My day as a patient

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On Tuesday I checked into the Hospital @ 1100 for Surgery @ 1300, a Hysterectomy. All was great in pre-op. The nurses were awesome, even the Doc's performing my surgery and the anesthesiologist were a barrel of laughs. Off to surgery I went without a hitch. A wonderful experience!!

Post-op...what a nightmare!! I remember being told before going into surgery since Med-Surg was full I would be taken to Obstetrics after recovery which was fine with me. The areas of the body being tended to were the same (LOL) so what the heck!! I remember being wheeled into my room and transfering myself onto the bed, which wasn't easy or pretty to say the least! The pad under me was pretty much dragged along under my butt where it remained very twisted and wrinkled due to my dragging butt. When I say it remained, I mean it remained. Every single movement on my part immediately after recovery was extremly painful. I was of course hooked to an IV pole by my left hand, O2 tubing via nasal cannula, and of course both legs were attached to the pressure wraps and tubes to prevent clotting. Thus, I was pretty much unable to move! At 1900 my two grown kids came into the room and as my son stood staring at my foley bed bag he began sobbing uncontrollably. My daughter began hugging him and yelling at me..."How could you have Cancer and not tell us, what is wrong with you??" Instead of OB I was instead taken to the Oncology ward and had not been told. It took many tears and my nurse to convince my kids I DID NOT have Cancer!! That noc a CNA came into the room to take my vitals @ 0100 and proceeded to tell me she was going to keep the B/P cuff on my right arm so it could take my vitals as ordered. I found out later that morning I was on Q4hr vitals and the machine never automatically went off. She had set the machine for 0800. So I laid in bed with the cuff tight around my arm keeping me awake, for no reason other than she didn't want to bother coming into my room @ 0500 for the required readings. I was finally able to have the IV and the Foley DC'd along with taking the wraps to both legs. As I was helped up I realized the immense pain on my backside was from the blood soaked pad that remained wrinkled under me for 17 hours. I asked for breakfast @ 0700 and after asking again @ 0800 and 0900 I finally had a dietary aide come barging into my room as I was exposed while my Foley was being removed. She was upset at being yelled at for not bringing the menu to my room @ 0700 and refused to leave until I gave her my order, all while I'm lying there exposed and embarrassed. By 1700 that noc I had had enough and was asking to leave. I had gotten up to go to the bathroom and d/t the bloody discharge running down my leg when I stood I began crying when I realized I had yet to be brought any clean linens, towels, anything. I had been 28 hrs post op and had yet to be offered so much as a washcloth and towel to freshen up with. Due to my crying the nurse immediately came and began apologizing, when I told her I was leaving. I wanted my Discharge papers right then. She left to speak to the Dr. who had requested I stay 1 more day when I talked to him. The Oncology Nurse Manager came to give her apologies and explained they had no way of knowing the CNA's had not done anything for me since they had been signing off on all tasks they were required to do for their shift. They had even written vitals down for times they never took them. I had been one big neglect case who ended up with two falsifying aides!! I made it clear to the NM I was leaving, what hadn't been done for me, the vitals not taken and everything I could think to blurt out in my 15 minute tirade before I left. I would NEVER allow my aides to treat anyone in my care that way, yet there I was, in pain and vulnerable, allowing them to give me the absolute worst care ever. The NM proceeded to tell me it was so hard to find good aides , and that due to all the cutbacks the CNA's were no longer to automatically bring fresh clean linens into all the rooms. Only if they were obviously soiled were they to be changed. My pad and sheets were so blood soaked the mattress was stained thru all the layers yet I was still not brought any. And yes the CNA did see the stains when he DC'd my Foley. I made the comment, "Now I can get up, wash up and get a clean bed, yet he never brought any linens to make that happen. Have hospitals become so focused on the bottom line that they no longer care about the treatment of their patients??? My surgery went well, I am now home for my recovery since Wednesday noc and am very grateful to be home. I pray I never have to be hospitalized again for I would most likely receive better care at the local animal hospital, they seem to have much more compassion.:mad:

Specializes in M/S, MICU, CVICU, SICU, ER, Trauma, NICU.

I'm sorry you went through this. Just a suggestion for next time, which is what I did when I had surgery, you need your family (preferably at the bedside) at all times.

I did scare the bajeebers out of my nurse (he was young and obviously inexperienced) when my IV went out, I told him, "you have one chance and only one chance. You blow this and you need to call your best IV person in here."

He was so scared by my assertion that he called in the NM from the ER to put in my IV.

I don't play well because of experiences like yours. I know to avoid it and highly suggest that if you ever have this happen again, make sure you've got "your team" in situ....

My 2 cents.

P.S. Your kids were a little dramatic, though, don't ya think?

Specializes in pediatric critical care.

I'm not sure how asking the OP why she didn't better stand up for herself is useful. Regardless of her nursing background, she should not have had to tolerate such abysmal care, nor should she have to micro-manage her nurses and CNAs to obtain good care. Her basic needs weren't even met, she was ignored and disrespected, and sadly enough, when she did bring it to someone's attention, excuses were made by management. So many red flags went up as I read this post, I was shocked. And if it was happening to her, you can bet it was happening to other patients on that floor as well. Now, I work in a hospital, and I know unexpected things can happen that divert your attention from your patients, but for that many people to screw up during her entire stay is unforgivable. Just my :twocents:.

OP, I'm so sorry that you had to endure such horrible postop care. I hope your recovery at home went well and you are feeling 100% again!

Specializes in M/S, MICU, CVICU, SICU, ER, Trauma, NICU.
i hate to sound like a jerk but...did you ever think to use the call light and ask for your nurse?

i mean if i was waiting more than 30 minutes for things i'd let my nurse know problem fixed. i notice a lot of patients don't speak up until the last minute.

i'm sure the nurse was in your room more than once that night you could have told them.

i want to agree that as a patient, she should've spoken up...but, i am assuming she was under the influence of meds and extremely vulnerable.

i have to put the onus on the care team. which obviously sucked....

as a recovery room nurse, i have to add that as a post surgical patient, op--you are expected to move to your own bed. it is mandatory. we need to know that all effects of surgery are minimized...but that pad under your buttocks for 17 hours....did anyone turn you? check out your backside? nothing?

just so wrong. i would've had people's heads on a plate. and i mean for breakfast.

Specializes in Emergency & Trauma/Adult ICU.
I'm sorry you went through this. Just a suggestion for next time, which is what I did when I had surgery, you need your family (preferably at the bedside) at all times.

I did scare the bajeebers out of my nurse (he was young and obviously inexperienced) when my IV went out, I told him, "you have one chance and only one chance. You blow this and you need to call your best IV person in here."

He was so scared by my assertion that he called in the NM from the ER to put in my IV.

I don't play well because of experiences like yours. I know to avoid it and highly suggest that if you ever have this happen again, make sure you've got "your team" in situ....

My 2 cents.

Ah, yes ... the "you've got one shot" threat. Love it. So *very helpful* in getting good IV access for the patient with which to continue treatment ... Because, ya know, I've got so much time on my hands that if someone doesn't make that threat, I'm inclined to **** around and stick them multiple times just for the fun of it.

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.
Ah, yes ... the "you've got one shot" threat. Love it. So *very helpful* in getting good IV access for the patient with which to continue treatment ... Because, ya know, I've got so much time on my hands that if someone doesn't make that threat, I'm inclined to **** around and stick them multiple times just for the fun of it.

I am pretty darned good at starting IVs after years of exp. in areas where you have to get it right. But when someone throws that card, I just say, "Fine," and I go find someone else right away. I can't be bothered with someone who has that kind of attitude and tries to threaten or intimidate me. I've got better things to do than be bullied.

Specializes in Med/Surg/Tele/Onc.
I am pretty darned good at starting IVs after years of exp. in areas where you have to get it right. But when someone throws that card, I just say, "Fine," and I go find someone else right away. I can't be bothered with someone who has that kind of attitude and tries to threaten or intimidate me. I've got better things to do than be bullied.

I have said to patients (in a joking manner), "Are you sure you want to talk that way to the person holding the needle?"

Specializes in NICU.

Nurse or not, asking why she didn't advocate for herself post surgery seems kind of strange. She was in pain, possibly a bit loopy thanks to meds, her family was disoriented (Onco instead of OB unit). I would find it hard to stick up for myself in that kind of situation.

I find your post extremely difficult to read without paragraphs, it's very hard on the eyes!

Specializes in Telemetry.
I am sorry but have you ever had major surgery? Today so many surgeries are short stay and nurses do spend the time they use to. Following surgery, we are in pain, even back on a floor we are still under the post opt effect of anesthia, and not able to think straight, let a lone stand up for ourselves. And even when we are, we tend to excuse our peers, knowing they might be working short staff. Or hoping that is the reason for our poor care. There are many good nurse providing good to excellent care. We just happen to get the few bad ones.

GrannyRN65

Yes, i have had major surgery! Also, i have no issues with standing up for myself. I never said that the way she was treated was ok. I just can't stand when pt let things build up instead of speaking up for themselves. What was the harm in me asking that question? Sheesh, calm down!

I am sorry to hear when anyone receives poor care.

However, there are two sides (three sides) to every story, and for all of these we are only hearing the perception of one side.

Specializes in LTC.

I would be writing letters to anyone at the hospital that is someone. I would defininatly add the director of dietary to that list as there is NO reason a dietary aide has to be in a room when a foley is being removed.

Specializes in NICU.
Yes, i have had major surgery! Also, i have no issues with standing up for myself. I never said that the way she was treated was ok. I just can't stand when pt let things build up instead of speaking up for themselves. What was the harm in me asking that question? Sheesh, calm down!

That maybe for you, but for me after an abdominal surgery, I was constantly throwing up and unable to think about anything but the nausea and the pain. I was lucky that my dad was there (he's an RN) and advocated for a change in medication for me. There's no harm in asking that question. It's just that different people handle being ill different ways.

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