Published Aug 23, 2009
KarynicaRN
138 Posts
This is just a general gripe, but I would like some input on this, so here goes:
My 25 year old daughter works for a CILA home. She started out as a DSP,
was also trained as a med-tech and now is the evening supervisor at the
DD facility she works. She thumps her chest and prides herself in being a
"professional".
Now, please don't get me wrong because this girl is MY daughter, but she is
a raging alcoholic and drug user, but remember...she is a "professional".
Last night I was talking to my husband about a supreme court case involving
some people in our town. I live in a very rural area and everyone knows that
these people are in prison because of what they did to another person. My
daughter walks in on the tail end of the conversation and says sarcastically,
"RN mother breaking the HIPAA act, you should know better" I told her to mind
her own business, we were talking about a published supreme court judging on
the people in our town that were sent to prison. It dates back to 2004 and it
is being used as a tool for law students because it has many useful parts that
had never been addressed before in a court of law. It's on the net, for crying
out loud.
So, I get chastized for talking about the news and a published legal document. Who is teaching these young people about HIPAA and do they even really know what it means?
JMA-RN2B
18 Posts
Did you care for the victim or the people tried for the crime? What medical relationship did you have to these people? I you didn't violate HIPPA if it is published knowledge and you didn't give medical details that were not in the court records.
ghillbert, MSN, NP
3,796 Posts
How does she think it's violating HIPAA if you weren't looking after these people?
caliotter3
38,333 Posts
If you weren't caring for these people then it wasn't a HIPAA violation. If it were, there would be plenty of people and institutions facing criminal and civil penalties in the nation today. You can talk about anything that you want to in the privacy of your own home when you have no legal ties to the subject you are discussing. Your daughter spoke off the top of her head.
Let me just clarify. The people in question were never in my care at any facility. They were never my patients/residents or even friends. Hope this
helps :)
I remember back in nursing school being taught about privacy and how just being in an elevator and talking about someone without even mentioning their name could give away important information, especially if someone in the elevator could be a family member.
I just can't believe my daughter being the "professional" that she is could spout off something so ridiculous to me. I did tell her that I was talking about an event that happened back in 2004 and that everyone in the community knows about this event because it was covered all over our state because it could have caused someone to lose their life.
I think I might just tell my daughter she needs to read up on HIPAA again. Obviously she doesn't know much about it.
Divest
53 Posts
Maybe she didn't mean it literally, but was trying to bug you.
In this particular instance, I don't know who to trust. You seem to discredit her by saying that she's a drug user and an alcoholic and not a professional, but that could just mean her parents are wound up so tight and are so displaced from her generation that they look down on her for the differences.
What I mean to say is this: My buddy is often described as this RAGING ALCOHOLIC and a DRUGGIE by his parents. Often I hear them talk about him to their friends. They'll say things like they're going to turn him in, or send him to rehab if he doesn't recover. They pretty much disown him and put him down at every chance they get. They say things to him like "Well maybe you should stop doing D-R-U-G-S." Insisting that it's affecting his work performance whenever he has a bad day. He doesn't use while at work, mind you.
The reality of the situation is that he's 24, drinks quite a bit (Friday, Saturday, and the occassional weekday whenever there's a special occassion) and smokes pot. He's 24 for christ's sake. He's going to be drinking, partying, and having fun because he's of that age. He keeps a job, he has finished most of his education, and he's very responsible. By no means is he a druggie, alcoholic, or anything else simply because he likes to go out and have fun. Sure, he may get carried away sometimes and have a little bit TOO much fun, but that's not withstanding. I don't drink or smoke pot, but I can tell you that by no means do I look down at him for doing so. If I enjoyed those things, I wouldn't hesitate to do them simply because my parents were so far detached from my generation that they criticized my every choice.
If I had parents criticizing my every choice, acting like the world still revolves around films like reefer madness, and putting me down for the way I like to have fun, you're damn straight I would be obnoxious and try to get under their skin whenever I had the opportunity.
Now, I'm not saying that this is your situation, but I don't feel comfortable sitting back and assuming that you're not as equally as guilty as your daughter is. You did, after all, spend the first half of your post putting her down.
mcleanl
176 Posts
Kary,
With all due respect.....don't you have any bigger fish to fry?
ok, I see that some people are not understanding nor maybe have I given the correct
information.
My daughter tries to discredit me all the time in front of others. She has tried in the
past to make me look like an idiot, much to her displeasure. If you could just see her
room, those of you who are nurses would probably call public health.
How would you feel if your daughter is always in trouble with the law? Has a rap sheet?
Is known around town as the "drunk"...and she has the nerve to call me out claiming
I am violating HIPAA.
I guess I came to the wrong place to talk about this. I won't bring up my private life
again.
Tait, MSN, RN
2,142 Posts
ok, I see that some people are not understanding nor maybe have I given the correctinformation. My daughter tries to discredit me all the time in front of others. She has tried in thepast to make me look like an idiot, much to her displeasure. If you could just see herroom, those of you who are nurses would probably call public health. How would you feel if your daughter is always in trouble with the law? Has a rap sheet?Is known around town as the "drunk"...and she has the nerve to call me out claimingI am violating HIPAA.I guess I came to the wrong place to talk about this. I won't bring up my private lifeagain.
Don't stress :) I understand, you are venting and that is ok :)
As to the original question, no you didn't violate HIPPA, at all. Your daughter has a misunderstanding of HIPPA, and potentially may need a refresher from work since she is now a supervisor. I would hope a supervisor would have a very clear understanding of HIPPA since it applies every single day.
As to the additional stresses, I am sorry your daughter embarrasses you in your community, and I am sorry that she is also battling addictions. I hope in the future she will seek help, even if it may not be from you, and that you can mend your relationship to a more respectful one.
Take care!
:icon_hug:
Tait
abbaking
441 Posts
Sounds like you and your daughter need to have a serious chat - More importantly this all sounds like he said/she said nit picking.
Your whole post seems like you are having a power stuggle with your daughter - and has nothing to do with HIPAA.
Spare us all
What I mean to say is this: My buddy is often described as this RAGING ALCOHOLIC and a DRUGGIE by his parents... The reality of the situation is that he's 24, drinks quite a bit (Friday, Saturday, and the occassional weekday whenever there's a special occassion) and smokes pot. By no means is he a druggie
Well, depends on your definition, but if he uses drugs, regardless of whether he's a drug abuser... he actually is a "druggie".
BabyLady, BSN, RN
2,300 Posts
She clearly doesn't know what HIPAA means either.
At my hospital, we have had a couple of "odd" births that have made the paper.
As long as I talk about what has been published, I am not violating HIPAA.
I was recently at a seminar and those of mixed departments was at my table, someone asked about one of our births...before I started the conversation, I said, "It's been in the paper, but what I can tell you is...." and I only talked about the medical updates that had been published or on the news.
That way, others at the table, knew I wasn't in violation as well.
HIPAA is not a mystery...it's simple. I have noticed that people that claim to be "HIPAA experts" are the most clueless because they think everything is a violation...and it's not.