I never, ever went to ER when I was a kid

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We were sitting around talking last night at work. Another barely sick kid was in room 4 and it got us on the subject. I have a lot of kids and, in my many years of parenting only used the ER once, when my son split his sinuses open crashing into a dumpster on his bike, and required emergency surgery.

Then I realized, as a child, I had never been to the ER. When I was six years old I went head first falling off a bike while we were visiting family friends. I was knocked out for several minutes, I was later told. They brought me inside, I was bleeding, I remember waking up in my Mom's friend's arms, they were wiping blood off me. Then, they brought me over to their other friend's doctor husband's office and he stitched me up in the office, 5 stitches in my cheek and my chin too. He did a darned good job of it too, I don't have a scar. No head CT, they didn't have that back in 1964. I wore bandages over half my face for a week, I looked like a mummy.

When did people start going to ERs for totally stupid reasons? My mother would have never thought of bringing us to the ER for the sniffles.

Specializes in ER.

I went one time, when I was a toddler and somehow managed to do some sort of flip off of the couch and get a butter knife stabbed in my eye. (Why I had a butter knife as a kid - who knows LOL) I really don't remember it. Maybe it's because my dad is/was a nurse, so we avoided going there unless absolutely necessary.

Parents who take their children to the ER....the child may not have insurance or be in a period of time where there's a lapse in Medicaid coverage for whatever reason. That's not a good reason, but it's the way it is. Or, perhaps the parents overreact to something that's really minor...IDK. There's kids who come in for things that I wouldn't even take my kids to their PCP for.

Specializes in ER.
That's what I want to tell people....if you (or your child) is just a little sick (for example, a simple cold), the ER is the worst place to be. Why expose yourself to all these germs just because you want your/their cough x2 days checked? Then again, customer services scores prevent me from telling anyone that. Heck, why would we want to help people be healthier when it comes at the expense of decent PG scores later??

And don't even get me started on kids crawling on the floor (or worse!).

I wait until they make a comment about how long the wait is...then my reply is that it's an emergency room, and that there are emergencies that take priority over your child's condition.

I think it's part of the helicopter parenting that is common now-a-days. Coddling and overreaction are part of that sometimes. I've been to the ER twice as a kid. Once when I broke my elbow falling of the ladder part of the old school slides when I was 3 and once when I was a pre teen and burned the top half of my forearm with boiling water (my mom's method of sanitizing water in lieu of filter). I've have yet to bring my 3.5 yo and 9 month old to the ER. Shoot, the peds regula visits are starting to seem pointless to me.

Specializes in Geriatrics, Home Health.

In my area, Urgent Care doesn't take Medicaid or Medicare.

I volunteered in an ER for 3 yers. A lot of patients came in for minor ailments, during normal business hours, because their PCP told them to go to the ER.

I know many people who misuse the ER, and I wonder why? I absolutely hate the ER (no offense ER nurses, you rock!) I just hate waiting.

I have, unfortunately, been one of those silly moms once, and only once. I was putting baby latches on my kitchen cabinets and my two year old grabbed a screw (a small one but with a sharp point) and took off running. When I caught her, she shoved something in her mouth and I swear I thought it was the screw. I was a new mom, and I went into a panic thinking that screw was going to shred her from the inside out. I even got out an old metal detector and tried to see if it detect the screw in her belly. So we went to the ER and had X-rays done...no screw. I felt pretty silly for a long time ?

Specializes in Aged care, disability, community.

We've done a couple of midnight trips with the small one for croup, when the redipred isn't working and he's got stridor and starting to cyanose, I'm sorry but I don't have an o2 tank at home so ED it is. We did one trip with ciguatera poisoning, 2 for head injuries and one for a temp of 40c that wasn't dropping even with meds and he wasn't eating or drinking anything. I did a few trips as a kid due to asthma and febrile convulsions and 3 as an adult, one with Asthma, one passing out in the shower and not being coherent when I came to and one with PV bleeding when 10 weeks pregnant with said child mentioned above. The temp one we saw our PCP who is also a paed and he rang the hospital and said we'd be there in 5 minutes.

Specializes in ER.

I think to a certain degree some of the issue is that you can't take a kid into a pcp most of the time. They are too busy to see you. I remember being sent home from school because I had a skin avulsion that wouldn't stop bleeding. I didn't want to go to the doctor and I didn't even feel like going home but the school made me. In fact, I just wanted a bandaid. My doctor was too busy so we went to the urgent care that had 2 hour wait time so we went to the ER which took 40 minutes and a forced xray (once again, I whined). I remember them trying to get me to sit in the wheelchair which once again I whined about.

I was going to even drive myself but the school wouldn't let me.

This occurred around 2007ish.

As a child I ended up in the ER 3 times, twice for N/V with severe dehydration and temps of 102-105F that required IV fluids and once because I managed to take a ton of dog antibiotics so I had my stomach pumped and activated charcoal given to me.

Specializes in ED/trauma.

Like you, I remember a few bigger injuries. A few were pretty gnarly abrasions, one of which got infected for a bit, but my mom always tended to them at home. Another, I had a pretty bad radius fracture. My mom took me to a quick care for it. They ended up sending me to an ER because it was beyond their ability to cast.

The other day, I had a mom get annoyed that it was taking me so long to bring Tylenol/Motrin to her febrile kiddo. Temp > 103. And she's annoyed at me. Go to the dollar store and then read up on how to parent your child properly! No way in hello my mom would have taken me to the ER for a fever!

Specializes in Pediatric/Adolescent, Med-Surg.
Like you, I remember a few bigger injuries. A few were pretty gnarly abrasions, one of which got infected for a bit, but my mom always tended to them at home. Another, I had a pretty bad radius fracture. My mom took me to a quick care for it. They ended up sending me to an ER because it was beyond their ability to cast.

The other day, I had a mom get annoyed that it was taking me so long to bring Tylenol/Motrin to her febrile kiddo. Temp > 103. And she's annoyed at me. Go to the dollar store and then read up on how to parent your child properly! No way in hello my mom would have taken me to the ER for a fever!

Don't you love it when they don't give any Tylenol or Motrin before coming to the ER

good thing we now have a triage system that sort cases out. patients with minor case are lucky if they can be seen by an ER doctor in less than an hour. Though, even if it's not that busy, ER personel tend to make it also on purpose to delay them.

On the other hand, I think parents are just paranoid with regards to their children.

Specializes in Peds Urology,primary care, hem/onc.

I went to the ER once as a kid. For a concussion. I had fallen off my horse and had a brief LOC. It was not witnessed and when I got home and told my mom, she took me to the ER. I was luckily fine but did have a concussion. I had all kinds of bumps/bruises/fevers that my mom always took care of. My dad is an MD so we were the typical stereotype medical family. You only go to the Doctor/ER if you are dying. I did have an abscess on my ear after having a bad reaction to the earring when I got my ears pierced. My dad I&D it in my bedroom when I was 7. Normal kid may have gone to the ER for that one :).

I broke my toe once when I was 12 and we just buddy taped it and I used the crutches we had in the house and it was better in a few days. I did it again when I was in college (I am clutzy) and my dad was so upset with me that I did not go to the ER. I was in nursing school by that point and I knew what to do (just like he did when I was a kid). I teased him asking why I had to go to the ER as an adult and I didn't when I was a kid!

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