard pay was a hit or miss proposition depending on the employer and even those who got hazard pay didn't get very much and it didn't last for very long.  It still makes me very angry that our wonderful government mandated substantial hazard pay for essential workers like grocery store and retail employees while health care employees weren't afforded the same.  I don't begrudge those other essential workers the bump in pay but it should have also been given to those of us who worked and continue to work in health care through this crisis. 

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As to the title of this article:

Did nurses knowingly "sign up" for the bloody messes and suffering of the Civil War, or WWI, or WWII, or Korea, or Vietnam? Did they "sign up" for children in iron lungs, young men dying of respiratory failure alone because their families disowned them and hospitals often didn't let their lovers visit, the Christly-awful plague of injury and death related to guns and bombs in our country?

Short answer: We might not have known it, but yes indeedy, we did. Only the details differ. The care people need from us remains the same.

As to the conclusions that we need to do self care because we're crazy if we expect it from anyone else: Well, way to blame the victim.

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Laboratorian said:

I'm sorry this is happening to y'all. I am witnessing hospital infrastructure collapse and the government is not taking it serious at all. 

But that is because the hospital lobbyists have Congress and CMS Medicare in their back pocket!  Instead of demanding safe staffing they are caving to hospital's cries for more money and they can't get enough nurses so let it be OK to make due with unsafe staffing ratios when the big hospital corporations made massive profits during covid with the help of government bailout! 

The government was trying to help but many of  the hospitals just used that money as a slush fund to increase their profit margin and bonuses for those at the top!  Now some hospitals were and are in trouble and even have closed because of the increased pressure of covid and those would be community inner city and rural hospitals.  Ironically some of the inner city hospitals that have closed were part of these profitable massive healthcare even "non-profit" conglomerates that refused to subsidize them and instead moved profitable procedures like surgeries out of the hospital as an excuse for it to be so money losing they had no choice but to close.  Although they sometimes keep it going as an outpatient center as that is more profitable to them.  So they renege on their public non profit obligations in the face of generating more profit!

Until medicare and the government actually takes a firm stance with these hospitals nothing will improve.  Now instead of fixing things they just continue to use short staffing from covid as an excuse to keep short staffing and even worsen staffing levels which only drives more nurses out of the bedside sooner!