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does it bother anyone else that doctors are always called "Dr. Soandso" but nurses get called by their first name instead of "Ms/Mrs/Mr Nurse"
ok like I said, its a really insignifcant complaint... but it kind of irked me today.
I have no problem being called by my first name, that is how I introduce myself to pts. And we call all our pts by their first names as well, part of the informal atmosphere of our clinic. I will call a physician Dr _______ when speaking to a pt, but one on one we all use first names. Even some of our pts call the physicians by their first name, no one minds in our clinic. We treat our pts as equals, and using first names only is part of that. We can have last names on our ID if we want, but most of us choose not to.
I would like to be called my first name. Most people though won't call me by my first name, instead they shorten it even if I say I prefer the original. To make matters worse there is a Nursing show with my name. So I get called that.
I don't like being called Mrs. anything. It makes me feel old.
I dont' mind my first name. I also tell patients that I will answer to "hey you", "nurse" or "help" or even an inarticulate yelp if they can't remember my name.
I wouldn't like to be called "Nurse RidiculouslyLongAndHardToPronounceLastName". Spare us all! "Nurse" is perfectly fine.
As for the physicians, I am more than happy to address them as Dr. So-and-So. Anyone that has earned a Doctorate degree, in my opinion, is entitled to the title. There are some docs who are called "Dr. FirstName" or "Dr. Nick-Name". If any of them want to invite me to call them by his or her first name, then I would do so. I also address my patients as "Mr./Mrs./Miss/Dr" unless they ask otherwise.
This has been a pet peeve of mine for a long time. I am in my mid-50's, and I don't like to be called by my first name, especially by patients who are in their teens or early 20's. In other words, much, much younger than me. Every place where I have worked, we were required to call the patients by their last name, such as Mr./Mrs./Ms. So-and-So, but the patients were to be told to call us by our first names. We also have to call all doctors/residents/interns "Dr. So-and So." It is hard to be thought of as a professional when you are treated this way. Calling nurses by their first name takes away any semblance of respect for our profession. Other professions wouldn't dream of this, unless they are waitresses, cashiers, etc., but any degreed professional would expect to be addressed as such.
EDnursetobe
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that was my point...
and why I'll never work psych.