lonely girl

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hi name is n. and i am currently in lpn school 1 month left to the finish but ever since i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years its like when weekends come and i did all my stydying and good on all my test i feel like life has nothing to offer its sad cause i was with him for 3 years and now i am alone.... he helped me with getting in to school and he was there for me :heartbeat anyway i just wanted to say that :bluecry1: i dont want to go crazy and i need to keep studying which i am doing but it just feels weird being alone with out him when i have some free time.....

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Break ups can be tough. But being single also has many advantages. I am sorry for the loss of your relationship. Take the time to mourn the relationship. The times when people are single are when they are able to become the best they can, and have more to bring to the table in future relationships. In time you will get used to being w/out your bf and you will find other things to do. good luck.

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Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.

I am sorry to hear about your break up. You have to look at this from another perspective, though. You can channel that energy to complete this last month of school. Don't give him the power of losing all that you worked on. You are SO close to your dream! Let him see that you were able to move on to become an LPN, and if you see him years later, a nursing administrator of a department; if that is your dream. Grieve, yes...he was a very significant part of your life and you said that he did help you with school. But, time is nigh, and there is much work to do. Don't let your grades and efforts slip behind this. Let the best healer be success.

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thank you guys for that great advice i am glad someone wrote back to me i feel alive in this website lol

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Specializes in Geriatrics.

Hi!! You just put all of your energy into your dreams of the future- dont even think about the past. It is all now about you and your future! You will love being a nurse, and the feeling of being proud of yourself is an amazing feeling. Keep your chin up, smile and go for your goals. I wish you all the luck in the world- but yet, Iknow you will do well!! :)

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I went through something similar when I was a student LVN and I know how hard it can be. As a matter of fact, I was in my last month or so of school. It may feel really bad for you but be strong and really focus on finishing, you'll feel so good about yourself! It may be hard to believe, but you will move on, in time and you won't hurt like you are now. Work hard at your goal, the finish line is in sight!:yeah:

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hey thanks so much guys you are all right but i still feel like something is missing but i just hope one day when school is over me and him can meet again and it will be better then ever.....

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Specializes in Community Health, Med-Surg, Home Health.

What happened that made the two of you break up?

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Specializes in Geriatrics.

Oh Girl Please, When You Start Making That Money You'll Forget All About Him :)---joe Who????lol

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