I never, ever went to ER when I was a kid

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We were sitting around talking last night at work. Another barely sick kid was in room 4 and it got us on the subject. I have a lot of kids and, in my many years of parenting only used the ER once, when my son split his sinuses open crashing into a dumpster on his bike, and required emergency surgery.

Then I realized, as a child, I had never been to the ER. When I was six years old I went head first falling off a bike while we were visiting family friends. I was knocked out for several minutes, I was later told. They brought me inside, I was bleeding, I remember waking up in my Mom's friend's arms, they were wiping blood off me. Then, they brought me over to their other friend's doctor husband's office and he stitched me up in the office, 5 stitches in my cheek and my chin too. He did a darned good job of it too, I don't have a scar. No head CT, they didn't have that back in 1964. I wore bandages over half my face for a week, I looked like a mummy.

When did people start going to ERs for totally stupid reasons? My mother would have never thought of bringing us to the ER for the sniffles.

Specializes in RN.

From what I witness at my place of work, my opinion and un scientific study :-):

I truly believe that most of the parents bringing in their "sick" children, are most times, not even convinced that their children are sick.

It has become a source of entertainment for the uneducated masses.

The entitlement mindset also drives people to come to the ED with their kids because "they are entitled." They shouldn't have to have or call a PCP. Besides, the walk in clinic might even ask for $15 copay, and "why should I have to pay that when I can just go to the ED?"

The uneducated masses really believe that there is a magical "fix" for every little ache or pain or sniffle...

I went to the ED once as a child, 12 yrs old, something flew out of a tree, stung my neck, and within seconds I was in anaphylaxis! Thank goodness I was near a Ranger Station who knew where the hospital was!!!

Another teen experience of mine: winter time, standing on a bridge with huge snow drifts underneath. I had braces, my buddy thought it would be fun to push me over the bridge into the snow bank. However, the old cast iron railing was only as high as my mid thigh. I got pushed, my thighs hit the railing, and my face slammed against the side of that concrete bridge, my braces tearing open my upper lip, deep. Luckily the braces didn't go all the way through, man did that bleed!! I walked home, my folks said " hold some ice on it and keep it clean. No ED, no Doctor...healed up pretty well, no visible scar on the outside.

Specializes in Pediatrics, PICU, Peds ER.

I only recall going to ER for OD of phenobarbital at age of 4. We thought it was special candy only my sister got. And then at age 15 when my appendix ruptured. It ruptured because my my mom insisted the pain was menstral and told me to suck it up for 3 days.

Specializes in NICU, ICU, PICU, Academia.

My one and only childhood ER trip was when I was in diapers. My dad had set his can of beer down next to his chair while he watched TV. I crawled behind the chair and drank it. THEN (this was in the days before pop-tops) I stuck my little thumb in the triangular opening.

And I mean stuck. They could not get my thumb out, and finally took me in. I was drunk too! My mother was mortified as, apparently, I stood in the crib, banging the beer can up and down the rails like some tiny, demented jailbird, singing at the top of my lungs.

Yes, the 1950s version of CPS was called. Poor mom!

And it is the only time I've ever been drunk.

Specializes in Emergency.

I was in the ER several times as a kid.

I was 3-4 and being stupid in day care and split my chin open, needed sutures. When I was 5, I fell off a slide and had a humeral neck fracture. In my teen years, I went a few times - after a car accident (parents insisted, even though I didn't want to), after I had another accident wherein I fell and lacerated my inner jaw down to the bone & required the OMFS guys, and another time when I sat down on the couch and impaled my elbow with some kind of upholstery pin.

For minor things though (earaches, sore throats, etc.), my parents were rational and just took me to my PCP.

*knock on wood* Thankfully my accident prone-ness seems to have stopped at age 16.

Specializes in School Nursing.

Never went as a kid, even when at age three, I got a 3rd degree burn from a fire place screen on my face. Of course there was a blizzard at the time and no way for me to get there!

I brought my son to the ER when he was 15 months old, it was a weekend and he had a fever reach 104 with Tylenol.. it turned out he had pneumonia, so I'm pretty solid in my choice to take him, though it would have been his PCP had the office been open at the time. Luckily, the pedi has 'walk in' hours now six days a week in the morning and afternoon, so anytime something acute arises with my kids, ER hasn't been necessary.

Specializes in School Nursing.
My one and only childhood ER trip was when I was in diapers. My dad had set his can of beer down next to his chair while he watched TV. I crawled behind the chair and drank it. THEN (this was in the days before pop-tops) I stuck my little thumb in the triangular opening.

And I mean stuck. They could not get my thumb out, and finally took me in. I was drunk too! My mother was mortified as, apparently, I stood in the crib, banging the beer can up and down the rails like some tiny, demented jailbird, singing at the top of my lungs.

Yes, the 1950s version of CPS was called. Poor mom!

And it is the only time I've ever been drunk.

Poor mom indeed. The visual had me laughing out loud though.

Specializes in NICU, ICU, PICU, Academia.
Poor mom indeed. The visual had me laughing out loud though.

To this day, my dad (age 85) does not let whatever it is he is drinking get out of his sight.

Specializes in OR/PACU/med surg/LTC.

At my hospital, the ER is often used as a walk in due to only having a walk-in clinic two mornings a week. We also get a lot of cottagers here so they come in the summer. We see a lot of minor things.

I had to go to the ER last night at 2130 and I felt like a fool. I was 99% positive I had a uti but the walk in clinic closed right at the end of my shift. I was miserable and still had three more 12s ahead of me. Probably a good thing I did, bc the bacteria load in my urine was pretty bad. But man did I hate being there for a stupid uti.

Specializes in Cardio-Pulmonary; Med-Surg; Private Duty.
I had to go to the ER last night at 2130 and I felt like a fool. I was 99% positive I had a uti but the walk in clinic closed right at the end of my shift. I was miserable and still had three more 12s ahead of me. Probably a good thing I did, bc the bacteria load in my urine was pretty bad. But man did I hate being there for a stupid uti.

Been there, done that... IMO, blood coming out of your urinary tract counts as an emergent condition, not something that can wait for an office visit a few days later!

And you're certainly not going to be doing your patients any good if you're on the toilet every five minutes!

Specializes in ER, ICU.

Twice, once for stitches in my face, and the other for a crushed toe. When the kid down the street fell off his bike and suffered a serious skull fracture, his Mom drove him to the ER. The only time I saw anyone in my small rural town get in an ambulance they were a multi-trauma patient who was clearly dying (he survived). 911 has changed the world, that's for sure. But listen, it's all job security. The motorcycle rider who doesn't wear his helmet, the guy who says "hold my beer", the patient who has had a headache for 27 years (true story). God bless them!

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