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Thank you in advance as I feel like a bit of an intruder here. I am incontinent (urinary) and was recently in the E.R. for chest pains. While I was there I informed the nurse of my condition and asked for diapers (as I had waited much longer to get a bed than I had anticipated and foolishly didn't bring enough supplies. It was a crowded evening.) The nurse seemed shocked that "at 41 I was much too young to have incontinence issues!" I have nearly always wet the bed and have had trouble during the day for the last year. She sighed and agreed to get me the needed briefs (by the way, I read the thread on what to call them and the word diapers doesn't phase me in the least) Yet I had to explain myself to the next 3 nurses as I was there for 21 hours, all but one looked at me as if I was from Mars.
My question is this, I was very tired, in pain and having a difficult time with the diapers as the wires and tubes were somewhat in the way and I really wanted to ask for help changing. Would this have been out of line for me to ask? I know you all work very hard and have much to do, yet I have thought about this a bit as I may be in the same situation in the future. Lastly, would there be a proper etiquette in how I ask this of my nurse to show that I do truly respect them and am not just attempting to be catered to?
Thank you for your time and allowing me to step in here for a moment.
Sincerely,
James